A difficult feat

Patience patience patience. A simple word,but a difficult feat to accomplish. Take a look at any forum where FinDommes gather,and what will you see besides the gauntlet of ads once must skirt through? Inevitably there will be a lonely little post posing the query "where are all of the Dommes/subs at" This is not contained to a single site. It is everywhere in the fetish scene. Predominantly though in the findom field. Why,well because in this arena females outnumber the males exponentially,and the ones whom actually do tribute and serve are snatched up like starving beggars who have found a dumpster full of food,not to mention that the Dommes are becoming jaded due to being overrun by fetish clients rather than servile submissives,so be prepared to wait patiently until you are approached or approach one that meets your personal criteria and standards,and for farks sake do not base your criteria on how full the wallet is,or how hot the ass is.

Possessing the attribute I mentioned will over time yield the desired results you crave,trust me. Scampering,scurrying,and pestering every male or female you see joining the sites is NOT going to get you anywhere,unless that is you enjoy being thought of as a desperate hoser(doesn't sound like an attractive adjective does it)? Yes they have said for centuries that the early bird gets the worm,and that you must be aggressive to get anywhere in the world,but I ask you this,did you ever hear the one about the meek inheriting the earth? What I take from the previous adage in regards to findom is that awaiting your prey to come to you is sweeter and more lucrative than wasting your energy chasing after something which may result in a bitter taste on your tongue when you find out that it was not something meant to be,and for you boys,being meek and humble will definitely set you apart in regards to worth compared to all of the horny wank off wallys.

Patience does not mean the advocacy of being a wallflower or like a beetle hiding in a knot hole on the wall,nor does it mean acting like you are a bull in the arena rushing at every (Domme,sub) you see. Patience,dignity,and perseverance are the traits of one whom possess the staying power required to maintain until you are at last in the home stretch of developing a meaningful connection.

Now some of you are saying "this just ain't me,or how I roll",and that is fine,cause it is not a secret that those out for a quick wank or buck will always show their colors by their lack of patience,so go ahead and make your intentions known to the community at large by your actions,but keep your lips sealed when you find that no one of serious intent wants to play with you.