Strong Women Dominate

Welcome welcome to those that have ventured this far into the realm of Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire


Do take a seat, and get comfortable so to speak, because this may take a hot moment.

I have been mia for some time over the last few months, and a few of you did reach out to ascertain whether I was well, and I do want to relay that I appreciate your concern on my behalf, but all is well with me. It is quite easy to tire of riding the merry go round over and over, and what I mean by that, is that my brain sickened of hearing the same excuses, and attempts at deceit on the daily. I needed a break from the cycle, so I logged off, and took it upon my self to travel around the states, and strengthen my bonds with family, and friends, which on it's own did much to alleviate the disappointment of continuing online drama sagas. 

I will tell you right now that if you spend inordinate amounts of time online interacting with males, than you will soon tire as well. Online behavior is not reflective of real life actions, least I surely hope not, for if so, than males are doomed as a sex. I have encountered the very worst type of behaviors displayed by males online, and it unfortunately does skew one's views and opinions in relation to the entire gender. 

Fortunately for me, clarity did come with distance, which means that I am back, but I will definitely be handling things much differently. My tolerance for lies, selfishness, and drama is at an all time low. Life truly is too short to accept into my company those that are undeserving of it. 

Other changes include

What is it that I do not care about...your dick, your erections, your orgasms. None of the mentioned items are essential or even relevant towards my happiness, and satisfaction in life, and since my FemDomPire is all about me, well that means that anything or anyone who is not benefiting the FemDomPire is undesirable, and rejected.

The entirety of male focus online is their dick, and taking action to gratify that appendage. This is unacceptable in service to me. 

I do not want to hear about what your dick wants. I do not want to see pictures of your dick. I do not want to help you make your dick ejaculate. I want nothing to do with your dick period.

The goal of a submissive is to please whoever holds their reins, and that should be the entire basis behind their statements and actions. There is no room in the relationship for submissive self. You are either serving, or you are seeking to be served, and the latter is not welcome in my empire.  

I was a no nonsense woman prior to my vacation, and even more so now. I will allot zero time to those that do not have themselves sorted out in submission. There is no in between with me. You are either here to submit to my will, or you will not sit in my inbox. If you are hoping to find a woman who will play your games, than you are seeking in the wrong direction. I am not about to cater to you or your wants. A strong woman is not ruled by a man's cock. She follows her own path, and is stronger for the sake of that decision, and I am a strong woman.

So now, if you are serious in your submission, and prepared and willing to be ruled by a woman who an iron will, than you have come to the right place, so query up, and get on sending gifts to worship a Goddess among women.
 

alpha male facade

Being a Female Supremacist is not equatable with misandry. What it does mean in my book,is that I tolerate no male attempting to assert dominance over me,nor do I indulge the male ego by allowing males in my presence to shroud themselves falsely in "alpha" garb. All males are beta before me. Whether they be a CEO,or a janitor..they are beta. Crudely put,if it has a dick,it is inferior in my eyes,and I will not stand for pathetic displays of supposed patriarchal power.

To serve me is to acknowledge your inferiority before women. You are a creature led by his weakness,and yes in my eyes,your dick makes you weak. Your dick is always your demise in any situation with a woman,for it is a simple minded tool..just like you in the presence of a woman. You were not created to lead women..you were made to follow women..to be ruled by them,which leaves no room for erroneous male egos,so for all of you males touting that you are alpha,you are laughable. There is NO such thing as an alpha male..it is an urban legend. Get that through your head,and stop playing at being tarzan in the hopes that you can get pussy that way.

This is not to state that you as a male are to be a doormat,nor that you are without intellect..but it is to assert that you are thought of as unequivocally lesser. Your wants are not a concern,and only your basic needs are of any import..oh and by the way,your needs are simple(food,shelter,air,water)so leave off trying to insert love or sex into that list. Your dick,and it's desires are null and void when it comes to kneeling at my feet. Your sex ceases to exist once you become mine..for I have zero use in regards to your erections or lack thereof.

