Showing posts with label moneyDomme. Show all posts
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Wednesday, July 12, 2017
You do not have to be rich to be my bitch
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There is power in the sacrifice
Contributing to a woman's life financially is the ultimate in sacrifices. Unfortunately so many of you are getting it twisted and convoluted. I have had males argue this point with me over and over to no end. It has been declared that locking your cock in chastity, or even going to the extreme of permanent physical emasculation is the biggest and greatest sacrifice a male can make for a woman, but I strongly disagree,and am more than happy to share why.
Women online (even those in the vanilla realm) do not care about your penis (only you do), so anything involving your penis is based upon you, and what you want. That is self-serving, therefore not sacrificial. Sure it is awesome that you will not be out there creating more mouths for the earth to feed, but odds are extremely low that you would find any woman to procreate with you anyhow. Of course locking up your dick is good for humanity though ( you want to be a good little male human don't you)..but since you are the only one getting pleasure out of it's existence, locking it up is not a true sacrifice for a woman. Removing your dick or balls is not a sacrifice for a woman either...how could it be, she had no use for them anyway. Let's be crystal clear here..your dick matters only to you, and to you alone..so cease attempting to use it as a sacrificial lamb for women. Your dick is a source of suffering, not a fitting sacrifice for women.
Think of all the suffering your dick has caused you. It has brought undue attention to the perversion of your mind many times. It has failed to bring pleasure to your sexual partners (that is if you have ever even found a woman that will lower herself to have sex with you). It fails you when you need it most. It has brought you shame in the form of laughter when others have seen it. It is ungodly ugly in it's resemblance to an earthworm. It is a kindness you are doing by locking it up in lifelong chastity. Be kind to yourself, and serve humanity on the whole by never allowing it to see the light of day again.
Now onto how money is the true seat of your power base. Money itself means nothing, and is actually just a means to an end, but it is the most powerfully motivating tool in history. Human beings have betrayed, killed, seduced, lied, and stolen to get their hands on enough of it. It feeds a hungry belly. It protects the flesh from the elements. It slakes a parched throat. It fills a home with all that can be purchased, and has even bought human beings. It allows one to travel in the company of others. It has won the heart and hand of many a maiden. It has instilled fear in enemies. IT IS POWER. It is more powerful than love, for enough of it can conquer a nation. That is the power of money. There can be no denial of it.
You need money to survive and thrive in this world. To be without it, is to truly be without a means of survival..and the drive to survive is stronger than any other force on earth. It is Queen, and cruelly rules this world we dwell in.
A moneyslave understands this concept all too well. He never disputes that money is power, and he willingly relinquishes that power to the one he serves. He abases himself by sacrificing his money into the hands of his owner. All that beautiful power exchanged. Without his money he is powerless. He can no longer command the attention he once received. He is forced to a degree of humility at last. It is only through such a sacrifice that he is able to see himself as he is meant to be..a submissive to the will of his owner..and that is the absolute point of FinDom in my estimation. I want to coat my flesh in all of that delicious soul tingling power. Fill me full of it. Release it all into my hands. That is true sacrifice gents, and the only one I recognize.
Women online (even those in the vanilla realm) do not care about your penis (only you do), so anything involving your penis is based upon you, and what you want. That is self-serving, therefore not sacrificial. Sure it is awesome that you will not be out there creating more mouths for the earth to feed, but odds are extremely low that you would find any woman to procreate with you anyhow. Of course locking up your dick is good for humanity though ( you want to be a good little male human don't you)..but since you are the only one getting pleasure out of it's existence, locking it up is not a true sacrifice for a woman. Removing your dick or balls is not a sacrifice for a woman either...how could it be, she had no use for them anyway. Let's be crystal clear here..your dick matters only to you, and to you alone..so cease attempting to use it as a sacrificial lamb for women. Your dick is a source of suffering, not a fitting sacrifice for women.
Think of all the suffering your dick has caused you. It has brought undue attention to the perversion of your mind many times. It has failed to bring pleasure to your sexual partners (that is if you have ever even found a woman that will lower herself to have sex with you). It fails you when you need it most. It has brought you shame in the form of laughter when others have seen it. It is ungodly ugly in it's resemblance to an earthworm. It is a kindness you are doing by locking it up in lifelong chastity. Be kind to yourself, and serve humanity on the whole by never allowing it to see the light of day again.
Now onto how money is the true seat of your power base. Money itself means nothing, and is actually just a means to an end, but it is the most powerfully motivating tool in history. Human beings have betrayed, killed, seduced, lied, and stolen to get their hands on enough of it. It feeds a hungry belly. It protects the flesh from the elements. It slakes a parched throat. It fills a home with all that can be purchased, and has even bought human beings. It allows one to travel in the company of others. It has won the heart and hand of many a maiden. It has instilled fear in enemies. IT IS POWER. It is more powerful than love, for enough of it can conquer a nation. That is the power of money. There can be no denial of it.
You need money to survive and thrive in this world. To be without it, is to truly be without a means of survival..and the drive to survive is stronger than any other force on earth. It is Queen, and cruelly rules this world we dwell in.
A moneyslave understands this concept all too well. He never disputes that money is power, and he willingly relinquishes that power to the one he serves. He abases himself by sacrificing his money into the hands of his owner. All that beautiful power exchanged. Without his money he is powerless. He can no longer command the attention he once received. He is forced to a degree of humility at last. It is only through such a sacrifice that he is able to see himself as he is meant to be..a submissive to the will of his owner..and that is the absolute point of FinDom in my estimation. I want to coat my flesh in all of that delicious soul tingling power. Fill me full of it. Release it all into my hands. That is true sacrifice gents, and the only one I recognize.
Sunday, May 21, 2017
Selfish Bitch am I
My favorite compliment of the week. "You are a selfish bitch"
Now you might assume that I am masochist to consider this a positive statement, so I shall endeavor to explain why it is 100% accurate.
I am rather fond of truth telling,and whilst the sender in no way intended to compliment me with this relay of words,it did just that. Do you know what his message conveyed to me? It showed me that I had pissed him off by not giving into his wants. He expected his entitlement as a male to cross over into FemDom,but he was mistaken. He was met head on with quite the opposite of his expectations. I bow to the wishes of no male,ever. I am WOMAN,hear me roar my disapproval with a quick slam dunk of the block button :)
Yes I am selfish. I have never denied that fact. I am here to sate my desires,to meet my needs,to have my will served. Why would you ever think anything less? Serving me is about me. It is about you the submissive putting aside your wants,better yet syncing them to mine,so that we will both experience happiness and pleasure when you please me. You like pleasure yes? You want to please me don't you?
