Submitting is about completely letting go and fully surrendering yourself to domination. Holding back,or going at it tepidly cheats everyone. If you are indecisive,it is you that will lose out. Of course it can be a stomach dropping decision,but just as one does when riding a roller coaster,throw up your arms,and enjoy the experience whilst embracing the sheer exhilaration factor.
Of course there will be ups and downs,that is with any relationship in life,and yes even in a D's one you must be realistic. There may be moments,hours,or even days where you simply have so much going on in your life that submission is the last thing on your mind,and this is when you need to just breathe and be honest with whomever you serve about your mindset and situation. The worst thing to do is to disappear. Relationships are hard work,never forget that. Yes it all seems so easy in the beginning when your lusty hormones are in overdrive,but that does fade in time,and that is when the work begins in earnest.Nothing in life is worth a tinkers darn if you have not earned it,so be prepared to put in some effort.
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