Showing posts with label ThickDomme. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ThickDomme. Show all posts
Friday, February 10, 2017
Spoil FinDom feet
Wednesday, February 8, 2017
Rosy FinDom feet
Behold the beauty which rests on a bed of roses
Valentine's Day nears gents...get your gift cards sent to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Tuesday, February 7, 2017
FinDom heart
Monday, February 6, 2017
sinful soles FinDom
Thursday, February 2, 2017
FinDom feet worship
You must kneel before you can crawl to the feet of MzSydney
How quickly my real time gents learn that their face is my sole wrinkle eraser
Do you have the fortitude required to serve MzSydney?
How quickly my real time gents learn that their face is my sole wrinkle eraser
Do you have the fortitude required to serve MzSydney?
Wednesday, February 1, 2017
Lotion FinDom feet
Tuesday, January 31, 2017
FinDom Foot Fetish
This is what those with a foot fetish dream of
Who wants to taste these toes and soles? I know that your mouth is watering at the prospect :)
The only way you will ever get the chance is by sacrificing for Mz Sydney. Are you ready
to sacrifice for ME?
The only way you will ever get the chance is by sacrificing for Mz Sydney. Are you ready
to sacrifice for ME?
Monday, January 30, 2017
Saturday, January 28, 2017
Mediocrity in FinDom
This is my thought about mediocre service in FinDom
Strive to provide excellence in service gents. Don't not rest upon mediocre laurels. You want to shine in service. You want to impress your FinDomme with your dedication towards pleasing her,don't you,else why bother expending effort at all?
As an experienced FinDomme,I realize that you gents are going to make mistakes when serving me,but I expect you to learn from them. You repeating,and me correcting the same mistakes over and over is both tedious and disrespectful. Neither of us is going to benefit from that type of interaction.
Of course you want to become the best possible submissive for your Domme,which means doing the best you possibly can. Being good is not good enough. Always strive to do better.
Submission is a lifelong journey. Get the most out of it,by putting the most into it. Make sense? I hope so :)
As an experienced FinDomme,I realize that you gents are going to make mistakes when serving me,but I expect you to learn from them. You repeating,and me correcting the same mistakes over and over is both tedious and disrespectful. Neither of us is going to benefit from that type of interaction.
Of course you want to become the best possible submissive for your Domme,which means doing the best you possibly can. Being good is not good enough. Always strive to do better.
Submission is a lifelong journey. Get the most out of it,by putting the most into it. Make sense? I hope so :)
Thursday, January 26, 2017
Initial FinDom tribute
Gents I get asked all of the time "how much should I send?". This question gets old very quickly. I understand that some of you are new to FinDom,and unsure of how you should go about things including tribute,so I am going to help you out :)
Timewasters are notorious for asking the question listed above,so anytime it is posed to me,a red flag goes up,and I become suspicious of your motivations immediately. Now I know that you do not want to start out on a bad foot with me,so let's get you past this shall we,and leave the shady for the shady.
Some Dommes will spell out clearly how much is an acceptable amount for a initial tribute,and some do not. You can get an idea of what will please here if you do your research. Look to what tributes she posts,or boasts about. As a rule I would say that if you are playing it cautious,than no less than what you would pay for drinks at a nice locale(not McDonalds). The amount should not wipe out your checking or savings account,well atleast not unless you are a starving artist. The point being that the initial tribute sets the tone,and expectations,so if you cheap out,than she is going to assume that you are either A)broke or B)a scrooge,and both are undesirable in FinDom.
I will be upfront with you right now,and I do not give a fig for whose pool I piss in by saying it,$10 is NOT a tribute. It is an insult. You may be a down on your luck type,to whom $10 is alot,but c'mon now,you know that it is not going to cut mustard. I cannot speak for other Ladies personally,but I myself earn a rather nice salary,so when you hit my inbox with less than $50,I am not going to be impressed. Tribute is meant to be a sacrifice,and sacrifices are meant to hurt. Note that I mentioned it should not break the bank though.
Think of it like this. You are investing in her attention. It is not unlike going out on a first date. Would you try to impress a woman by taking her to pizza hut? I hope not,or you will not be getting a second date. Base your initial tribute upon what you would be out of pocket if you had taken her to a nice restaurant,instead of what you spend at the local starbucks. With that and the proper submissive approach,you just might do quite well :)
Timewasters are notorious for asking the question listed above,so anytime it is posed to me,a red flag goes up,and I become suspicious of your motivations immediately. Now I know that you do not want to start out on a bad foot with me,so let's get you past this shall we,and leave the shady for the shady.
Some Dommes will spell out clearly how much is an acceptable amount for a initial tribute,and some do not. You can get an idea of what will please here if you do your research. Look to what tributes she posts,or boasts about. As a rule I would say that if you are playing it cautious,than no less than what you would pay for drinks at a nice locale(not McDonalds). The amount should not wipe out your checking or savings account,well atleast not unless you are a starving artist. The point being that the initial tribute sets the tone,and expectations,so if you cheap out,than she is going to assume that you are either A)broke or B)a scrooge,and both are undesirable in FinDom.