Online is my playground,where I design the laws of my realm. If you are not willing to submit yourself to them,than by all means exit left. It really is that simple. You either live by my dictates,or you depart. No democracy here. This is a dictatorship,and I thrill in doling out decrees whilst you scamper to obey.
So,yes you can think me selfish all you like,cause it is true. Why would I desire to have any male serving me who does not see my wants as a priority? Why would I settle for coming in second place to a dick? That is an insult right there. Can you see that? Do you know any woman who thinks that your dick is a priority in her life? Be honest now.
Onto the bitch decree. I admit fully that I am a BITCH. Oh my gosh I said it! To whom am I a bitch though? Is it to the male who treats me like a fetish fantasy,a fetish vending machine,or even a one dimensional object for pecker pukers..ya just might be right on. I am most definitely a bitch to those type of males,along with males who do not display respect,read my profile before contact,ones who attempt to blindside me with dick pics,and especially the males that jump into my inbox knowing that tribute is required yet refuse to do so. You got me red handed...I am a BITCH BITCH BITCH lol.
I am in no way ashamed of being a selfish bitch who always places herself first. I am a strong woman who knows her worth,and if you refuse to see that,than you are the one who loses out,not me,cause there will always be a male more intelligent than you who is going to make my happiness his priority.
Now you might assume that I am masochist to consider this a positive statement, so I shall endeavor to explain why it is 100% accurate.
I am rather fond of truth telling,and whilst the sender in no way intended to compliment me with this relay of words,it did just that. Do you know what his message conveyed to me? It showed me that I had pissed him off by not giving into his wants. He expected his entitlement as a male to cross over into FemDom,but he was mistaken. He was met head on with quite the opposite of his expectations. I bow to the wishes of no male,ever. I am WOMAN,hear me roar my disapproval with a quick slam dunk of the block button :)
Yes I am selfish. I have never denied that fact. I am here to sate my desires,to meet my needs,to have my will served. Why would you ever think anything less? Serving me is about me. It is about you the submissive putting aside your wants,better yet syncing them to mine,so that we will both experience happiness and pleasure when you please me. You like pleasure yes? You want to please me don't you?
Online is my playground,where I design the laws of my realm. If you are not willing to submit yourself to them,than by all means exit left. It really is that simple. You either live by my dictates,or you depart. No democracy here. This is a dictatorship,and I thrill in doling out decrees whilst you scamper to obey.
So,yes you can think me selfish all you like,cause it is true. Why would I desire to have any male serving me who does not see my wants as a priority? Why would I settle for coming in second place to a dick? That is an insult right there. Can you see that? Do you know any woman who thinks that your dick is a priority in her life? Be honest now.
Onto the bitch decree. I admit fully that I am a BITCH. Oh my gosh I said it! To whom am I a bitch though? Is it to the male who treats me like a fetish fantasy,a fetish vending machine,or even a one dimensional object for pecker pukers..ya just might be right on. I am most definitely a bitch to those type of males,along with males who do not display respect,read my profile before contact,ones who attempt to blindside me with dick pics,and especially the males that jump into my inbox knowing that tribute is required yet refuse to do so. You got me red handed...I am a BITCH BITCH BITCH lol.
I am in no way ashamed of being a selfish bitch who always places herself first. I am a strong woman who knows her worth,and if you refuse to see that,than you are the one who loses out,not me,cause there will always be a male more intelligent than you who is going to make my happiness his priority.
Monday, May 1, 2017
The shame game
One of the things Ladies will find running rampant in the fetish scene is the shame game. The shame game consists of tried and true techniques employed to shame you into providing for the wants of the one playing you. You should ask yourself these two questions when you take note of the game one is playing. Are you an instrument? Do you want to be played?
How to recognize the game,oh and I care not to hear the insipid dialogue regarding not all males do this, since I am generalizing here.
"I have been burned in the past, so I want to take the time to see if we connect before I tribute". Egads why is this line still gaining traction?? This is a clear cut attempt to use women for free gratification. If someone really wanted to get to know you, they would be all over your social media sites feeling you out, and not come to you til after they have been able to gauge whether they are a good fit for your domination style. They would then come into your inbox with tribute already sent. That is what a decent male does.
"If you really loved dominating males, you would do it for free". Wow gotta love the logic in that statement. Of course we have all heard the saying "do a job you love, never work a day in your life", but even that saying would not ring true if there were no tangible benefits to performing said job. The saddest part of this ploy is that you will see even lifestyle Dominas spouting it. Yet I ask you this, how would those same lifestyle women react if said male never once purchased them a gift, and expected said woman to supply all of the equipment used to dominate them? Would they then feel the same? I highly doubt it. The males who engage in this tactic are relaying distinctly that they have zero appreciation for a woman's time and effort. They are selfish slug entitled misogynists, so wrapped up in themselves that they could not care less about anything that does not pertain to their wants.
"Only whores charge for sexwork"..and yes FinDom is considered sexwork. This attempt is set to make you feel degraded due to the negative connotations surrounding the word whore. Many males denote a whore as the lowest form of being, therefore they toss this out to shame you into doing what you do for free, atleast with them. If the word did not have such negativity associated with it, than this ploy would fizzle out. I say Fuck that! You decide the value of your time, and the worth of your association, not some shithead male. Own that your time is precious, and should not be wasted upon anyone that does not value it! Make them pay for everything they receive from you, regardless if it is conversation, cam time, tasks, clips etc...
"I just want to be your friend" Now this one is really a trickster. You should feel bad for even considering charging a male who just wants to be your friend! He just wants to be there for you, and listen to your problems with tributing males. Oh yes tell him all about your sessions, about how you dominate males. There is no way that he is leeching off of your experiences with his dick in hand, ya right. Seriously here, the males who come to you claiming that they want to be your friend are the worst possible friend you could take on. They are out to use you, and that is NOT ok. They are simply taking up space and time that could be spent with someone who will benefit your life in a lasting manner, so kick that user to the curb before he hooks claws into you.
"You are too (old,fat,ugly,stupid) to be a FinDomme" This type is a real piece of work. Their intent is to absolutely demoralize you into getting their way. They hit hard at the most sensitive spots for most women. Unless you possess a super thick impenetrable skin shell, than these insults are going to sting, especially if you are receiving them on the daily. These tactics are meant to break you down, to make you feel undesirable, and unwanted, therefore you will be appreciative when any male wants to spend time with you. This is all BS! Do not, I repeat, do not fall for this. Knowing your worth is the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. Love yourself, preconceived flaws and all. Recognize that you are more than what is visible to the human eye, and never allow any male to shake the confidence you have in yourself, cause anyone that does not value you for you, is not worth a single thought!