You are regarded as a tool,and for a tool to be useful,it must be of use. This means that your purpose is whatever I decree it to be. My will and my way. This includes being used financially. If I cannot take pleasure from the fruits of your labor,than you are not of value in my estimation. I care not if your skills number in the hundreds if you will not satisfy my wants in the way of my selection.

Now you selfish and self satiating agenda driven males can run along,for you and I shall not mesh. My acceptance comes only of those that are intelligent enough to recognize their place as intended in a woman's world,which is at her feet begging to be of use with a full and open wallet for her use. Nothing less will be allowed.

sweaty=the new sexy

Even after my workout,I am still a sexy siren :)

Finsubs, victims or willing conquests

Unbeknownst to those ignorant of the intricacies pertaining to financial domination dynamics,there are real dominance/submission relationships forged out of the sight of public consumption. To the untrained eyes,findom appears a shallow game of victimization,wherein mentally and emotionally downtrodden males fall prey to voracious feminine predators intent upon devouring all viable assets. The reality though differs drastically from what is perceived. One must actually look beyond the surface appearance to truly see that real relationships are developed in this fetish.

Financial domination is not a vicious power struggle where one emerges the victor over the defeated,nor the ploy of a hustler running a scam. Most generally it is not even the alpha whom approaches the beta for service,in fact the inbox of an alpha female is typically overflowing with messages and pleas to serve her financially,so she has no need to "scam",for the line has already formed two feet deep with wallets opened.

Similar to any intimate(note I said intimate,not sexual) relationship,there is effort expended,and time spent developing a lasting bond,which is the foundation for any long term association. It is not entirely idyllic,but than what relationship is? Nor is it without the ups and downs which any two beings overcome as a unit,and make no doubt that they are a unit regardless of where the hand of control lays.

What exactly is it though that portrays financial domination relationships in a poor light? The financial aspect of course. Dirty money grubbing lazy sluts too stupid to get a real job(yup those are the typical insults to rear their ugly heads in my inbox) I wonder why that is though,atleast from my perspective,these types of relationships have much in common with what is commonly called marriage,the main differences being that most likely the duo will not dwell in a single residence,nor will progeny be born,but as in the structure of marriage,one partner will control the finances and make all monumental decisions(alpha),whereas the beta partner generally sees to the comfort,care,and happiness of their alpha. Not that different,now are they.

One may argue that it cannot be a "real" relationship since sex is not involved,but I would advise one to look to the latest studies pertaining to how much actual intercourse occurs within a marriage(hint,it is not that much) rather it becomes about companionship,and whilst I do not consider my slaves as friends,they are indeed a part of my life,and I am very much a driving priority within their lives. I give them reason to get up each day,to work productively in society,and to develop the traits most desired in a decent human being ie selflessness,generosity,dedication,loyalty,and devotion to something other than themselves.

As their alpha I am responsible for them,in that I ensure they maintain their physical health,that they conduct themselves with respect to others,that they are corrected when mistakes are made,that they develop self -control. The picture I am portraying is definitely far off from how outsiders view it,but it is a closer fit than what most think,so the next time you say that financial domination is only about ruining poor hapless,and helpless males,try to remember that if the males in question were not happy with their lot in the relationship,then they would not continue with it long term,as so many do,so save your pity and outrage for the true victims in life,rather than males whom come willingly, hell even beg on bended knee to be ensconced within a financial domination relationship.

My happiness is your nirvana.

Pot calling kettle

Ever heard that saying about the pot calling the kettle black? I heard it all the time growing up,and think it to myself everyday,how so many do exactly this. If you are like me,then you have been told on multiple occasions that FinDommes are just lazy bitches who need to get a job,and stop leeching off people. The irony of it being that this vile brew spills from the lips of those contacting me in the hopes of a freebie. The same ones whom flip out on me because they were too lazy to read my profile which states that financial tribute is required. The funniest part being that these males are also within a group of individuals that cannot even support themselves,much less feed my fetish...little sots working minimum wage jobs,dwelling in Mommy and Daddy's basement. They shroud themselves in a bubble of superiority that they do not have to scam people out of money,yet fail to recognize that by living off their parents,they are in essence a leech themselves.

