Creation of a monster

Daily, written moans and bitches blight my sight online. A never ending cycle always in motion repetitively,to no avail. What complaint could it be that I refer to,well I speak of the dreaded time waster sagas discussed and beaten like a dead nag.

I am going to feed you the brutal truth of the creation of the blackguard himself,and it is going to rankle some,but we cannot seek to please all,or sweep the truth under the proverbial rug,if alterations are ever to come through.

The surprising part for most is that I am going to lay the blame where it truly belongs,and that is on the females in this fetish,yup I said it,and I mean it. Males are not totally inept intellectually,and like pavlov's dogs they do learn when actions are repeated which produce positive results. Take your average fetish male new to the scene,he comes along after having been conditioned by femdom porn,or even a bit of vanilla porn(ugh),so he has in his mind already decided what he believes should be the course of action right? Now some of his thoughts might actually align with what occurs in a lifestyle bdsm relationship,or even of that with an escort who offers a little fifty shades of grey action,BUT findom is an animal of an entirely different sort,so he is forced to configure new ways to meet his wants.

So,what is a male to do that wants attention,wants humiliation,wants degradation,but does not want to pay tribute for it? He may scratch his balls for a quick minute til he sees that hey he can achieve this goal easily,with minimal effort on his part. Looking at twitter,kik,and fetish sites it becomes apparent that to receive the humiliation he so desperately wants,all he has to do is post a photo of his dick,and boom all kinds of attention comes his way FREE,yay him(and before someone irately speaks out that they do not fall for this,take a quick peek and see how many do). Degradation oh yes sweet degradation..this one is easy as well. Left and right insults are hurled(you are fake,oops someone fell for the cam verify cause they feared being called an insta or worse a man!!)..call a woman fat,old or ugly,and lightening fast females will respond with insult after insult..oh great globs of slimy sperm yes,degradation has been freely relayed and received! Wants met at no cost to their wallet. Wow see how simple that was for him? How do we as females shove a cork in the ass of these actions,by remaining silent of course. STOP feeding the bitches with comments on their little dicks,cause that will not produce your due worship or tribute. All it does is teach males that they can have their cake and eat it too. Cease giving them a rise when they hurl inane comments towards your person. A confident dominant female does NOT care for the opinions of sheep,she knows that she is worthy of worship,and disregards commentary to the contrary.

Since we have spoken of time wasters,let's move on to the miserly scrooges abounding around. Just as with the previous mentioned,these males behaviors have evolved once again due to actions on the feminine front. Open your eyes,and you will see scads of females offering sessions for pennies on the dollar,accepting $10 tributes(puke). Of course it all adds up,but here is the thing,you as a female are of more worth than any male will ever assign you,and by valuing your time and energy so low,you are merely encouraging other males to devalue your time and attention as well. See the point I am making?  Findom is not about getting rich I know this full well,but it is a proven fact that males will take advantage of females if they are given the opportunity to do so,and no this is not a slight to males,merely the nature of the beast,so my question would be why do you as dominant women allow yourself to be treated shabbily,when you deserve so much more? Not every male in this fetish is a millionaire,but you surely know that they can do a hell of alot better than you are receiving! $10 is NOT a sacrifice..and please before someone gets pissy and says "oh yes it is if that is all they have in their pocket",well if that is all they have,then they need to save up,get a better job,or step away,cause what they are offering is an insult,so please do not fall prey to it.

The balance of power has shifted,and we as women have allowed it. Any female who allows a male to top from the bottom for a few bucks encourages it,any female who chases carrots encourages it,any female who feeds trolls encourages it...my point being that it is time to take command of the reins,and teach these males that they do not call the shots,they do not rule femdom or findom. Either take a stand,or lay down with the dogs,but most importantly quit bitching about time wasters,and cheap bitches if you are not going to be a part of the solution.

real time clarification

Emails that I have received in regards to a recent post of mine about sessions,have shown me that a little bit of clarification is in order.

Yes I stated that I am interested in playing more real time,which in no way should lead anyone to conclude that I am open to cam sessions...two totally separate scenarios. C2C sessions hold no interest for me due to a)I am not an exhibitionist & b)watching males get off,does absolutely nothing for me personally(anyone that has read anything about me should already know that I am a proponent of males being neutered with chastity devices) The only pleasure plebs deserve,is the joy of enriching my life,so no I am not going to sit back and watch males pulling at their equipment which doesn't even cast a shadow at high noon.