"Such and such only charges X " Ya we have all heard this one. This one is called the haggler. He wants to shame you into devaluing your time. Most times Mistress X does not even exist, and even if she did, it is not your place to lower your standards just because someone else does not see their true worth. Stand strong, and advise this type to run back to Mistress X than.
And that folks is all I have time for today..yup I gotta life to get back to, and bois begging to better it with financial sacrifice :)
How to recognize the game,oh and I care not to hear the insipid dialogue regarding not all males do this, since I am generalizing here.
"I have been burned in the past, so I want to take the time to see if we connect before I tribute". Egads why is this line still gaining traction?? This is a clear cut attempt to use women for free gratification. If someone really wanted to get to know you, they would be all over your social media sites feeling you out, and not come to you til after they have been able to gauge whether they are a good fit for your domination style. They would then come into your inbox with tribute already sent. That is what a decent male does.
"If you really loved dominating males, you would do it for free". Wow gotta love the logic in that statement. Of course we have all heard the saying "do a job you love, never work a day in your life", but even that saying would not ring true if there were no tangible benefits to performing said job. The saddest part of this ploy is that you will see even lifestyle Dominas spouting it. Yet I ask you this, how would those same lifestyle women react if said male never once purchased them a gift, and expected said woman to supply all of the equipment used to dominate them? Would they then feel the same? I highly doubt it. The males who engage in this tactic are relaying distinctly that they have zero appreciation for a woman's time and effort. They are selfish slug entitled misogynists, so wrapped up in themselves that they could not care less about anything that does not pertain to their wants.
"Only whores charge for sexwork"..and yes FinDom is considered sexwork. This attempt is set to make you feel degraded due to the negative connotations surrounding the word whore. Many males denote a whore as the lowest form of being, therefore they toss this out to shame you into doing what you do for free, atleast with them. If the word did not have such negativity associated with it, than this ploy would fizzle out. I say Fuck that! You decide the value of your time, and the worth of your association, not some shithead male. Own that your time is precious, and should not be wasted upon anyone that does not value it! Make them pay for everything they receive from you, regardless if it is conversation, cam time, tasks, clips etc...
"I just want to be your friend" Now this one is really a trickster. You should feel bad for even considering charging a male who just wants to be your friend! He just wants to be there for you, and listen to your problems with tributing males. Oh yes tell him all about your sessions, about how you dominate males. There is no way that he is leeching off of your experiences with his dick in hand, ya right. Seriously here, the males who come to you claiming that they want to be your friend are the worst possible friend you could take on. They are out to use you, and that is NOT ok. They are simply taking up space and time that could be spent with someone who will benefit your life in a lasting manner, so kick that user to the curb before he hooks claws into you.
"You are too (old,fat,ugly,stupid) to be a FinDomme" This type is a real piece of work. Their intent is to absolutely demoralize you into getting their way. They hit hard at the most sensitive spots for most women. Unless you possess a super thick impenetrable skin shell, than these insults are going to sting, especially if you are receiving them on the daily. These tactics are meant to break you down, to make you feel undesirable, and unwanted, therefore you will be appreciative when any male wants to spend time with you. This is all BS! Do not, I repeat, do not fall for this. Knowing your worth is the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. Love yourself, preconceived flaws and all. Recognize that you are more than what is visible to the human eye, and never allow any male to shake the confidence you have in yourself, cause anyone that does not value you for you, is not worth a single thought!
"Such and such only charges X " Ya we have all heard this one. This one is called the haggler. He wants to shame you into devaluing your time. Most times Mistress X does not even exist, and even if she did, it is not your place to lower your standards just because someone else does not see their true worth. Stand strong, and advise this type to run back to Mistress X than.
And that folks is all I have time for today..yup I gotta life to get back to, and bois begging to better it with financial sacrifice :)
Monday, April 3, 2017
Submission begins in the soul
I have no idea when it began, nor when it shall end, but end it must, for submission based upon the dick is no submission at all. You gents are jumping inbox to inbox (dick in hand) looking for your jerk off fix, and it is outright offensive for you to declare that as submissive behavior when it is the furthest thing from it.
Submission has nothing to do with you getting off. FemDom has nothing to do with you getting off, and the purchase or watching of FemDom porn does not equate to submission. FinDom has nothing to do with you getting off either.
Submission should be pleasurable yes, but not contained to a physical response. Of course it is exciting and sensual to offer your service to a dominant female, but the focus of submission is not you. Submission is when you selflessly put aside all of those selfish driven desires, and embrace the wants of another.
If the only time that you submit is when your dick is hard, than you are truly depriving yourself of a life enriching experience. Submission can possibly be the most fulfilling action of your life. Submission can alter your life beyond your imagination, and a thing of beauty if your motivations are pure. Don't you want to be a part of something wonderful, or would you rather that your life continue along the same monotonous path as it is now? You decide.
It takes courage to bow, and bravery to remain kneeling. Are you a coward hiding in the corner spuming on the floor, or are you a male who is tired of following the patriarchal mindset of dehumanizing women to the point that all they are good for is getting your dick off? Submission is not for those looking for a quickie dick fix. It is a noble choice reserved for the few males who are capable of refocusing their priorities from self to selfless. Is this you? You decide.
In the end, the power lays in your hands. You decide whether you will evolve into a male worthy of serving a woman, or just another selfish, self-absorbed, entitled asshole in a sea of shitheads.
Wednesday, March 1, 2017
Financial submissives are not victims
Why is there so much hating on submissive males in the FinDom scene..now before your knickers get bunched up,I am in no way referring to the buggered fantasists,or the wannabe playing at submissive males who are in all actuality simply selfish self-serving fetishists. I am speaking about the submissive males who willingly sacrifice mentally,physically,and financially for the benefit and amusement of the Domme they serve. These are the ONLY males in the scene worthy of attention. The rest of you all need to step left.
Let's clear up some misconceptions shall we. These are not weak emotionally downtrodden males. These are not males who are naively being taken advantage of by women. These are not males whose IQ measures no longer than the average waist circumference.
These are males who view submitting from a stance of strength rather than one of weakness. These are males who have their shit together,and want to dedicate their lives to a purpose greater than their ego. These are intelligent males,with the capability of recognizing that submission to women is their destined position.
It is time for people to stop making an ass of themselves by assuming that these males need rescued,or clinical therapy due to the nature of their submission. I have no doubt that if financial sacrifice was not in play,that no one would be crying foul,or pity upon these males. Isn't it funny how one single aspect makes such a difference? Now if I was shitting in my subs mouth 3 times daily,or shoving a 12" dong up his ass every night...not a single protest would be lodged,but heaven forbid that my subs please me with gifts,and financial sacrifice to ensure the comfort of my life!! Being a FinDomme is likened to being a criminal,or an unjustified welfare recipient. How are the two even equatable?