I laugh to myself each time that I find comments such as I named souring in my inbox. Why...well it could be due to the fact that I entered nursing school at 18,and after having graduated and passing my boards,that I have been working,and clearing a high wage every since. I left home as soon as I got my first job(no sucking the hind tit for me)...and now my home and vehicle are paid off,so my money is for whatever I desire...hell I could be a sugar momma if I wanted to lol. I worked hard to get where I am,and yes I am arrogant,but believe me when I say that I have earned the right to be so.

Now do you see why I find the irony of the verbal abuse humorous? Ye who of no money,a pathetic job(if one could call it that),and little to no future and a barren existence,tossing out insults which in reality reflect your life,not mine. That is ironically funny :)

I do not even take the time to be offended by the insults,for life must truly be sad when you are broke and begging Mommy for movie money...perhaps it would be best if males like these took stock of their situation,and realize that a great many of the Ladies in the findom lifestyle are indeed well off financially,and in no need of their milk money. Of course there are some that are in dire straights,and actually do NEED the cash,but hopefully they are not the majority,else it is not them ruling,but them being ruled. There can be no pride if you are being ruled by a snot nosed brat,and if the money is necessary for your livelihood,then yes they have you by the balls figuratively speaking,and that is a bad situation to be in.

I encourage each and every Lady to get an education,better yourself intellectually and financially,so that you will not be forced into depending on males to pay your bills,cause the truth of the matter is,you cannot pin your hopes on males that bounce like a ball when they see a shiny new toy,so you gotta do what you have to do to take care of you!

I expect,and accept only the very best .

Steady the course

I have been pondering the course of this blog for quite some time now. Like all blogs I get the main statistics for my viewers,but I have to wonder how many submissive males actually peruse my words,or merely take advantage of my generosity with photos. The conclusion I reached is that most of my posts are used as educational tools for females rather than a driving force which ensnares my prey. Of course this is not exactly the outcome I envision when I am pouring myself into this blog.

I recently asked for feedback from male submissives & random contacts,and the results were interesting to say the least. The information I received was that 1)As soon as the majority of males note that I enjoy the findom fetish they are bolting for safer(free) territory,but the joke is on them seeing as even purely lifestyle Dominas expect gifts and what not,so inevitably training is NOT free anywhere,except in the imagination of femdom porn viewers. 2)That my firm adherence to standards and manners is overwhelming,even frightening to some,and all I can say to that is "Get over it". I hold the behavior of those that serve me to the same level as any male I would meet on the street ie no I do not want to be flashed,catcalled,or objectified. Hmmm guess that makes me an uber scary bitch huh.3)Timewasters pick up on the fact right away that I am no newbie falling for tired tactics. YAY

 Is any of the data upsetting to me. No. I knew from the get go that my style was not going to sit well with the usual fetish client fanatics,and I am good with that. The one thing that continues to tweek my ass though is the amount of lazy disrespect I deal with on a daily basis. Seriously does it take that much effort to read a profile? I read them,and I know that you surely do not believe yourself so very superior to me that you have no need to do so.

I cannot count how many times I have been contacted by an unknown male begging to serve,just to flip out when he sees that I do not offer free training,and I ask myself how could he be surprised since it is listed in every one of my profiles. Oh and the numerous pleadings to be my maid,my sextoy,my bf...astounds me as this is clearly conveyed as well that I possess no desire for such,yet it goes on every day. I am not sure who is smacking you boys with the stupid stick,but honestly you need to avoid them.

