Submissives begging

Pretty pretty please with a cherry on top. Cute,but ineffective begging,unless you are begging like this pup is :)

I love when submissives debase themselves with begging. Cruel,perhaps,but definitely effective for teaching a submissive their proper place at my feet,and in my world. In my dominion,a submissive is less. Less as in beneath,below,and inferior to me. Therefore they are reduced to begging. Begging for 1)My attention 2)My time 3)to please me 4)to be of use 5)to orgasm 6)to serve me. I just fucking love it! I adore dragging out permission. I luxuriate in making them suffer in wait for my decision.

Now of course in some instances begging will be in vain,or even piss me off. When is it not going to tickle my fancy 1)when there is no financial sacrifice involved 2)when I have reached the point where I am done with you 3)when your only purpose for begging is to gain something selfish from me 3)when I have already said no...when I say no,I mean it.

It does not matter if you identify as male or female as a prospective servant of mine. You will still be required to beg at some point...just because I like it,and if I enjoy it,than you should be all for it. Get creative with it if you want to impress me. Beg in a poetic manner. Don't just set there typing out please please please...well unless you are begging me to hurt you ;) Yes yes yes I will definitely enjoy your pain and suffering for me.

Being a sadist is delicious,so remember boys,and girls BEG BEG BEG!

FinDom Sacrifice

I realize that I speak, post, and tweet a ton about sacrifice. Why is that though? Could it be that many of you simply do not get it?

The meaning of sacrifice to me is more than a sexy trigger word. It is real, it is tangible. Can you honestly state that you know what sacrifice is, and that you intend to engage in it? I do not believe that you can.

Sacrifice is not about offering up your flesh for the crop, or shoving a carrot up your backside. Those are activities that you want to engage in, therefore they are NOT a sacrifice. That is not you doing for me. That is you doing for you. Do you see that?

Sacrifice has meaning, and offers consequences which extend beyond online. It touches your life even after you log off, and get up to stretch your legs. It affects your psyche. It alters your outlook on the hierarchy of what matters most in your life.

If sacrifice has no meaning, than it means nothing. When I relay to males that I will accept nothing less than willing sacrifice, I mean it. I want what they do for me to remain in their minds, and to color their future actions. I want them to realize that they have been living a life of selfishness, which is detrimental to their growth as a submissive. You cannot be a submissive worthy of kneeling at a woman's feet if you are not willing to sacrifice for her.

Sacrifice is why I consider FinDom the most profound fetish which I engage in. Sacrificing financially has far reaching consequences. It affects your daily life. It forces you to recognize that your material wants are negligent in the face of my wants. It brings to light the true meaning of serving an agenda outside of your own. Sacrificial tribute is a reflection of your intent to sacrifice outside of selfish desires.

To me, FinDom is a mirror for submissives. It reflects either an ugly self-gratification seeking soul, or one that truly burns with the goodness to give and sacrifice for something greater than themselves.

So the next time you see or hear me saying "Sacrifice for Sydney", you will know exactly what I mean by it.

Evolution

Today is in response to a prevalent query which I receive

1)What must I do to serve you?

You would think that a question such as this would never be needed considering all of the blogs I have composed and commentary I have posted on various sites,yet it remains a repetitive question put to me,so here I sit wracking my brain in order to make my thoughts and expectations more clear than previously.

To serve me is the greatest of honors for a submissive male,for my standards are elevated,and my requirements far above average. I would never accept just any schmuck beneath my feet(it should go without saying that I consider all males inferior to myself),which means that to be privileged enough to call yourself mine,that you are going to have to be someone special. Special means more than a thick wallet(that doesn't hurt though),nor does it refer to having overly large penile endowments(don't care about your penis).

You must be extraordinary. You must have already embraced the fact that to serve me is not to serve your own fetishes. I am not here to listen to the list of depravities which revolve around what excites your penis. I am beyond that,and so must you be if you are ever to serve me. Serving me requires an evolution of the male psyche. Submissives of mine are free from the burdens of patriarchal entitlement issues,nor are they any longer mired down in the stench and selfishness of self. They have come to the realization of true purpose,and altruistic giving of themselves.