Financial submissives give willingly to their Dommes. Note that I said willingly! They are not being held at gunpoint and robbed. Of course there are always bad apples in every bunch,but the majority of FinDommes do not "force" or scam males out of money(that is illegal),yet non-findom domination practitioners paint all FinDommes with the same brush. In their eyes we are all lazy scavengers living off the bread roll of dumb psychologically stunted males. How is that any different than when the "vanillas" protest that all those who participate in bdsm are perverse and mentally unstable..and yes non-findom folks bitch about being referenced in such a manner,hypocrite much? How do you like people judging you when they have absolutely no valid perspective to come from? No one likes that shit,so stop it!
What they fail to grasp is that financially dominating males is WORK. It is not all flipping the bird,or calling males losers. It is about building a connection that differs minutely from any other ordinary relationship. It is about bonding. It is about meeting the need in males to submit,which is what they were innately designed to do. It is a give and take. They give their submission,and I accept it(if they are worthy). It is about me shaping these males into beings who benefit society,rather than prey upon it as patriarchal privilege would deem appropriate. It is teaching them to respect women on the whole,not just those they find physically attractive. Do any of these goals sound evil,or detrimental? Of course not.
Yes I dominate males financially,hence the FinDomme label,but only with willing males. I do not take advantage or abuse without consent(I am not a monster like that)..so who really is being hurt here. I will tell you what is being hurt here,your sense of righteousness,your conviction that these males are poor helpless sheep being ravaged by the wolf,and that is a misguided notion that you need to put to rest. This is why I dominate behind closed doors. That way,I am not offending any of your unwanted sensibilities.
Have a nice day,and seriously you all need to keep your nose out of other's doorways...else it just might get bent :)
Let's clear up some misconceptions shall we. These are not weak emotionally downtrodden males. These are not males who are naively being taken advantage of by women. These are not males whose IQ measures no longer than the average waist circumference.
These are males who view submitting from a stance of strength rather than one of weakness. These are males who have their shit together,and want to dedicate their lives to a purpose greater than their ego. These are intelligent males,with the capability of recognizing that submission to women is their destined position.
It is time for people to stop making an ass of themselves by assuming that these males need rescued,or clinical therapy due to the nature of their submission. I have no doubt that if financial sacrifice was not in play,that no one would be crying foul,or pity upon these males. Isn't it funny how one single aspect makes such a difference? Now if I was shitting in my subs mouth 3 times daily,or shoving a 12" dong up his ass every night...not a single protest would be lodged,but heaven forbid that my subs please me with gifts,and financial sacrifice to ensure the comfort of my life!! Being a FinDomme is likened to being a criminal,or an unjustified welfare recipient. How are the two even equatable?
Financial submissives give willingly to their Dommes. Note that I said willingly! They are not being held at gunpoint and robbed. Of course there are always bad apples in every bunch,but the majority of FinDommes do not "force" or scam males out of money(that is illegal),yet non-findom domination practitioners paint all FinDommes with the same brush. In their eyes we are all lazy scavengers living off the bread roll of dumb psychologically stunted males. How is that any different than when the "vanillas" protest that all those who participate in bdsm are perverse and mentally unstable..and yes non-findom folks bitch about being referenced in such a manner,hypocrite much? How do you like people judging you when they have absolutely no valid perspective to come from? No one likes that shit,so stop it!
What they fail to grasp is that financially dominating males is WORK. It is not all flipping the bird,or calling males losers. It is about building a connection that differs minutely from any other ordinary relationship. It is about bonding. It is about meeting the need in males to submit,which is what they were innately designed to do. It is a give and take. They give their submission,and I accept it(if they are worthy). It is about me shaping these males into beings who benefit society,rather than prey upon it as patriarchal privilege would deem appropriate. It is teaching them to respect women on the whole,not just those they find physically attractive. Do any of these goals sound evil,or detrimental? Of course not.
Yes I dominate males financially,hence the FinDomme label,but only with willing males. I do not take advantage or abuse without consent(I am not a monster like that)..so who really is being hurt here. I will tell you what is being hurt here,your sense of righteousness,your conviction that these males are poor helpless sheep being ravaged by the wolf,and that is a misguided notion that you need to put to rest. This is why I dominate behind closed doors. That way,I am not offending any of your unwanted sensibilities.
Have a nice day,and seriously you all need to keep your nose out of other's doorways...else it just might get bent :)
Wednesday, February 22, 2017
Monday, February 13, 2017
Ache for the arch of Sydney
Ache for the arch of Sydney
The whisper of my footfalls holds more power than screaming lips
Friday, February 10, 2017
Spoil FinDom feet
Thursday, February 2, 2017
FinDom feet worship
You must kneel before you can crawl to the feet of MzSydney
How quickly my real time gents learn that their face is my sole wrinkle eraser
Do you have the fortitude required to serve MzSydney?
How quickly my real time gents learn that their face is my sole wrinkle eraser
Do you have the fortitude required to serve MzSydney?
Wednesday, February 1, 2017
Lotion FinDom feet
Saturday, January 28, 2017
Mediocrity in FinDom
This is my thought about mediocre service in FinDom
Strive to provide excellence in service gents. Don't not rest upon mediocre laurels. You want to shine in service. You want to impress your FinDomme with your dedication towards pleasing her,don't you,else why bother expending effort at all?
As an experienced FinDomme,I realize that you gents are going to make mistakes when serving me,but I expect you to learn from them. You repeating,and me correcting the same mistakes over and over is both tedious and disrespectful. Neither of us is going to benefit from that type of interaction.
Of course you want to become the best possible submissive for your Domme,which means doing the best you possibly can. Being good is not good enough. Always strive to do better.
Submission is a lifelong journey. Get the most out of it,by putting the most into it. Make sense? I hope so :)
As an experienced FinDomme,I realize that you gents are going to make mistakes when serving me,but I expect you to learn from them. You repeating,and me correcting the same mistakes over and over is both tedious and disrespectful. Neither of us is going to benefit from that type of interaction.
Of course you want to become the best possible submissive for your Domme,which means doing the best you possibly can. Being good is not good enough. Always strive to do better.