The final realization I reached is that I am not about to change my style or approach for anyone,and I do mean anyone. If you do not care for my fetishes,that is A OK,but that does not mean that I give a rat's ass for your negative opinion regarding it,so keep your lips zipped,and move along in your elusive search for the big FREE. Oh and if I am wayyyyy toooo scary for little old you,then hide your head under the covers,cause I am definitely not going to be creeping after you. Point being,it's a new day,and that means that I am just going to automatically block any that come at me with offers to serve in any manner which is not pleasing to me,and yes that includes those that feel they are too good,entitled,or special to tribute,so don't be shocked when it happens to you :)

Now if you are one of the rare gentlemen out there whom accepts,respects,and seeks out a Lady of elite class to serve,then you need not worry,for I am most welcoming of sincerity,integrity,and manners.

Some evenings I like to play around with my cam...you can thank me in the form of amazon gift cards for the honor of allowing you to view the beauty which is me :)

Progression not resolutions

The end of the year draws ever near,which means that the winds of change are about to blow through. Some of these alterations may chill you to the marrow whist others warm the cockles of your chastity belts.

I have been fairly quiet as of late due to life and family obligations (did you think that I lived online lol). One of the things I do every year at the closing of the month,is to look back retrospectively at how the year went in regards to my long term goals,which lights the twists and turns needed to effectively progress forward. This is not an uncommon occurrence for most people,only they might define them as new years resolutions,but not I,for most tend to leave those by the wayside in a matter of days.

I firmly believe that one must change their circumstances through diligent effort,and their prerogatives with progressive plans,but here is the catch for me,I did not find fault with my plans this year,rather instead the blame lay within those that I allowed contact with me,therefore that is the very first step in my overall big picture clarity. I will eradicate those that do nothing to enrich my life in any way shape or form. This will in essence clear the clouds from my bright horizon.

This may appear cold and heartless,but it is what it is. I simply do not possess the time and energy for those unwilling to be of benefit to me. I fail to grasp how this could shock anyone,for I have never given anyone the impression that I tolerate anything less than I deserve,EVER.

Many of you may know that I belong to a few D's sites,and to be honest,I am not pleased with what I see these days. The waters are muddy,and what I view being called domination is a far cry from it. Sorry folks but getting buck ass naked,and spreading my goodies,or watching some absolute stranger strangle his noodle is not domination in my book.

Everyone has their way of doing things,and I am cool with that,but I am just not the one to come to if you are looking for a session where you get to orgasm,or where you sit back and stare at my pussy,ass,or tits. You can find all of that on a porn site,or you can call a phone sex op,or even scrounge around under your couch cushions to pay for a cam session purchase,but none of those avenues are open in regards to me. I have in the past been quite vocal about the fact that I do not offer online sessions. What I have always sought are servants(no not domestic ones),and this is not accomplished through catering to a client.

In a day and age where males are taught that they should be entitled,and catered to by the female sex,I for one refuse to buy into the bullshit. I do not log into my pc just to play out your fantasy. Domination is not a role that I play,or a character I dress for. For me it is real. I do real time with my boy brat,but even he knows that we play by my rules,and what it is that I want,not by some false ass propaganda touted by selfish self serving jackoffs. This is the reason why so very few of you receive even a second word with me.

The bright side of my revelations is that none of this shall effect those that I know are coming to me with the purpose of pure service and admiration,and yes I know how to tell the difference between worthy and worthless. If you are new to my world,then you may be asking how exactly you can verify your worth to me,well it is simple. Tribute willingly,and without me asking. Sacrifice for me,and do it as your purpose in life. Place no other above me,and worship only me. Keep the truth on your tongue,and your fingertips. Last but certainly not least,never forget that a mannered gentleman is of more value than a raging hormonal rogue.

Serving or sessions

When I am screening a male for consideration to me,one of the predominant methods of ascertaining whether he is a viable candidate is to assess whether he wants for me or from me. Now if he wants from me,then he is automatically filed into the undesirable bin,and passed along,but if he is one of the very rare jewels whom wants for me,well then he is moved up to the front of the line. This process of weeding out is one of the surest routes that I know of as it is always successful.