Real time sessions interest me because they feed my inner sadist who delights in the deliverance of physical pain,so if you are one that is only able to serve online,either due to distance or time constraints,then your suffering comes in the form of finances,and should be viewed as your honor to sacrifice for me. Real time toys tribute for my time and attention,so I expect nothing less from those that serve me online...I actually expect more since they are not truly useful in any manner other than financing my decadent indulgences.

There is so much anger and disgust when it comes to outsiders viewing the financial domination realm. Why though? Most is due to a basic lack of education in regards to the fetish,and the rest is simply entitled selfishness. Ignorance can be taught,but the other appears to be too ingrained to eradicate.

 I mean seriously I have had males offer to bleed their dicks for me,but land forbid that they be expected to worship with their wallet. Pain is an intense motivator,but the almighty dollar even more so. People have and will kill for money,but why? Because money is power. Money provides the ability to feed,clothe,and house oneself. Throughout time itself those that have not,have been enamored by those that have,so it is only logical that males will hold tightly to that which they perceive as the root of their power base. This is exactly why I require a male to sacrifice financially for me. The effects of doing so outlast bruises on the ass.

The narcissist in me knows that I am worthy of worship,deserving of your suffering and sacrifice,but if you cannot or will not overcome your own sense of selfishness,then you are truly a loser,in the sense that you will lose out on serving perfection incarnate. It is entirely your choice though,for even though I may be a cougar in real life devouring the sex of cubs,in this arena my victims come willingly in supplication to my altar. They kneel before me begging to lay down their offerings,sans forceful provocation,enticement,or seduction. I am their Goddess,and their purpose is my happiness.

Serving or sessions

When I am screening a male for consideration to me,one of the predominant methods of ascertaining whether he is a viable candidate is to assess whether he wants for me or from me. Now if he wants from me,then he is automatically filed into the undesirable bin,and passed along,but if he is one of the very rare jewels whom wants for me,well then he is moved up to the front of the line. This process of weeding out is one of the surest routes that I know of as it is always successful.

As to how it works,that is simple. Seeing as I do not make initial contact,a male is placed in the position of gathering up his courage to reach out to me first,and generally by the lines of his first missive I am able to form an opinion of whether or not I desire to block or reply,which saves me precious time,that could have been wasted. Now you may be asking yourself,how can she tell that quickly if a male is worth her time,and the answer is that I have learned through experience,but I am willing to divulge a few tips.

 Boys if you are starting your correspondence with self centered motivation(I will see it) just from the words you elect to employ,such as "I want,I like,I need" I I I...yup you have just shown me that all you are focused on is you,and that is not the point of service. Another no no is spewing out fetish porn dialogue right off the bat,once again you are waving the wanker flag,and I am done with you before you began. Continuing forward. Do not send a little message saying "hi",why not,well it conveys laziness,and that is something that I avoid like the plague,nor do you put your best foot forward with a wee penis pic(ugh hot pokers in the eyes are preferable to that)

If any of what I described above resembles you,then welcome to the majority of men on the fetish sites,you are no longer in the minority. Before you get your dander flying,I am not condemning males whom are just around to get off and log out. What I am saying though is that you are worthless to any woman seeking actual service,and no most Dominas do not want to be your fapping friend. I truly wish I knew whom started that bullshit spiel about ladies getting off watching men pulling their little puds,so that I could slap them in the face with a flaccid wand. Seriously boys who told you that females want to turn on their cam,and masturbate watching you shove objects up your ass,or playing with your pecker? Now this is not entirely true,but do you know why? Yup cause there are tons of sites dedicated to women masturbating for your viewing pleasure,and even doing so whilst you are displaying your goods to them,BUT you are failing to realize that this is not the modus operandi for every site,in fact it is not one for most sites.

I digress,but my point is that,you know full well from the get go whether you are here to serve or to session with a cam model,and it is your responsibility to know which type of lady you are approaching prior to doing so. You waste more than your own time when you contact a Domina whom expects to be served if you are in it to win the sticky finger salute,so do everyone a favor,and join the sites where you are most likely to obtain your goal,whether it be serving or sessioning,and in the long run you will be happy that you did.