Submission is a lifelong journey. Get the most out of it,by putting the most into it. Make sense? I hope so :)
Thursday, January 26, 2017
Initial FinDom tribute
Gents I get asked all of the time "how much should I send?". This question gets old very quickly. I understand that some of you are new to FinDom,and unsure of how you should go about things including tribute,so I am going to help you out :)
Timewasters are notorious for asking the question listed above,so anytime it is posed to me,a red flag goes up,and I become suspicious of your motivations immediately. Now I know that you do not want to start out on a bad foot with me,so let's get you past this shall we,and leave the shady for the shady.
Some Dommes will spell out clearly how much is an acceptable amount for a initial tribute,and some do not. You can get an idea of what will please here if you do your research. Look to what tributes she posts,or boasts about. As a rule I would say that if you are playing it cautious,than no less than what you would pay for drinks at a nice locale(not McDonalds). The amount should not wipe out your checking or savings account,well atleast not unless you are a starving artist. The point being that the initial tribute sets the tone,and expectations,so if you cheap out,than she is going to assume that you are either A)broke or B)a scrooge,and both are undesirable in FinDom.
I will be upfront with you right now,and I do not give a fig for whose pool I piss in by saying it,$10 is NOT a tribute. It is an insult. You may be a down on your luck type,to whom $10 is alot,but c'mon now,you know that it is not going to cut mustard. I cannot speak for other Ladies personally,but I myself earn a rather nice salary,so when you hit my inbox with less than $50,I am not going to be impressed. Tribute is meant to be a sacrifice,and sacrifices are meant to hurt. Note that I mentioned it should not break the bank though.
Think of it like this. You are investing in her attention. It is not unlike going out on a first date. Would you try to impress a woman by taking her to pizza hut? I hope not,or you will not be getting a second date. Base your initial tribute upon what you would be out of pocket if you had taken her to a nice restaurant,instead of what you spend at the local starbucks. With that and the proper submissive approach,you just might do quite well :)
Timewasters are notorious for asking the question listed above,so anytime it is posed to me,a red flag goes up,and I become suspicious of your motivations immediately. Now I know that you do not want to start out on a bad foot with me,so let's get you past this shall we,and leave the shady for the shady.
Some Dommes will spell out clearly how much is an acceptable amount for a initial tribute,and some do not. You can get an idea of what will please here if you do your research. Look to what tributes she posts,or boasts about. As a rule I would say that if you are playing it cautious,than no less than what you would pay for drinks at a nice locale(not McDonalds). The amount should not wipe out your checking or savings account,well atleast not unless you are a starving artist. The point being that the initial tribute sets the tone,and expectations,so if you cheap out,than she is going to assume that you are either A)broke or B)a scrooge,and both are undesirable in FinDom.
I will be upfront with you right now,and I do not give a fig for whose pool I piss in by saying it,$10 is NOT a tribute. It is an insult. You may be a down on your luck type,to whom $10 is alot,but c'mon now,you know that it is not going to cut mustard. I cannot speak for other Ladies personally,but I myself earn a rather nice salary,so when you hit my inbox with less than $50,I am not going to be impressed. Tribute is meant to be a sacrifice,and sacrifices are meant to hurt. Note that I mentioned it should not break the bank though.
Think of it like this. You are investing in her attention. It is not unlike going out on a first date. Would you try to impress a woman by taking her to pizza hut? I hope not,or you will not be getting a second date. Base your initial tribute upon what you would be out of pocket if you had taken her to a nice restaurant,instead of what you spend at the local starbucks. With that and the proper submissive approach,you just might do quite well :)
Silence in FinDom
Some of you gents may be wondering why the perfectly acceptable(in your estimation)messages you compose go unanswered when sent out to a FinDomme. Being ignored when it is not your fetish generally invokes anger,which leads to lashing out,and that can be the kiss of death for a submissive seeking a Domme,for it tends to carry over even when your responses are answered.
Let's take a look at why your messages are being dismissed right out of the box shall we? The average Domme does not spend the entirety of her day online due to having vanilla responsibilities such as a career or family,friends etc...,so when she is online,she is going to decide how best to make use of that precious commodity. Now let's say she receives 20 messages a day on average across the sites that she is a member of,and out of those messages only one has attached a tribute with it. Who do you think she is going to take the time to message back,the one who displayed his appreciation for her time,or the 19 others who did not?
Now you may be saying "but hey I am a great guy",but you tell me,how is she going to know that? Actions are always going to trump words. I have heard the explanation from many a male stating that he cannot afford to tribute every Domme he interacts with,and yes I get it,but I do not accept it. Before you get your knickers in a wad,I will explain. A Domme's profile is going to be chalk full of details necessary as a prelude to getting to know her. Her words should relay to you what she seeks,her expectations,and how she dominates. These are key pieces of knowledge,and based off of them should provide you with the desire to either reach out or run away. I know that too many of you get all caught up looking at photos rather than reading,but that is your bad to own. Reading her profile,blogs,website,twitter feed etc...is the easiest way to learn all about a Domme before you ever contemplate messaging her,and guess what,it is free!
Take your time studying a Domme. It will definitely save you headaches in the long run,and just might earn you some brownie points. Once you have done your research on the Dommes that truly interest you,AND mesh with the service you seek to offer(which should narrow the playing field down exponentially),then and only then should you begin to put fingers to keyboard. By employing your big head to dictate this course,you have now ensured that you can afford to offer a fitting tribute for her consideration. It is only when one gives in to the gotta catch em all mentality that you will fall short financially.
Hopefully I have given you gents something to consider in the future,well that is if you really want to see that inbox light up with a response.
Let's take a look at why your messages are being dismissed right out of the box shall we? The average Domme does not spend the entirety of her day online due to having vanilla responsibilities such as a career or family,friends etc...,so when she is online,she is going to decide how best to make use of that precious commodity. Now let's say she receives 20 messages a day on average across the sites that she is a member of,and out of those messages only one has attached a tribute with it. Who do you think she is going to take the time to message back,the one who displayed his appreciation for her time,or the 19 others who did not?
Now you may be saying "but hey I am a great guy",but you tell me,how is she going to know that? Actions are always going to trump words. I have heard the explanation from many a male stating that he cannot afford to tribute every Domme he interacts with,and yes I get it,but I do not accept it. Before you get your knickers in a wad,I will explain. A Domme's profile is going to be chalk full of details necessary as a prelude to getting to know her. Her words should relay to you what she seeks,her expectations,and how she dominates. These are key pieces of knowledge,and based off of them should provide you with the desire to either reach out or run away. I know that too many of you get all caught up looking at photos rather than reading,but that is your bad to own. Reading her profile,blogs,website,twitter feed etc...is the easiest way to learn all about a Domme before you ever contemplate messaging her,and guess what,it is free!