They thrive upon my happiness. Their universe revolves around ME. They possess self discipline,and require not my every moment holding their hand,as they know fully what it means to serve. They are intelligent enough to know that serving can never be about them,for than it would not actually be serving(unless you count serving yourself,I don't). Are you catching of glimpse by what I mean when I say special?

Males in the fetish scene today are primarily not submissive,instead are what they style as "bedroom submissives" or hit and quit boys(they get in,get a nut off and go). I hold no interest in any male who is not about what makes me happy,and catering to a male's wants,or sexualizing his interactions with me,does not make me smile. It is the most rare of males who can reach the pinnacle I seek them to kneel upon,so if that is not you,then do not waste time with needless questions. Take some time to work through your flaws,and then come to me,not before.

Of course my words are not pleasing to a great many males,but atleast I am honest about my intentions,and employ no subterfuge. I make no claims that I am here to sate your sexual fantasies,nor that I want to ensure your satisfaction(I am not a customer service oriented business,not even a business at all). To me,femdom will always be about pleasing the female,in the manner SHE chooses. In my eyes it is not a fetishized pornographical scheme wherein the penis rules. I am not here to get you off,or see to your wants. Got it??

Hopefully I have answered the query in a concise manner..oh and I shall leave you with a quote that I am quite fond of,just in case you still didn't get it.

“The only gift I have to give,is the ability to receive.If giving is a gift,and it surely is,then my gift to you is to allow you to give to me.”  

timid mouse at my feet

Yesterday brought back to my sacred feet a timid little bitch who ran away once before...yet he could never quite leave..always lurking..wanking to the sight of my perfect peds. This little bitch enjoyed an honor that I could count on one hand have received..a personalized phone call from ME. Envy him bois,cause he had the rare opportunity to listen to my dulcet smoky tones live.

Some of you are asking why I would grant an audience to such a lowly pathetic cretin,but not you lol. Goddess intends to cultivate this worm,to addict him,to enslave his mind..then to bring him to her feet real time in worship. Fortunately for him,he lives fairly close to Goddess,which means, with devotion and dedication he just could be staring down and salivating over the sight of my feet in his face :)

Of course he has a way to go before he reaches that point,and the sadist in me will immensely enjoy his struggles to get there!

Suffer more for me little bitch,because it pleases me

Kneel-Pray-Worship-Pay

Make Goddess happy with the gift of a fitbit http://amzn.com/w/1Y23OOGZGMKC3

Poetry and presents

Those that have ever come to kneel at my feet know of my appreciation for poetry in my honor,so today I share with you a piece recently sent to me by a cunty little bitch..along with a pic of the gifts he purchased today whilst worshiping at my altar.

Mz Sydneys Poem : my first ever A woman of style, substance and power 1 stern gaze from her and all men cower Her stunning beauty is like the cool midnight air Crisp, clean, delicate and skin so fair She whispers commands from her golden tongue Causing men to submit.... both old and young Obey, submit, learn... accept your true fate not the doors to hell but a journey, Heaven's Gate Walk in a man yet become a slave She possesses your soul, from cradle to grave The poem is titled "SUBMIT"

Poetry and presents make GODdess happy :) Good job bitch!

Goddess wants gifts

Goddess wants gifts  http://amzn.com/w/1Y23OOGZGMKC3

This coin does not flip

The financial domination universe is entirely out of whack due to actions perpetrated from females and males alike. Notice I said females,not Dommes,interesting eh? Let's talk about that.

There are literally hundreds of females in the findom playground,why? M O N E Y ! Now don't get my intent twisted,cause I am for all females,and believe they should do whatever enriches their lives,and pleases them most. Things get hairy though when the lines get erased between findom and provision of services. What I am basically saying is that a ton of males find themselves on cam sites,clip sites,or market places where sessions and items are sold,and whilst all is good in the neighborhood,that is NOT findom.

Peeps should have the google definition of findom bookmarked by now...it is a handy resource tool :) Now sit right back cause I am gonna break it down for you.

1)Buying a clip for your personal amusement,or gratification(wank spank) is NOT findom.
2)Buying a cam session to watch the pretty lady,or have her watch you,is NOT findom.
3)Buying used items for your jacking jerk off is NOT findom.
4)Calling NF for phone sex is NOT findom.
5)Tipping tokens in return for spoils back is NOT findom.

