Focus on your goal

Focus is a key element to success. Focus aids you in achieving your goals, and lack of it is sure to send you in a downward spiral. This pertains to all areas of life, even Findom. It is even applicable on both sides of the fence (Domme&submissive).

You will never reach and or sate your desires if you lose focus. Whether intentional or not, we all set goals in our lives, and formulate an agenda to meet those goals. It is not required that we obliterate every other factor of our lives to get there, but a purpose driven life is more likely to yield the results we crave.

Say for example that you want to be the very best possible submissive that you possibly can be for your Domme, than you should keep that thought uppermost in your mind, and find ways to apply it in every aspect of your life. That includes the "vanilla" realm of your life as well.

As a submissive you should be working hard at your place of employment in order to climb the ladder, and earn more revenue for your FinDomme. You can take classes to further your education in your chosen field, which just might earn you the promotion you seek, thereby allowing you to enrich her life further. In this place of employment as well, you can honor your chosen Lady by displaying respect for women, by not engaging in the "good ole boys" mentality. Be that one male who doesn't catcall women, or talk about them lewdly openly or on the down low. Do not sexualize the women you see, nor relegate them to one dimensional beings whose only purpose is satiation of male desires. Stand out among your peers by opening doors for women in and out of the workplace. Aid women in their advancements. Make it known that you are an advocate for women, and that your advocacy is not a weakness, but a strength. Donate to women's causes. Give your patronage to female owned businesses whenever possible. Tip your waitress atleast 20%. Intentionally look for ways to advance awareness of how patriarchy is nothing more than abuse of women. These are all ways to grow in your submission towards the feminine.

On the flip side Dommes who keep their eyes and actions trained towards the finish line are more likely to reach it eventually. Part of this is not allowing the actions of others to woo you from your path. It is so easy to get discouraged when you see so many others doing the things you want to do, getting the tributes you yourself wish to receive, receiving the accolades and acknowledgement that you believe you deserve, but here is the thing! You will never reach your desired destination if your eyes are focused upon others. You must keep your focus on you, on your goals, and how best to achieve them. This may mean going out of your comfort zone a bit. Now I am not advocating that you change, or do anything that just does not fit in with who you are as a dominant woman, but I am relaying that you cannot gauge your success by the standards of others. Focusing and obsessing on how well others in your field are doing will only distract you, and in some instances even depress you. To discourage this from happening, you could spend your excess time reading, researching, and furthering your knowledge of fetishes, and how best to bring males to their knees before you. After all what woman would not like to have a harem of males bowing before them lol :) Seriously though, seek out ways to propel yourself forward, so long as it is not upon the backs of other females, go for it. Do not be afraid to be ruthless in your desire to succeed. Take chances, and if they fail, get the hell up and get back on that horse. Never allow your worth or chances of succeeding to be set by outside forces. Be you, do you, and in time success will be your bitch!

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User=loser

You are a user baby! A user,what is a user? A user is a male who is trying to get his kink on for free when dealing with a FemDomme. Users try all kinds of ploys to obtain their objective,such as "if you really loved femdom,you would do it for free" or "real FemDommes don't charge" even "paying to get my kink on takes away from my pleasure". Hmm last I checked,Femdom was not based upon the wants of males,now is it? It is not even based upon what your dick wants,so tell him to shut the fuck up,cause he is ruining your chances of ever serving a FemDomme.

Are you males so deluded that you actually believe that you should not be conTributing towards the expense of a FemDommes time and attention? Her time is definitely more valuable than yours nitwit,and besides,you do not see her banging into your inbox demanding attention now do you,NO. The very best things in femdom are NOT free baby.

I do not believe it to be delusions alone,but selfishness as well. You have been told your entire life how special you are,how you deserve the very best,but guess what...YOU WERE LIED TO. That's right,your lovely parents lied to you. You are not entitled,you are not a special snowflake,and nothing worth having comes easy or free. You are going to have to squash down that entitlement BS,and accept that tributing financially,and putting forth sacrificial effort is required if you are ever going to be worthy of serving a FemDomme.

No FemDomme worth a grain of salt is going to come knocking at your door,proverbial or literal,stating that you are just so awesome that she must have you serving her. Get that fantasy outta your head. Not happening. You need to wake up quickly and realize that dominating males IS work,and she should be compensated for it financially,and seriously shithead, pics of your dick are not qualifying tributes. You are a single solitary walking skinflap amongst hundreds of others vying and hoping for the golden opportunity to serve a divine FemDomme. Flapping your jaws and slapping your wank is just not good enough to garner attention. You must go above and beyond the norm to receive that "atta boy" nod.