Take your time studying a Domme. It will definitely save you headaches in the long run,and just might earn you some brownie points. Once you have done your research on the Dommes that truly interest you,AND mesh with the service you seek to offer(which should narrow the playing field down exponentially),then and only then should you begin to put fingers to keyboard. By employing your big head to dictate this course,you have now ensured that you can afford to offer a fitting tribute for her consideration. It is only when one gives in to the gotta catch em all mentality that you will fall short financially.
Hopefully I have given you gents something to consider in the future,well that is if you really want to see that inbox light up with a response.
Monday, January 23, 2017
Deny Temptation
After seeing so much drama playing out on twitter,I seriously felt the need to share some advice with you my readers.
Hosting and creating drama does indeed draw attention to your brand,but it does not reflect in a positive light. We are all supposed to be mature individuals,and yes I realize that some of the males in the scene are throw backs from the stone age,but we as women should be above such BS.
As human beings we are not going to like every single person,male or female that we come into contact with in the fetish scene,but we can control how we react to them. That is part and parcel of being an adult.
If you are offended or disgusted by something that you see another person doing(so long as it is not illegal)let it go. There is no need to jump on their ass crying foul! Grow up,and learn to use your block,mute,or hide button. Most likely that person has https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=6375597482662535665#editor/target=post;postID=4067345113125612951no idea who the hell you are,nor did they post with the intention of getting your goat. Don't make shit personal that just isn't. Now even if the slim possibility existed that a tweet or post was directed at you,ignore it. I know,I know that we are Dominant women who take no shit from no one,but it smears your reputation when you engage in petty insult ploys,and that is something that you do not need. It is massively difficult to rebrand or repair a damaged rep,and your rep is one part of the equation which attracts submissives. Now why would you cut your nose off to spite your face eh?
I personally care for very few people,and actually like even less,but you would never know from looking at my TL. I do not call out fellow females,even when provoked. The only slurs I have been known to hurl are directed straight at the weaker sex(males)...and only when truly deserved.
Blasting and bashing announces to the world that you do not have your shit together. That you lack self-control,and domination is ALL about control,so if you cannot control your reactions and actions,than how in the hell are you going to responsibly handle,control,and care for those that serve you?? Yes wank stankers will find amusement in your lack of control,but decent worthy gents will now abstain from your service. Those males that are worth having in service are not interested in women who show such weakness,when women are meant to be a beacon of strength in Femdom.
Keep this in mind the next time you are tempted to lash out. Actions have consequences,and shitting where you eat(proverbially) does not make for a fine meal.
Hosting and creating drama does indeed draw attention to your brand,but it does not reflect in a positive light. We are all supposed to be mature individuals,and yes I realize that some of the males in the scene are throw backs from the stone age,but we as women should be above such BS.
As human beings we are not going to like every single person,male or female that we come into contact with in the fetish scene,but we can control how we react to them. That is part and parcel of being an adult.
If you are offended or disgusted by something that you see another person doing(so long as it is not illegal)let it go. There is no need to jump on their ass crying foul! Grow up,and learn to use your block,mute,or hide button. Most likely that person has https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=6375597482662535665#editor/target=post;postID=4067345113125612951no idea who the hell you are,nor did they post with the intention of getting your goat. Don't make shit personal that just isn't. Now even if the slim possibility existed that a tweet or post was directed at you,ignore it. I know,I know that we are Dominant women who take no shit from no one,but it smears your reputation when you engage in petty insult ploys,and that is something that you do not need. It is massively difficult to rebrand or repair a damaged rep,and your rep is one part of the equation which attracts submissives. Now why would you cut your nose off to spite your face eh?
I personally care for very few people,and actually like even less,but you would never know from looking at my TL. I do not call out fellow females,even when provoked. The only slurs I have been known to hurl are directed straight at the weaker sex(males)...and only when truly deserved.
Blasting and bashing announces to the world that you do not have your shit together. That you lack self-control,and domination is ALL about control,so if you cannot control your reactions and actions,than how in the hell are you going to responsibly handle,control,and care for those that serve you?? Yes wank stankers will find amusement in your lack of control,but decent worthy gents will now abstain from your service. Those males that are worth having in service are not interested in women who show such weakness,when women are meant to be a beacon of strength in Femdom.
Keep this in mind the next time you are tempted to lash out. Actions have consequences,and shitting where you eat(proverbially) does not make for a fine meal.
Sunday, January 22, 2017
Findom Expectations
This may be hard to believe but not all FinDommes are alike personally(we already know this is true appearance wise). Of course the financial aspect is a shared expectation,but other elements will vary Domme to Domme. Just as no two snowflakes are identical,neither are two FinDommes.
Some will interact with males freely for a predetermined amount of time before expecting tribute to be sent,and some will not speak to males at all without a tribute being sent first. Some will degrade and humiliate males from the get go,while others want to learn about you before they jump into that pool,whilst others may not engage in such play ever.
There are FinDommes who do cash meets,and real time domination,yet others do not dominate anywhere except online,or even ones who straddle the fence.
Some are hardcore sadists who enjoy financially ruining males,while others only control budgets,and the rest who perch all along the spectrum of Financial Domination. Plenty of Dommes desire gifts only,no cash,and others crave cash only.
There are those FinDommes who will blackmail you for real(not me),and those that will befriend you.
There are some who want to better you by training you to be the best possible submissive,and others who want to destroy you.
Some will want to lock your cock in chastity forever,yet others will push you to edge and masturbate daily.
Many will expect regular interactions with you,and others will want none unless you are tributing at that time.
Some expect daily tributes(small amounts),some weekly ones(bigger tributes),and even those who accept monthly tributes.
Some will want to own you and your wallet in a day,most will not.
There are those who will not have anything to do with you if you do not tribute atleast $100 a week,while others will accept less.
Some will allow you to worship them in all of their naked glory,whilst others will share nothing nude but toes.
Some will listen to your talk of everyday life,and others want to know nothing of it.
Some will tempt,and others strike fear.
Some will care about you as a human being,and others simply will not.
There are those who will want to use you as their toilet,and others who are grossed out by the notion.
There are those that are kind,and those that are cruel,and pretty much everything in between.
The comparisons could go on and on,but I think you get the point don't you gents?
Now it is up to you gents to decide which type of woman you want to serve,and I hope that each of you males reading this post will take one bit of knowledge away from it,which is.....RESEARCH is your best friend when it comes to getting to know exactly what type of FinDomme you are approaching. Read her blogs,check out her website,perv that twitter. Learn her expectations,and ask yourself if she is the one you want to serve.
Some will interact with males freely for a predetermined amount of time before expecting tribute to be sent,and some will not speak to males at all without a tribute being sent first. Some will degrade and humiliate males from the get go,while others want to learn about you before they jump into that pool,whilst others may not engage in such play ever.