Notice how I used small words,so as not to confuse you? Gee whiz I am super nice :)

If you are purchasing product(clips,session,pedi dust,panties,used shoes etc..)you fall into the category of a customer/client,and the female is technically a service provider,rather than a Domme. Yes some in fact many Dommes do offer services,but if they are selling something,then that is NOT really dominating now is it? No,so you are NOT being dominated,therefore you are NOT serving. Ok here is where it can get tricky,if a Domme commands that you purchase her products,then in essence she is dominating you if you comply(confusing isn't it),but if you are just doing it all on your own for your satisfaction,then you are NOT being dominated,nor are you serving anything but your own kink.

What is findom then if nothing that I mentioned above,whelp I will spell it out for the lazy turds who won't use google.

Findom entails sending a tribute $$$ (non-reciprocal gift) to a dominant. Easy cheesy isn't it? No bargaining,no expectations,no force required.

Woot isn't it wonderful to have it explained to you! Knowledge is power baby,use it :)

It is time for Sunday worship and spoils for my divinity,snap to it gents,I want to feel the love of received tributes at my feet...after all you do appreciate me allowing you glimpses into my perfection now don't you,for if not,then I can simply cease posting photos of any type.

Now open that wallet and worship as you were created. Lay your offering at my wrinkled soles

Creation of a monster

Daily, written moans and bitches blight my sight online. A never ending cycle always in motion repetitively,to no avail. What complaint could it be that I refer to,well I speak of the dreaded time waster sagas discussed and beaten like a dead nag.

I am going to feed you the brutal truth of the creation of the blackguard himself,and it is going to rankle some,but we cannot seek to please all,or sweep the truth under the proverbial rug,if alterations are ever to come through.

The surprising part for most is that I am going to lay the blame where it truly belongs,and that is on the females in this fetish,yup I said it,and I mean it. Males are not totally inept intellectually,and like pavlov's dogs they do learn when actions are repeated which produce positive results. Take your average fetish male new to the scene,he comes along after having been conditioned by femdom porn,or even a bit of vanilla porn(ugh),so he has in his mind already decided what he believes should be the course of action right? Now some of his thoughts might actually align with what occurs in a lifestyle bdsm relationship,or even of that with an escort who offers a little fifty shades of grey action,BUT findom is an animal of an entirely different sort,so he is forced to configure new ways to meet his wants.

So,what is a male to do that wants attention,wants humiliation,wants degradation,but does not want to pay tribute for it? He may scratch his balls for a quick minute til he sees that hey he can achieve this goal easily,with minimal effort on his part. Looking at twitter,kik,and fetish sites it becomes apparent that to receive the humiliation he so desperately wants,all he has to do is post a photo of his dick,and boom all kinds of attention comes his way FREE,yay him(and before someone irately speaks out that they do not fall for this,take a quick peek and see how many do). Degradation oh yes sweet degradation..this one is easy as well. Left and right insults are hurled(you are fake,oops someone fell for the cam verify cause they feared being called an insta or worse a man!!)..call a woman fat,old or ugly,and lightening fast females will respond with insult after insult..oh great globs of slimy sperm yes,degradation has been freely relayed and received! Wants met at no cost to their wallet. Wow see how simple that was for him? How do we as females shove a cork in the ass of these actions,by remaining silent of course. STOP feeding the bitches with comments on their little dicks,cause that will not produce your due worship or tribute. All it does is teach males that they can have their cake and eat it too. Cease giving them a rise when they hurl inane comments towards your person. A confident dominant female does NOT care for the opinions of sheep,she knows that she is worthy of worship,and disregards commentary to the contrary.