I will be upfront with you right now,and I do not give a fig for whose pool I piss in by saying it,$10 is NOT a tribute. It is an insult. You may be a down on your luck type,to whom $10 is alot,but c'mon now,you know that it is not going to cut mustard. I cannot speak for other Ladies personally,but I myself earn a rather nice salary,so when you hit my inbox with less than $50,I am not going to be impressed. Tribute is meant to be a sacrifice,and sacrifices are meant to hurt. Note that I mentioned it should not break the bank though.
Think of it like this. You are investing in her attention. It is not unlike going out on a first date. Would you try to impress a woman by taking her to pizza hut? I hope not,or you will not be getting a second date. Base your initial tribute upon what you would be out of pocket if you had taken her to a nice restaurant,instead of what you spend at the local starbucks. With that and the proper submissive approach,you just might do quite well :)
Silence in FinDom
Some of you gents may be wondering why the perfectly acceptable(in your estimation)messages you compose go unanswered when sent out to a FinDomme. Being ignored when it is not your fetish generally invokes anger,which leads to lashing out,and that can be the kiss of death for a submissive seeking a Domme,for it tends to carry over even when your responses are answered.
Let's take a look at why your messages are being dismissed right out of the box shall we? The average Domme does not spend the entirety of her day online due to having vanilla responsibilities such as a career or family,friends etc...,so when she is online,she is going to decide how best to make use of that precious commodity. Now let's say she receives 20 messages a day on average across the sites that she is a member of,and out of those messages only one has attached a tribute with it. Who do you think she is going to take the time to message back,the one who displayed his appreciation for her time,or the 19 others who did not?
Now you may be saying "but hey I am a great guy",but you tell me,how is she going to know that? Actions are always going to trump words. I have heard the explanation from many a male stating that he cannot afford to tribute every Domme he interacts with,and yes I get it,but I do not accept it. Before you get your knickers in a wad,I will explain. A Domme's profile is going to be chalk full of details necessary as a prelude to getting to know her. Her words should relay to you what she seeks,her expectations,and how she dominates. These are key pieces of knowledge,and based off of them should provide you with the desire to either reach out or run away. I know that too many of you get all caught up looking at photos rather than reading,but that is your bad to own. Reading her profile,blogs,website,twitter feed etc...is the easiest way to learn all about a Domme before you ever contemplate messaging her,and guess what,it is free!
Take your time studying a Domme. It will definitely save you headaches in the long run,and just might earn you some brownie points. Once you have done your research on the Dommes that truly interest you,AND mesh with the service you seek to offer(which should narrow the playing field down exponentially),then and only then should you begin to put fingers to keyboard. By employing your big head to dictate this course,you have now ensured that you can afford to offer a fitting tribute for her consideration. It is only when one gives in to the gotta catch em all mentality that you will fall short financially.
Hopefully I have given you gents something to consider in the future,well that is if you really want to see that inbox light up with a response.
Let's take a look at why your messages are being dismissed right out of the box shall we? The average Domme does not spend the entirety of her day online due to having vanilla responsibilities such as a career or family,friends etc...,so when she is online,she is going to decide how best to make use of that precious commodity. Now let's say she receives 20 messages a day on average across the sites that she is a member of,and out of those messages only one has attached a tribute with it. Who do you think she is going to take the time to message back,the one who displayed his appreciation for her time,or the 19 others who did not?
Now you may be saying "but hey I am a great guy",but you tell me,how is she going to know that? Actions are always going to trump words. I have heard the explanation from many a male stating that he cannot afford to tribute every Domme he interacts with,and yes I get it,but I do not accept it. Before you get your knickers in a wad,I will explain. A Domme's profile is going to be chalk full of details necessary as a prelude to getting to know her. Her words should relay to you what she seeks,her expectations,and how she dominates. These are key pieces of knowledge,and based off of them should provide you with the desire to either reach out or run away. I know that too many of you get all caught up looking at photos rather than reading,but that is your bad to own. Reading her profile,blogs,website,twitter feed etc...is the easiest way to learn all about a Domme before you ever contemplate messaging her,and guess what,it is free!
Take your time studying a Domme. It will definitely save you headaches in the long run,and just might earn you some brownie points. Once you have done your research on the Dommes that truly interest you,AND mesh with the service you seek to offer(which should narrow the playing field down exponentially),then and only then should you begin to put fingers to keyboard. By employing your big head to dictate this course,you have now ensured that you can afford to offer a fitting tribute for her consideration. It is only when one gives in to the gotta catch em all mentality that you will fall short financially.
Hopefully I have given you gents something to consider in the future,well that is if you really want to see that inbox light up with a response.
Monday, January 23, 2017
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