There are FinDommes who do cash meets,and real time domination,yet others do not dominate anywhere except online,or even ones who straddle the fence.
Some are hardcore sadists who enjoy financially ruining males,while others only control budgets,and the rest who perch all along the spectrum of Financial Domination. Plenty of Dommes desire gifts only,no cash,and others crave cash only.
There are those FinDommes who will blackmail you for real(not me),and those that will befriend you.
There are some who want to better you by training you to be the best possible submissive,and others who want to destroy you.
Some will want to lock your cock in chastity forever,yet others will push you to edge and masturbate daily.
Many will expect regular interactions with you,and others will want none unless you are tributing at that time.
Some expect daily tributes(small amounts),some weekly ones(bigger tributes),and even those who accept monthly tributes.
Some will want to own you and your wallet in a day,most will not.
There are those who will not have anything to do with you if you do not tribute atleast $100 a week,while others will accept less.
Some will allow you to worship them in all of their naked glory,whilst others will share nothing nude but toes.
Some will listen to your talk of everyday life,and others want to know nothing of it.
Some will tempt,and others strike fear.
Some will care about you as a human being,and others simply will not.
There are those who will want to use you as their toilet,and others who are grossed out by the notion.
There are those that are kind,and those that are cruel,and pretty much everything in between.
The comparisons could go on and on,but I think you get the point don't you gents?
Now it is up to you gents to decide which type of woman you want to serve,and I hope that each of you males reading this post will take one bit of knowledge away from it,which is.....RESEARCH is your best friend when it comes to getting to know exactly what type of FinDomme you are approaching. Read her blogs,check out her website,perv that twitter. Learn her expectations,and ask yourself if she is the one you want to serve.
Tuesday, January 10, 2017
Barter up
Bartering. *barter definition. The exchange of goods or services for other goods or services, rather than for money.*
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I do not do this! Yes there are people in the fetish scene who will haggle and barter,but I am not one of them,so please refrain from attempting to barter with me.
I have had many males offer to clean my house,mow my lawn etc etc etc..in exchange for domination,not happening :) I already have a male who performs those chores for me,and guess what,he PAYS me to do them for me,so I have no need to barter with you. Even contemplating bartering with me is ignorant and insulting.
Everything in my life costs money out of my pocket,and it is the duty of a male to reimburse those amounts to me. I realize that many of you were raised to believe that you should not have to pay for a woman's time or attention,and if you do than she is a whore,but that is outdated patriarchal entitlement,which is not going to get you anywhere in a woman's world.
Here is the deal. If you are too "good" or too poor to tribute towards the financial comfort and success of a woman,than you need to stay away from women who know their worth,and are not accepting of selfish self-serving ingrates. It really is that simple. I promise that I will not come barging into your inbox begging for your cash or your attention,and ask that you do the same. There is absolutely no need to waste your time or mine when in the end you will never be serving me.
Whether you believe it or not life is expensive,and so is fetish. Clothes,toys,make up,pedicures,polish,heels,computers,internet service,and on and on and on. Get my point? Every moment a FinDomme spends with a non-contributing male is a financial loss. That time could have been spent with a more deserving male who recognizes and joyfully embraces his duty to enrich her life in a tangible manner.
I realize that many of you label yourself as a "true lifestyle slave" meaning that you do not pay shit for having your fetish fulfilled..yes I see your selfish assess,and they disgust me. Ask yourself this,"Why would any woman want to play with me for free?" "Why would any woman want to sate my selfish desires with no return?" Oh and you licking her ass,feet,cooch,whatever is NOT a valuable return! Yes yes I know that I sound so cold hearted,suck it up buttercup,cause the days of women having to cater to your dick are OVER. No truly dominant woman is going to bow down to your dick designs. Sure you can purchase custom clips from women,or get your rocks off in a cam room if you tip enough,but guess what shithead,that is going to cost you too...oops once again it comes down to paying :( so strap in,and open that wallet wide for the pillaging.
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I do not do this! Yes there are people in the fetish scene who will haggle and barter,but I am not one of them,so please refrain from attempting to barter with me.
I have had many males offer to clean my house,mow my lawn etc etc etc..in exchange for domination,not happening :) I already have a male who performs those chores for me,and guess what,he PAYS me to do them for me,so I have no need to barter with you. Even contemplating bartering with me is ignorant and insulting.
Everything in my life costs money out of my pocket,and it is the duty of a male to reimburse those amounts to me. I realize that many of you were raised to believe that you should not have to pay for a woman's time or attention,and if you do than she is a whore,but that is outdated patriarchal entitlement,which is not going to get you anywhere in a woman's world.
Here is the deal. If you are too "good" or too poor to tribute towards the financial comfort and success of a woman,than you need to stay away from women who know their worth,and are not accepting of selfish self-serving ingrates. It really is that simple. I promise that I will not come barging into your inbox begging for your cash or your attention,and ask that you do the same. There is absolutely no need to waste your time or mine when in the end you will never be serving me.
Whether you believe it or not life is expensive,and so is fetish. Clothes,toys,make up,pedicures,polish,heels,computers,internet service,and on and on and on. Get my point? Every moment a FinDomme spends with a non-contributing male is a financial loss. That time could have been spent with a more deserving male who recognizes and joyfully embraces his duty to enrich her life in a tangible manner.
I realize that many of you label yourself as a "true lifestyle slave" meaning that you do not pay shit for having your fetish fulfilled..yes I see your selfish assess,and they disgust me. Ask yourself this,"Why would any woman want to play with me for free?" "Why would any woman want to sate my selfish desires with no return?" Oh and you licking her ass,feet,cooch,whatever is NOT a valuable return! Yes yes I know that I sound so cold hearted,suck it up buttercup,cause the days of women having to cater to your dick are OVER. No truly dominant woman is going to bow down to your dick designs. Sure you can purchase custom clips from women,or get your rocks off in a cam room if you tip enough,but guess what shithead,that is going to cost you too...oops once again it comes down to paying :( so strap in,and open that wallet wide for the pillaging.
Monday, January 9, 2017
What is in a name
Over the past few days I have been on the receiving end of more insults than the previous 6 months. Odd eh? No rhyme,nor pattern as they have been hurled by those that I have had zero past or present contact with. I have been called a hag,a slag,a whore,and more lol.
Why do you think it is that absolute strangers feel compelled to attempt to downgrade those that have done them no ill? Is it insecurity driven? Do the abusers believe that it somehow elevates them in stature to toss vile words at others? Do they do so in an attempt to distract themselves from the failure of the life they live? Is it done with the hope that they may pass upon to me the pain that they themselves feel within? Am I merely an opportune target for the moment?