Since we have spoken of time wasters,let's move on to the miserly scrooges abounding around. Just as with the previous mentioned,these males behaviors have evolved once again due to actions on the feminine front. Open your eyes,and you will see scads of females offering sessions for pennies on the dollar,accepting $10 tributes(puke). Of course it all adds up,but here is the thing,you as a female are of more worth than any male will ever assign you,and by valuing your time and energy so low,you are merely encouraging other males to devalue your time and attention as well. See the point I am making?  Findom is not about getting rich I know this full well,but it is a proven fact that males will take advantage of females if they are given the opportunity to do so,and no this is not a slight to males,merely the nature of the beast,so my question would be why do you as dominant women allow yourself to be treated shabbily,when you deserve so much more? Not every male in this fetish is a millionaire,but you surely know that they can do a hell of alot better than you are receiving! $10 is NOT a sacrifice..and please before someone gets pissy and says "oh yes it is if that is all they have in their pocket",well if that is all they have,then they need to save up,get a better job,or step away,cause what they are offering is an insult,so please do not fall prey to it.

The balance of power has shifted,and we as women have allowed it. Any female who allows a male to top from the bottom for a few bucks encourages it,any female who chases carrots encourages it,any female who feeds trolls encourages it...my point being that it is time to take command of the reins,and teach these males that they do not call the shots,they do not rule femdom or findom. Either take a stand,or lay down with the dogs,but most importantly quit bitching about time wasters,and cheap bitches if you are not going to be a part of the solution.

Kitty gift

Look what came in the mail today,yum. It is already charging for play this afternoon lol

Make your first impression count

Never forget that first impressions(actions) set the tone for the entire exchange!

I thought that I would share a couple of lovely tributes from a little guttersnipe

What kind of impression do you think this male made?

Goddess worship photo

I walk in your waking dreams..suffer..sacrifice...and worship your Goddess Sydney

Goddess will always receive what Goddess desires. It is your duty as beta gents to ensure that I do. Now make yourselves useful,and display your appreciation of my divine self by gifting me with an amazon gift card to cover the cost of my latest desire http://www.amazon.com/Fitbit-Charge-Wireless-Activity-Wristband/dp/B00N2BVOUE/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1438808758&sr=8-3&keywords=fitbit

The honeymooners

Aw the honeymooners(no I am not talking about Alice&Ralph). The honeymoon(or courting) phase of a D's relationship,especially one which involves the beloved findom aspect,is an absolute rush. Like the pistons on a locomotive,tributes tend to pump fast and furious in this stage...where the simple sight of a username dries the mouth,pounds the pulse,and heightens all sense of anticipation. It is a heady experience,beautiful,yet dangerous as well,for this is the stage where often we see overpromising,and underdelivering..or worse yet,a boy goes beyond his means,and becomes bereft of the needed income to survive,and honor financial commitments til the next pay period.

It is not only males who are vulnerable and at risk for pushing too far at this point. It is the duty of a respectable and trustworthy dominant to ensure that no harm occurs,and whilst the reasoning could be applied that these are grown ass men capable of deciding for themselves if they want to be broken,we must as Dommes  maintain a degree of responsibility(atleast we should do so). If we do not control the depth to which they plunge,then we run the very realistic danger of breaking a boy,which is a lose lose.

Sometimes I fear that a cold and clinical atmosphere(strictly keyboard-monitor relationship) possesses the possibility of detaching one from a sense of compassion and regard for the very realistic consequences of allowing boys to go for broke. I completely understand the almost orgasmic pleasure of seeing tribute after tribute spoiling our accounts,and recognize how difficult it can be to say no to something that feels so good..but being grounded in reality aids me,and allows me to take a step back and maintain control of the situation. I truly believe that a leader leads by example,and cannot guide the way if judgement is clouded by hunger,hunger for the almighty dollar. Yes money is both loved and hated. It is chased,and responsible for some of the most despicably base actions of human beings,and yet we need it to survive in this world,ironic.

Navigating the honeymoon phase is a learned experience,and yet still there is room for error. I avoid these pitfalls by taking this time to delve further into the mind of the submissive,for these are the moments when he is most vulnerable,and most likely to open up to you. He desires only to please you,which is a gift greater than money. If this desire is nurtured,it can develop into a longterm addiction for him,thereby gracing your life with a male who seeks the enrichment of your existence,and that is worship in my estimation. Of course a male is easily led by his libido,but that will not capture his mind,and once the ejaculation is over,so might his craving to serve be as well,which is why one should grasp this golden opportunity to swim in the darkest recesses of his psyche,enslaving him to your will.

