Steady the course

I have been pondering the course of this blog for quite some time now. Like all blogs I get the main statistics for my viewers,but I have to wonder how many submissive males actually peruse my words,or merely take advantage of my generosity with photos. The conclusion I reached is that most of my posts are used as educational tools for females rather than a driving force which ensnares my prey. Of course this is not exactly the outcome I envision when I am pouring myself into this blog.

I recently asked for feedback from male submissives & random contacts,and the results were interesting to say the least. The information I received was that 1)As soon as the majority of males note that I enjoy the findom fetish they are bolting for safer(free) territory,but the joke is on them seeing as even purely lifestyle Dominas expect gifts and what not,so inevitably training is NOT free anywhere,except in the imagination of femdom porn viewers. 2)That my firm adherence to standards and manners is overwhelming,even frightening to some,and all I can say to that is "Get over it". I hold the behavior of those that serve me to the same level as any male I would meet on the street ie no I do not want to be flashed,catcalled,or objectified. Hmmm guess that makes me an uber scary bitch huh.3)Timewasters pick up on the fact right away that I am no newbie falling for tired tactics. YAY

 Is any of the data upsetting to me. No. I knew from the get go that my style was not going to sit well with the usual fetish client fanatics,and I am good with that. The one thing that continues to tweek my ass though is the amount of lazy disrespect I deal with on a daily basis. Seriously does it take that much effort to read a profile? I read them,and I know that you surely do not believe yourself so very superior to me that you have no need to do so.

I cannot count how many times I have been contacted by an unknown male begging to serve,just to flip out when he sees that I do not offer free training,and I ask myself how could he be surprised since it is listed in every one of my profiles. Oh and the numerous pleadings to be my maid,my sextoy,my bf...astounds me as this is clearly conveyed as well that I possess no desire for such,yet it goes on every day. I am not sure who is smacking you boys with the stupid stick,but honestly you need to avoid them.

The final realization I reached is that I am not about to change my style or approach for anyone,and I do mean anyone. If you do not care for my fetishes,that is A OK,but that does not mean that I give a rat's ass for your negative opinion regarding it,so keep your lips zipped,and move along in your elusive search for the big FREE. Oh and if I am wayyyyy toooo scary for little old you,then hide your head under the covers,cause I am definitely not going to be creeping after you. Point being,it's a new day,and that means that I am just going to automatically block any that come at me with offers to serve in any manner which is not pleasing to me,and yes that includes those that feel they are too good,entitled,or special to tribute,so don't be shocked when it happens to you :)

Now if you are one of the rare gentlemen out there whom accepts,respects,and seeks out a Lady of elite class to serve,then you need not worry,for I am most welcoming of sincerity,integrity,and manners.