A further theory as to the motivation of such actions is the hope that I will return like with like,thereby providing them with the humiliation and degradation they so richly seek. This is something I am no stranger to. In fact I have had multiple males try this ploy to no avail with me,for I am no newbie to the fetish scene.
For the most part,I see insults spilling from a place of anger. Anger that should be turned internally for resolution. I realize that life can suck donkey dicks,and that sometimes it just is not fair,but than it is not promised to be. The point being that a mature human being understands that the faults in one's life lay within themselves,not within another. If your life is not what you want it to be,than get off your ass and make the needed changes,rather than spewing your hatred upon strangers,for they do not possess the power to aid you in your internal struggle. In fact, for some of those that you choose to rain your abuse upon are already dealing with their own issues,therefore do not need yours muddying their waters. Now a less secure woman would take offense,and perhaps feel that there is a kernel of truth in the steaming piles slung upon their backs,but I am not an insecure woman.
I accept and recognize that I am not appealing physically to all males,and that my personality is not what the majority will crave to be brought low by,but that in no way detracts from how I view myself. Being a dominant woman is not about fitting into a set patriarchal designed mold. It means that I am strong enough emotionally to handle rejections without crumbling,that I know my worth without others setting the value of it,that I see my beauty,and embrace it even when others do not. So to all of those that have given in to the desire to leave their burning bag of dog shit at my proverbial door,know now that you have accomplished nothing,for you do not dwell in my thoughts,nor will you hold a reserved spot in my memories,for you are definitely unworthy of that distinction.
To those who are burdened down by the hateful actions and words of others,please do take heed,and never allow the hatred to take seed within you,for happiness and acceptance of self is found through adversity. Allow every cruelly directed missile of malevolence to break upon your shore,but not breach your defenses,for if you believe a single insult to be true,than you are giving reign over your life to one who does not deserve it. Keep doing you,keep being you,and keep believing in you!
Why do you think it is that absolute strangers feel compelled to attempt to downgrade those that have done them no ill? Is it insecurity driven? Do the abusers believe that it somehow elevates them in stature to toss vile words at others? Do they do so in an attempt to distract themselves from the failure of the life they live? Is it done with the hope that they may pass upon to me the pain that they themselves feel within? Am I merely an opportune target for the moment?
A further theory as to the motivation of such actions is the hope that I will return like with like,thereby providing them with the humiliation and degradation they so richly seek. This is something I am no stranger to. In fact I have had multiple males try this ploy to no avail with me,for I am no newbie to the fetish scene.
For the most part,I see insults spilling from a place of anger. Anger that should be turned internally for resolution. I realize that life can suck donkey dicks,and that sometimes it just is not fair,but than it is not promised to be. The point being that a mature human being understands that the faults in one's life lay within themselves,not within another. If your life is not what you want it to be,than get off your ass and make the needed changes,rather than spewing your hatred upon strangers,for they do not possess the power to aid you in your internal struggle. In fact, for some of those that you choose to rain your abuse upon are already dealing with their own issues,therefore do not need yours muddying their waters. Now a less secure woman would take offense,and perhaps feel that there is a kernel of truth in the steaming piles slung upon their backs,but I am not an insecure woman.
I accept and recognize that I am not appealing physically to all males,and that my personality is not what the majority will crave to be brought low by,but that in no way detracts from how I view myself. Being a dominant woman is not about fitting into a set patriarchal designed mold. It means that I am strong enough emotionally to handle rejections without crumbling,that I know my worth without others setting the value of it,that I see my beauty,and embrace it even when others do not. So to all of those that have given in to the desire to leave their burning bag of dog shit at my proverbial door,know now that you have accomplished nothing,for you do not dwell in my thoughts,nor will you hold a reserved spot in my memories,for you are definitely unworthy of that distinction.
To those who are burdened down by the hateful actions and words of others,please do take heed,and never allow the hatred to take seed within you,for happiness and acceptance of self is found through adversity. Allow every cruelly directed missile of malevolence to break upon your shore,but not breach your defenses,for if you believe a single insult to be true,than you are giving reign over your life to one who does not deserve it. Keep doing you,keep being you,and keep believing in you!
cuckolds no like me :(
I have been going through my data,and just realized that there is one type of submissive(note that I am referring to submissives,not fetishists)that I rarely receive contact from,and actually I am not overly surprised. Can you guess?........cuckolds. Shocking yes? I took a moment to pontificate why,and this is what I arrived at...I am neither a BBC lover,nor a nympho who is constantly fixated on sex,so I fail to appeal to cuckolds in that sense.
Surprising to many males,but I value intimacy over penetration. Yes I have a man in my life,and no none of you will be sucking his cock(as if I would want your filthy mouth on my man)! Of course I take great pleasure in buying gifts for him with your cash,but I would never bring you into his presence,nor would I ever consider allowing any of you to watch or listen to us fornicate. My private life is just that,and I do not allow submissives to intrude upon it.
I am definitely not an oversexed crazy for the cock woman either,which is why you rarely see me posting about doing the sexy dance. I am more of a snuggle,cuddle,and pet type of woman,but no you will never fill that position either,so yes I can see why cuckolds are not drawn to me,and that is ok. In my estimation being a good and true cuckold is about enhancing the sex life of your Domme through whatever means she deems acceptable,and that for me is by purchasing clothing items that he alone will see and touch,by sending him gifts that will make him smile,by respecting the fact that I have chosen him as my mate,and celebrating my happiness in this union with your cash.
Afterall very few men have been fortunate enough to enjoy the fruits of this cougar Dominatrix :)
Surprising to many males,but I value intimacy over penetration. Yes I have a man in my life,and no none of you will be sucking his cock(as if I would want your filthy mouth on my man)! Of course I take great pleasure in buying gifts for him with your cash,but I would never bring you into his presence,nor would I ever consider allowing any of you to watch or listen to us fornicate. My private life is just that,and I do not allow submissives to intrude upon it.
I am definitely not an oversexed crazy for the cock woman either,which is why you rarely see me posting about doing the sexy dance. I am more of a snuggle,cuddle,and pet type of woman,but no you will never fill that position either,so yes I can see why cuckolds are not drawn to me,and that is ok. In my estimation being a good and true cuckold is about enhancing the sex life of your Domme through whatever means she deems acceptable,and that for me is by purchasing clothing items that he alone will see and touch,by sending him gifts that will make him smile,by respecting the fact that I have chosen him as my mate,and celebrating my happiness in this union with your cash.
Afterall very few men have been fortunate enough to enjoy the fruits of this cougar Dominatrix :)
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