Once past this phase,the work begins in earnest,and requires time and effort from both sides,yup I said it. It would be lovely if all I had to do was just sit back and watch hapless males fall prey to my appearance,but that just won't cut it if I want to forge a lasting bond. The formation of a bond is not going to happen overnight. It takes sacrifice(many an hour of sleep have I lost,spent interacting,and really getting to know a boy,the facets of his life,and aspects of his personality,not just his kinks) I recognize the importance of kinks meshing,but if I cannot stand the male as a human being,then it will not matter a lick if we like the same activities.

I realize that longterm is not the goal for everyone,and that is absolutely cool(no judgement from me),and of course I understand that some crave to always be going through the honeymoon phase by either bouncing Domme to Domme...or in the case of the Domme,draining one after another dry..and I say whatever tickles your fancy :)...just don't play that game with ME,and all will be well!

Anyways,the prime message I wanted to send out is that at some point we must all exercise some degree of control,lest harsh realities be visited upon our asses,either in the form of not being able to pay bills,buy food etc for the boys,or lack of worthy worshipful servants for the Ladies. Good luck to all,and may you be blessed with what you seek :)

Kindness and cuddly cute domination

***Disclaimer:Title is misleading***

Sometimes I like to address queries,or comments I receive in my inbox on various sites,and today is one of those days,so strap in,and lets go.

"Miss(ugh I detest being addressed like this) you do not sound nice in your profile." Hmm this one should seriously bother me shouldn't it? Well it doesn't. I word my profiles in a way to genuinely reflect my style,and what can be expected whilst serving me. I see no need to bait and switch(tacky). This is not to say that I am never kind,for no one person can be 100% of the time a BITCH,but I do fairly well on the percentage lol. Honestly though,what some view as cruel or harsh is the fact that I do not play the usual games one sees online. I do not kiss ass,or beg for service(tributes included). I am real,and I want submissives to know it with eyes wide open going in. There is no parading my bare ass around in a ploy to seduce you,there is no allure or hints towards the possibility of sexual relations,chances of dating me,or being in my life 24/7 as a live in slave,so why even lie about it?? I refuse to. When a male comes to me on bended knee,I want him to do so,because he has taken the time to study my words,and realize that yes he is prepared to serve me in the manner I desire,rather than role playing some fantasy he has which gives him a stiffy. I hold my time as a valuable commodity,so why not put it out in plain sight how best to earn it,and my expectations? This way no one gets their time wasted. Once a male reads my words,he should know then and there if he is going to mesh with my requirements,therefore if not,then he has not used up my time or his if he isn't. Just makes sense right,so do not get your knickers twisted because of my honesty. Now if you are one of those males whom suddenly suffers from illiteracy when it comes time to read my words,well then you gain no pity from me for wasting your own time.

"Ma'am(another title I abhor) I really want to serve you,but you are so far away" This one truly is one of the biggest wastes to hit my inbox. If you require groveling at my feet real time,and cannot afford to travel to me,then why would I desire your service(cause it is no secret that if you can only barely,or not even barely afford to take care of yourself,then you are in no position to serve me)so save us both time,and keep these sentiments to yourself k,but if real time is not the issue,then I do enjoy distance training,and no that does not mean that I offer cam sessions. It means that I set tasks,and school you on protocol which pleases me,along with your weekly gifts of appreciation.

"Mistress(again hate hate hate)I would do anything to serve you." Boys please never say this. You do not seriously mean it,and I can prove it. If you tell me that you are willing to do anything,then I just might tell you to cut your cock off with a chainsaw,and we both know that you are NOT going to do that,so keep your offerings realistic. You would do better to say that you are willing to sacrifice your life savings for me,to surrender your ego,and entitlement issues in order to serve me best,you get what I am saying?

"Princess(wrong again) will you watch me stroke my dick and laugh at me?" This one is just fucked up from the get go. In no way is domination involved here in this scenario. A)I do not like to watch dicks cum...every beta male should be neutered with a chastity device in my opinion,and B)This is offered because it makes YOU happy,how is that serving me?? It isn't,so take that selfish entitled shit to a providers inbox please,and thank you.