As to how it works,that is simple. Seeing as I do not make initial contact,a male is placed in the position of gathering up his courage to reach out to me first,and generally by the lines of his first missive I am able to form an opinion of whether or not I desire to block or reply,which saves me precious time,that could have been wasted. Now you may be asking yourself,how can she tell that quickly if a male is worth her time,and the answer is that I have learned through experience,but I am willing to divulge a few tips.

 Boys if you are starting your correspondence with self centered motivation(I will see it) just from the words you elect to employ,such as "I want,I like,I need" I I I...yup you have just shown me that all you are focused on is you,and that is not the point of service. Another no no is spewing out fetish porn dialogue right off the bat,once again you are waving the wanker flag,and I am done with you before you began. Continuing forward. Do not send a little message saying "hi",why not,well it conveys laziness,and that is something that I avoid like the plague,nor do you put your best foot forward with a wee penis pic(ugh hot pokers in the eyes are preferable to that)

If any of what I described above resembles you,then welcome to the majority of men on the fetish sites,you are no longer in the minority. Before you get your dander flying,I am not condemning males whom are just around to get off and log out. What I am saying though is that you are worthless to any woman seeking actual service,and no most Dominas do not want to be your fapping friend. I truly wish I knew whom started that bullshit spiel about ladies getting off watching men pulling their little puds,so that I could slap them in the face with a flaccid wand. Seriously boys who told you that females want to turn on their cam,and masturbate watching you shove objects up your ass,or playing with your pecker? Now this is not entirely true,but do you know why? Yup cause there are tons of sites dedicated to women masturbating for your viewing pleasure,and even doing so whilst you are displaying your goods to them,BUT you are failing to realize that this is not the modus operandi for every site,in fact it is not one for most sites.

I digress,but my point is that,you know full well from the get go whether you are here to serve or to session with a cam model,and it is your responsibility to know which type of lady you are approaching prior to doing so. You waste more than your own time when you contact a Domina whom expects to be served if you are in it to win the sticky finger salute,so do everyone a favor,and join the sites where you are most likely to obtain your goal,whether it be serving or sessioning,and in the long run you will be happy that you did.

Compliment me in the only way that counts,with cash :)

Where oh where have I been

Some of you may have noticed,whilst others could not care less that I have been absent,or rarely around over the last couple of weeks,which has been quite refreshing for me personally. I mentioned awhile back that I had received a substantial salary upgrade,and along with that came extended work hours due to accepting more responsibilities,which equates to less time and availability for the fetish activities I enjoy. This by no means is suggestive of me brushing aside the possibility of accepting submissive gentlemen into my gilded stables,rather in fact I am anticipating my due worship as a Goddess amongst males,but my criteria has narrowed the parameters of whom I will deem worthy.

In the past I condescended to respond to all those that craved a moment of my time,so long as they did not barrage my eyes with undesirable photos,but now my time constraints will not allow for such,which means that my response will be gifted only upon those that treat it as an honor,not a right. Life and the time allotted to us as human beings is finite and beyond priceless,so I feel no overwhelming need to connect with every person whom contacts me. Now I hope that my message conveys to you exactly my supreme intent,and for those that cannot break it down properly,I will be kind enough to make it crystal for you.

My attention is for only those that worship and serve as a submissive or gentleman admirer are meant to. This means once again(and why I have to keep repeating this is beyond me)that I will not,nor have I ever accepted performing sessions,as they are not what serving a dominant means to me. Nor do I care to be a voyeur to your displays of anal insertions,or any activity which brings forth an orgasm for you. Chastity and financial domination are the loves of my fetish heart,so to offer me less will find you rebuked.

I am not one to play cute games. I am brutally blunt,and straightforward in my expectations. There is not enough time in the day for me to develop a tolerance for catering to male fantasies,and the very fact that I proclaim myself a female supremacist should have already clued you into that. I am a serious minded thinking being,but that is not indicative of a droll personality,merely that I possess no desire to align myself with any whom are playing at being submissive to women with their dick in hand. To me,submission is not based upon sex or masturbation,and if your dick needs to be erect to serve,then I want no part of you. Service itself should be an intellectual and emotional nirvana which leaves you tingly,breathless,and blessed,not perpetuated upon seed coating your hand.

