Selfish Bitch am I

My favorite compliment of the week. "You are a selfish bitch"

Now you might assume that I am masochist to consider this a positive statement, so I shall endeavor to explain why it is 100% accurate.

I am rather fond of truth telling,and whilst the sender in no way intended to compliment me with this relay of words,it did just that. Do you know what his message conveyed to me? It showed me that I had pissed him off by not giving into his wants. He expected his entitlement as a male to cross over into FemDom,but he was mistaken. He was met head on with quite the opposite of his expectations. I bow to the wishes of no male,ever. I am WOMAN,hear me roar my disapproval with a quick slam dunk of the block button :)

Yes I am selfish. I have never denied that fact. I am here to sate my desires,to meet my needs,to have my will served. Why would you ever think anything less? Serving me is about me. It is about you the submissive putting aside your wants,better yet syncing them to mine,so that we will both experience happiness and pleasure when you please me. You like pleasure yes? You want to please me don't you?

Online is my playground,where I design the laws of my realm. If you are not willing to submit yourself to them,than by all means exit left. It really is that simple. You either live by my dictates,or you depart. No democracy here. This is a dictatorship,and I thrill in doling out decrees whilst you scamper to obey.

So,yes you can think me selfish all you like,cause it is true. Why would I desire to have any male serving me who does not see my wants as a priority? Why would I settle for coming in second place to a dick? That is an insult right there. Can you see that? Do you know any woman who thinks that your dick is a priority in her life? Be honest now.

Onto the bitch decree. I admit fully that I am a BITCH. Oh my gosh I said it! To whom am I a bitch though? Is it to the male who treats me like a fetish fantasy,a fetish vending machine,or even a one dimensional object for pecker pukers..ya just might be right on. I am most definitely a bitch to those type of males,along with males who do not display respect,read my profile before contact,ones who attempt to blindside me with dick pics,and especially the males that jump into my inbox knowing that tribute is required yet refuse to do so. You got me red handed...I am a BITCH BITCH BITCH lol.

I am in no way ashamed of being a selfish bitch who always places herself first. I am a strong woman who knows her worth,and if you refuse to see that,than you are the one who loses out,not me,cause there will always be a male more intelligent than you who is going to make my happiness his priority.

submissive creed to serving Mz Sydney

 The submissive creed to serving Mz Sydney

"Service is my reward,I will earn it. Devotion is my duty,I will provide it. Submission is my purpose,I will live it. Sacrifice is my mantra,I will embrace it."

This is how a dearly devoted submissive sacrifices in service to Mz Sydney.

FinDom Sacrifice

I realize that I speak, post, and tweet a ton about sacrifice. Why is that though? Could it be that many of you simply do not get it?

The meaning of sacrifice to me is more than a sexy trigger word. It is real, it is tangible. Can you honestly state that you know what sacrifice is, and that you intend to engage in it? I do not believe that you can.

Sacrifice is not about offering up your flesh for the crop, or shoving a carrot up your backside. Those are activities that you want to engage in, therefore they are NOT a sacrifice. That is not you doing for me. That is you doing for you. Do you see that?

Sacrifice has meaning, and offers consequences which extend beyond online. It touches your life even after you log off, and get up to stretch your legs. It affects your psyche. It alters your outlook on the hierarchy of what matters most in your life.

If sacrifice has no meaning, than it means nothing. When I relay to males that I will accept nothing less than willing sacrifice, I mean it. I want what they do for me to remain in their minds, and to color their future actions. I want them to realize that they have been living a life of selfishness, which is detrimental to their growth as a submissive. You cannot be a submissive worthy of kneeling at a woman's feet if you are not willing to sacrifice for her.

Sacrifice is why I consider FinDom the most profound fetish which I engage in. Sacrificing financially has far reaching consequences. It affects your daily life. It forces you to recognize that your material wants are negligent in the face of my wants. It brings to light the true meaning of serving an agenda outside of your own. Sacrificial tribute is a reflection of your intent to sacrifice outside of selfish desires.

To me, FinDom is a mirror for submissives. It reflects either an ugly self-gratification seeking soul, or one that truly burns with the goodness to give and sacrifice for something greater than themselves.

So the next time you see or hear me saying "Sacrifice for Sydney", you will know exactly what I mean by it.