That is just a smattering of what spams my eyes daily...kinda makes sense that I am so very anal about males reading my profile,which would have stopped the enter tab from being hit with every single one of these worthless missives,so here is to hoping that some of you begin reading before typing. Have a lovely day :)

real time clarification

Emails that I have received in regards to a recent post of mine about sessions,have shown me that a little bit of clarification is in order.

Yes I stated that I am interested in playing more real time,which in no way should lead anyone to conclude that I am open to cam sessions...two totally separate scenarios. C2C sessions hold no interest for me due to a)I am not an exhibitionist & b)watching males get off,does absolutely nothing for me personally(anyone that has read anything about me should already know that I am a proponent of males being neutered with chastity devices) The only pleasure plebs deserve,is the joy of enriching my life,so no I am not going to sit back and watch males pulling at their equipment which doesn't even cast a shadow at high noon.

Real time sessions interest me because they feed my inner sadist who delights in the deliverance of physical pain,so if you are one that is only able to serve online,either due to distance or time constraints,then your suffering comes in the form of finances,and should be viewed as your honor to sacrifice for me. Real time toys tribute for my time and attention,so I expect nothing less from those that serve me online...I actually expect more since they are not truly useful in any manner other than financing my decadent indulgences.

There is so much anger and disgust when it comes to outsiders viewing the financial domination realm. Why though? Most is due to a basic lack of education in regards to the fetish,and the rest is simply entitled selfishness. Ignorance can be taught,but the other appears to be too ingrained to eradicate.

 I mean seriously I have had males offer to bleed their dicks for me,but land forbid that they be expected to worship with their wallet. Pain is an intense motivator,but the almighty dollar even more so. People have and will kill for money,but why? Because money is power. Money provides the ability to feed,clothe,and house oneself. Throughout time itself those that have not,have been enamored by those that have,so it is only logical that males will hold tightly to that which they perceive as the root of their power base. This is exactly why I require a male to sacrifice financially for me. The effects of doing so outlast bruises on the ass.

The narcissist in me knows that I am worthy of worship,deserving of your suffering and sacrifice,but if you cannot or will not overcome your own sense of selfishness,then you are truly a loser,in the sense that you will lose out on serving perfection incarnate. It is entirely your choice though,for even though I may be a cougar in real life devouring the sex of cubs,in this arena my victims come willingly in supplication to my altar. They kneel before me begging to lay down their offerings,sans forceful provocation,enticement,or seduction. I am their Goddess,and their purpose is my happiness.

My happiness is your nirvana.

Unselfish Service

For the males that take the time to read the posts made by myself and several fellow ladies,I have no doubt that you have seen mention of the term "selfless service",but for those that do not..you are missing the point behind service,so I thought it best to educate submissives as to what the words actually mean,and how they are so very difficult,almost near impossible to find when describing the majority of males in the scene this day.

Let's first take a look at the words separately,selfless per webster's definition "Having, exhibiting, or motivated by no concern for oneself; unselfish.". Now onto the definition of service which pertains best to D's "The performance of work or duties for a superior or as a servant." When we combine the words it equates to unselfish duties for a superior. I think somewhere along the way the seed of selfishness has taken root into the minds of males entering the bdsm scene,and this is what I hope to eradicate.

Selfless service is not enacted when a servant seeks only a means to their personal ends,how could it? To become selfless one must expunge the sentiments "I want" from their vocabulary when serving. It must become engrained within the psyche that the wants of the servant are not a primary motivator. I am not saying that a submissive should not enjoy serving,or that they should not take pride in the honor of it,but it should not be why they do it. The happiness and contentment of doing for your superiors should be based on their pleasure,rather than your own. The mindset should be "I serve because it pleases her,and that is what pleases me" Does this make sense? It does not sound fair does it? Well to be clearly upfront,it is not fair nor does it promote equality,and it never will. Being in service does not place you in the same bracket as your dominant:meaning that it is your dominant's will,drives,and desires which are in the forefront,and if it just so happens that your wants are fulfilled by them matching hers,then you are indeed fortunate,and have chosen well.

In conclusion,or if ever in doubt,just remember that the word "you" is not a part of the word selfless.

The gifts keep rolling in from my brat

Gifts I received yesterday and today courtesy of a gift card from my brat yay me!!