Why is there so much hating on submissive males in the FinDom scene..now before your knickers get bunched up,I am in no way referring to the buggered fantasists,or the wannabe playing at submissive males who are in all actuality simply selfish self-serving fetishists. I am speaking about the submissive males who willingly sacrifice mentally,physically,and financially for the benefit and amusement of the Domme they serve. These are the ONLY males in the scene worthy of attention. The rest of you all need to step left.
Let's clear up some misconceptions shall we. These are not weak emotionally downtrodden males. These are not males who are naively being taken advantage of by women. These are not males whose IQ measures no longer than the average waist circumference.
These are males who view submitting from a stance of strength rather than one of weakness. These are males who have their shit together,and want to dedicate their lives to a purpose greater than their ego. These are intelligent males,with the capability of recognizing that submission to women is their destined position.
It is time for people to stop making an ass of themselves by assuming that these males need rescued,or clinical therapy due to the nature of their submission. I have no doubt that if financial sacrifice was not in play,that no one would be crying foul,or pity upon these males. Isn't it funny how one single aspect makes such a difference? Now if I was shitting in my subs mouth 3 times daily,or shoving a 12" dong up his ass every night...not a single protest would be lodged,but heaven forbid that my subs please me with gifts,and financial sacrifice to ensure the comfort of my life!! Being a FinDomme is likened to being a criminal,or an unjustified welfare recipient. How are the two even equatable?
Financial submissives give willingly to their Dommes. Note that I said willingly! They are not being held at gunpoint and robbed. Of course there are always bad apples in every bunch,but the majority of FinDommes do not "force" or scam males out of money(that is illegal),yet non-findom domination practitioners paint all FinDommes with the same brush. In their eyes we are all lazy scavengers living off the bread roll of dumb psychologically stunted males. How is that any different than when the "vanillas" protest that all those who participate in bdsm are perverse and mentally unstable..and yes non-findom folks bitch about being referenced in such a manner,hypocrite much? How do you like people judging you when they have absolutely no valid perspective to come from? No one likes that shit,so stop it!
What they fail to grasp is that financially dominating males is WORK. It is not all flipping the bird,or calling males losers. It is about building a connection that differs minutely from any other ordinary relationship. It is about bonding. It is about meeting the need in males to submit,which is what they were innately designed to do. It is a give and take. They give their submission,and I accept it(if they are worthy). It is about me shaping these males into beings who benefit society,rather than prey upon it as patriarchal privilege would deem appropriate. It is teaching them to respect women on the whole,not just those they find physically attractive. Do any of these goals sound evil,or detrimental? Of course not.
Yes I dominate males financially,hence the FinDomme label,but only with willing males. I do not take advantage or abuse without consent(I am not a monster like that)..so who really is being hurt here. I will tell you what is being hurt here,your sense of righteousness,your conviction that these males are poor helpless sheep being ravaged by the wolf,and that is a misguided notion that you need to put to rest. This is why I dominate behind closed doors. That way,I am not offending any of your unwanted sensibilities.
Have a nice day,and seriously you all need to keep your nose out of other's doorways...else it just might get bent :)
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