If you truly are a fan of femdom and devout in your desire to serve a FemDomme than open up that musty moth eaten wallet,and show her that you mean it. Show her that you appreciate her time and recognize it as being of worth,else you are nothing but a filthy femdom wannabe junkie jerk off. You tell me,is there anything to be proud of for attempting to use women for your own means? No there is not. It is utterly shameful that any male would perpetrate such actions,so man up and shut up til you have tithed your FemDomme Goddess.

socks of the day

The view at my feet is heavenly

The feet of Goddess deserve to be pampered,spoiled,and clad only in the softest of materials,and it is your duty to ensure that this continues. My foot boys are responsible for providing the resources to finance this holiest of ventures. Being a part of the Mz minions who sacrifice for the luxury items which Goddess is used to is the highest of honors. Love of and devotion to the happiness of Goddess is proven with tribute,not compliments or comments,so put those fingers to good use and send amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Grow my money tree green

Grow my money tree green!

Growing my money tree green is one of the essentials to making Goddess happy. A fruitful tree provides for the wants and needs of Goddess's life of comfort and ease,as well as ensuring that luxury reigns within her household. It is an honor to serve Goddess in this manner. An honor which all submissive males should vie to attain. There should never exist a doubt within the mind of Goddess that you as her lowly minion are suffering for her,sacrificing financially for her,and serving her to the very best of your ability.

How good boys get attention

This is why my good boys get attention,and you do not!

Some of you seem to think that I am teasing when I relay that I require males to sacrifice,suffer,and serve to and for ME. I assure you that I am not joking. Providing for your Goddess financially is an honor which should be held in esteem,not disdain. Tributing allows males to play a part in my everyday life,which they normally would not be encompassed within.

Tribute is tangible proof that you crave to serve me in all ways I desire. Serving me is based upon me,not you. My wishes accede any that you may have possessed previously. My wants rule your realm always. There is no selfless excuse not to tribute,only selfish ones.

Know now that if you are ever to play any role in my life,than tribute is a must,not a maybe.

No way around it

YOU MUST

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Wrinkled soles,and toesocks!

Wrinkled soles rubbed in your face! Who wants to worship my wrinkles?

The only males allowed beneath these soles,are those who EARN it. Work work work hard to become what pleases me.

Financial Domination Niche

One of the very first pieces of advice I was given when entering the online realm of Financial Domination, was that I would have to find a niche for myself in order to become successful. Now successful is a subjective term. How does one measure success? Is it by the number of males serving,or the amount of tribute received weekly,perhaps even by your follower counts on social media sites?

If I were to judge myself by any of the above mentioned standards of grading,than I would be deemed a failure*gasp* I have exactly 2 males serving my will,who are not rich by any means,but who give their best effort to provide for the fulfillment of my desires,and my social media followers are not numbered in the thousands either,so I guess most would say that I have failed abysmally in my quest to break to my bit the Financial Domination pony. I myself would disagree with that estimation though.

To me success is gauged by the loyalty and devotion of those serving under me. I would rather have a single servant that worships me selflessly,than 100 who seek to sate their own agendas instead. Making males cum,or teasing them into erections with my naked flesh,just holds no interest for me. Sure there are thousands who do work their magic that way,but I have never aspired to be one of the crowd. I stand out due to the fact that I do not play many of the popular findom games,nor employ the proven strategies

I want servants,true devoted gents who cannot imagine nor desire a life where they are not working towards my happiness alone,rather than them spewing a few key words role played with the goal in sight being their sticky hand. I have always been forthright about my not being the one to come to if you are looking for a wank. Getting off is not serving in my opinion. That is simply a male being a male.

With my eyes I take note that over 90% of the males in the Financial Domination are not submissive in any way,shape or form. These are males who differ not at all from their non-bdsm brothers. They gravitate to this scene due to the bevy of beautiful women who dwell here. Findom is a literal smorgasboard for horny males. Tons of nude,near nude,and erotic photography. Truly with all the visual candy displayed,they do not even have to come out of pocket at all to get off. Now for those who must have some interaction with their jerk fest,well for a few pennies on the dollar,or tokens,one can receive a fine ass show to masturbate to. Plenty of cam sites where females will be at your beck and call for the dolla. For a bit more,clips can be purchased to rouse and release your pud roll.

Let's be frank here..nudity is no longer shocking or risque in this time and day. Spread vaginas are pasted everywhere you look..lots with dildos implanted in them even..so why is it that any male would find their way into my inbox? Honestly they do not...well not tons atleast,and that is a plus for me.I do not want to deal with males who are looking to get a nut off,or call the shots with their wallet.