With all of this stated,you are welcome to display your interest in serving me,so long as this is exactly what you are prepared to do. If you are an unsure soul stumbling along,then I advise you to get yourself in order before you utter a peep,and lastly for the ones whom declare that they need time to get to know me,whelp that is what my blog site is for,but be warned you will actually have to spend your time reading it,so if you are just too lazy for that type of exertion,then I am not one whom will find you worth my efforts either.

The above opinions and statements are mine alone,and not meant as a hard rule for the entirety of my peers,and with that said,none of it applies to any ladies reading this,as I always welcome friendship and conversation with other awesome fetish femmes :)

Your day has no meaning if you have not made me smile.

3 days,3 little days to prove to me that you are utterly devoted to,or enamored with me prior to my birthday...odds are if I know that you exist,and you fail me on this the holiest of days,then I will be quite unlikely to ever acknowledge you again.

Not sure why,but I am really digging this photo!

 You just cannot help falling in love with me :)

Lick my wrinkled soles!

Velcro makes me itch with a capital B

The latest and greatest in affordable accessories for the "submissive" who has it all is the velcro collar. For some, this honored piece of bdsm tradition can be yours for a mere $10 tribute. Wow what a deal! I see so many people acquiring one, that surely it has become the most fashionable trend in the fetish scene today right? Who really cares if it is as faux as the knock off coach bags they market on the street corners in every large city? I mean it adds to your status and kink cred doesn't it, and who can really tell that it is not legitimate?

Well little ones here comes your wake up call! Everyone that is anyone whom has been around the scene for awhile can spot your velcro collar a mile away, and are giving your existence that much berth to avoid you as well. A collar of that caliber is indicative of the fact that you do not know shit about bdsm tradition (nor does the one whom gifted you with it), or possess enough respect for yourself to earn a collar the old fashioned way (through time devoted, and hard work provided).

Now many of you are thinking to yourself that this is a new age, and tradition don't mean squat to individuals that want what they want, when they want it, and how they want it right? Is this not the era of instant gratification, and does not technology afford you the opportunity to acquire exactly that? Life would not be fair if you yourself could not instantly possess the very same thing that a submissive whom has spent years working towards receiving it. You as a supremely entitled being have put a new spin on the antiquated drudgery of earning a collar, doesn't that make you all warm and fuzzy inside? You have outsmarted them all haven't you?  Minimal effort and minimal expenditure and voila, you are now a bonafide owned male. Gosh that was easy cheesy.

Look how grown up you appear with your new fancy dancy neck attire. Wow everyone will respect you now, won't they? After all, cries for attention are always met with the utmost of praise aren't they?

Ready for it, because I am going to tear off the bandaid quick like, hope you shave closely. You are a fool in a collared jester's suit, and that is exactly how you are viewed by your superiors and peers. So many of the best things in life are worked for and earned, not merely given freely, such as respect, trust, paychecks, and yes even collars. You truly do get exactly what you pay for in some instances, so if you are not concerned about your latest and greatest neck adornment leaving behind a telling green ring, then by all means go for it, but just in case you are one of those rare gentlemen that believes in hard work, and earning your way, then do yourself a favor and just say NO to velcro collars. Save up that $10, and invest in something real.

10 days til the Goddess birth celebration. Time for all my minions to make themselves known by gifting Goddess. You do not want to be the only one left out in the cold now do you,bereft of the warmth of Goddess's praise? Of course not,now snap to it gentlemen,and send all those lovely amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

It is blasphemous not to worship beauty.

Hello to all of my minions and wannabees. It is now officially November 1st,which means that it is a mere 14 days til the day of my birth celebration! What a wondrous day it shall be,and a perfect opportunity for you to step up to introduce yourselves with a gift of adoration. Remember boys,notice comes only to those that make themselves known,and for those trolling here,well