Another aspect which relegates me to the outer rings of the revolving door of findom is that I do not chase after the money. Whether it is on a site or social media,I do not pm or dm males trying to get them to see the uniqueness of me,and sway them into serving me. I want no servant that I would have to cajole,seduce,coerce,or bludgeon into being mine. I feel that a male should serve me,because that is his aspiration,and if a male soulfully craves to serve me,than he will approach me,rather than me chasing after him like he is a prize. I am the fair maiden. I am the Goddess. I am the Queen whose attention you must earn,not the other way around. I do not work for males,they strive to impress me..to leave a favorable lasting impression.

Lastly I do not lie! Even if I know that what I am going to say will hurt little male feelings,or ding  egos,I will not lie. If I say that I am not interested in your service,than I am really not. It is not a game I play,or some means of getting you to open your wallet a bit wider. I have no qualms about being blunt,Lord knows that honesty trumps deceit every single time.

So,what does this post convey..it says 1)I will not adhere to practices of others to get a dollar 2)I will not chase males down(that includes making initial contact) 3)I will not lie to get my way 4)I will not be ruled by the wants or wallets of males. These are traits that set me apart from a great many,and appreciated by the few,but that's ok with me :) Quality > Quantity every day in every way!

My perfect peds are in need of a pedicure,and you should be begging for the privilege of pleasing me!

Goddess feet in the morning

Views from the pew in Sydney's Sanctuary! Worship and Tribute my thick thighs!!!

sunning soles

Goddess has been sunning her soles today! Everyday should be relaxing for ME,and full of work for you! Goddess deserves the very best,and it is your honor to provide it for me. The first and last thought of your day should be filled with how best you can serve and please ME. Good bois already know this,and it is only good bois who are allowed into my inner sanctum. Don't you want to be a good boi for Goddess?

Tribute each and every toe

Every toe is a treasure to a foot fetish boi

Yield to the will of your Goddess,and offer yourself at her divine feet.

Lick sinful soles

Addiction is cruelly beautiful

What better way to lose your soul than serving the ambition of a Goddess.

Get beneath my feet

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My desire

My desire is for amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Morning sunkissed wrinkled soles to worship and TRIBUTE

Ponderings of the day

This past week I have directed several potentials to this blogspot,and heard nary a word in response once accomplished,which had me pondering why. What is it in particular about my blogs which deters prospective males? My prevailing thought is that males are cowed by the fact that I accept no BS,and expect to be spoiled for the time I allot. My strength and expectations hit at the pride and ego of the entitled patriarchal pride of males. Think that is it?

Perhaps one of the primary explanations as to why my words and thoughts send males scurrying for cover,is that they recognize me for the threat I am. A dangerous woman who does not require validation externally,nor require outside influence to complete her life and sense of self. My dominance is a slap in the face to perceived patriarchal teachings relaying that women need a male in order to feel of worth,and that the approval of men is a need in the mind of a woman.

The truth is that I am honest to fault when it comes to making clear just what use I have for males. It is my belief that males were created to serve the designs of women period,and that women are owed compensation financially from males due to the task of dealing with them. Is that cruel,does it hurt the feelings of males? Pity than,but then perhaps not,for males must learn their duty and position if they are ever to have value,so if one must suffer emotionally from the destruction of their ego,so be it.

Those that come crawling with the mentality of "I scratch your back,you scratch mine" are seriously lacking in sense. In no way am I here to scratch your itch. Call it selfish,name me self-centered,I care not,but it will not change my requirements from males. You either serve,and that means doing as I desire,not and I mean not offering service to me that is centered upon what pleases your dicklet. I could not give a fuck less about what it is that your dick wants. Evolve beyond that or be buried beneath the sky high mound of other males who have attempted to veil their intentions prior to you.

To some service is a fantasy they have created. A safe little virtual cocoon where women seek them out to get them off physically,because oh yes they truly believe that women desire nothing more than to give of their energy,time,and self-respect by catering to male delusions. That only happens in really bad porn by the way.

So yes I have come to the conclusion that I am the big cruel BITCH who values her time way more than you ever will,and that is why you will never receive a moment of it. You bore me with your wanking dreams,and how your dick thinks you should serve me..the reality is that you must PAY for my time,you must PAY for my attention,you must PAY for my pleasure,and happiness. That is all there is to it. I will not allow males to suck me dry like a leech..you pay,pay,and then pay again,and just maybe I might have something to say to you. Don't like it,doesn't get your dick hard,oh well,see ya never. :)

Give to Goddess

Give to Goddess

You were created to please ME,now open your wallet and spew your cash into my amazon account!