Goddess has returned from vacation...yay for you that divinity will be available to brighten your life once more. My time was spent in utter relaxation with my family,and no I will not be posting photos,as they were shared only with those that contributed to the financial aspects of making this trip possible.

How I adored being back in my small town where you need never lock your doors,or concern yourself if you left your purse in plain sight while strolling downtown. There definitely are perks to small town America...such as beautiful firework displays,people waving as you go by(and no I do not mean the one finger salute)..couples in rocking chairs on their porches,parades with horses,and carnivals with huge corndogs and lemon shake ups!! Just being me was wonderful. No need to cake my face with the civility of make up,or check constantly that every hair was in place. No use for fancy tech or jewels...doesn't that sound amazing?? Trips to the lake,and an amusement park(definitely you should add six flags to your vacation planner).

Alas though,all good things come to an end,so here I am back in the big city. Your job is to scrimp and sacrifice to fund my next trip,so get to it minions! Labor day sounds like the perfect time for a weekend getaway. Plenty of time for you to make it happen.

Onto further news..a sweet little pet has drifted away due to personal issues(they always come back) but he did spoil me aplenty this month..to the tune of $620 in cash and $2400 in amazon gc's(too lazy to post pics of them all,but some of the spoils are on twitter)!! That is orgasmic :) The rest of you better step up your gifting.

Of course my little brat remains as faithful as ever to my happiness by funding my charitable projects,and keeping my lawn tidy,such a good boy. That is the extent of my stable at the moment,and honestly I am not sweating it. My goal was only to ever hold sway over 2-3 boys. Anymore and I would not have the time needed to train them. Drive by cash sluts are always welcome to visit the royal stables,but no permanent lodging :) Since I am rejuvenated and most pleased at the moment,I will be accepting applications for 1 single slot,so let the competition begin. Impress me,woo me,court me with your cash,not your compliments,and perhaps you shall be the honored boy to spend time with a Goddess :)

Steady the course

I have been pondering the course of this blog for quite some time now. Like all blogs I get the main statistics for my viewers,but I have to wonder how many submissive males actually peruse my words,or merely take advantage of my generosity with photos. The conclusion I reached is that most of my posts are used as educational tools for females rather than a driving force which ensnares my prey. Of course this is not exactly the outcome I envision when I am pouring myself into this blog.

I recently asked for feedback from male submissives & random contacts,and the results were interesting to say the least. The information I received was that 1)As soon as the majority of males note that I enjoy the findom fetish they are bolting for safer(free) territory,but the joke is on them seeing as even purely lifestyle Dominas expect gifts and what not,so inevitably training is NOT free anywhere,except in the imagination of femdom porn viewers. 2)That my firm adherence to standards and manners is overwhelming,even frightening to some,and all I can say to that is "Get over it". I hold the behavior of those that serve me to the same level as any male I would meet on the street ie no I do not want to be flashed,catcalled,or objectified. Hmmm guess that makes me an uber scary bitch huh.3)Timewasters pick up on the fact right away that I am no newbie falling for tired tactics. YAY

 Is any of the data upsetting to me. No. I knew from the get go that my style was not going to sit well with the usual fetish client fanatics,and I am good with that. The one thing that continues to tweek my ass though is the amount of lazy disrespect I deal with on a daily basis. Seriously does it take that much effort to read a profile? I read them,and I know that you surely do not believe yourself so very superior to me that you have no need to do so.

I cannot count how many times I have been contacted by an unknown male begging to serve,just to flip out when he sees that I do not offer free training,and I ask myself how could he be surprised since it is listed in every one of my profiles. Oh and the numerous pleadings to be my maid,my sextoy,my bf...astounds me as this is clearly conveyed as well that I possess no desire for such,yet it goes on every day. I am not sure who is smacking you boys with the stupid stick,but honestly you need to avoid them.

The final realization I reached is that I am not about to change my style or approach for anyone,and I do mean anyone. If you do not care for my fetishes,that is A OK,but that does not mean that I give a rat's ass for your negative opinion regarding it,so keep your lips zipped,and move along in your elusive search for the big FREE. Oh and if I am wayyyyy toooo scary for little old you,then hide your head under the covers,cause I am definitely not going to be creeping after you. Point being,it's a new day,and that means that I am just going to automatically block any that come at me with offers to serve in any manner which is not pleasing to me,and yes that includes those that feel they are too good,entitled,or special to tribute,so don't be shocked when it happens to you :)

Now if you are one of the rare gentlemen out there whom accepts,respects,and seeks out a Lady of elite class to serve,then you need not worry,for I am most welcoming of sincerity,integrity,and manners.

Nothing worth having is free

I do not offer free slave training,that simply is not for me. This does not detract from the fact that I highly enjoy bringing a male to heel,but it comes at the exponential cost of my time and energy doing so. This is exactly why I bear zero tolerance for those seeking the easy way out(a free ride). Nothing in this life is free,and I do mean nothing,and nothing worth having would be free.

There is of course the argument that love is free,but is it really. Have you ever tried dating without spending a single cent, spent hours,days or weeks wooing a prospective partner,or even your personal energy devoted towards coming to know someone...I think not. Some relationships may be free in the sense that you are not paying for it financially,but none the less it does require time and energy,and those are priceless commodities,so tell me why is it that so many of you possess such a vehement distaste towards investing your finances along with your time and energy towards the development of a D's relationship?

Do you hold to the stance of high moral grounds such as "paying to serve is no different than engaging a prostitute" or the more pseudological theory that is if one loves an activity that they would participate simply for the love of it? Perhaps in your erroneously skewed view you are equating serving with the popular porn versions of femdom you see on the internet. If so,then allow me to educate you upon the fact that what you see is not real. No not as in what you see is one of your more detailed fantasies,but in essence yes it is a fantasy. Ask with your big head "Do I really believe that females run around all of the time in the bedroom breasts on display,corset applied,stilettos strapped up to match their strap on,just salivating at the though of having a male specimen there to play with his dick,and fuck him in the ass"? Seriously does that scenario even sound realistic? If your response is yes,then you need to double up on your medication today. The scene I described is merely a script written for entertainment value...to sell to a customer base. Sex sells especially to males which is something advertisers have known for eons,so why would you not grasp that the producers of femdom porn are playing to the weakness of males,and making massive bank from it. My point being that service is not sexually based,meaning that your expectations should not involve intercourse at all,and most likely you will never even view your owner in  flagrante,nor in the all natural state of undress either,which is what you pay a prostitute for. You pay a lady of the night for the fulfillment of sexual services. You tribute a Domina in the hopes that you please her in a non-sexual manner. No sex,no payment,just a contribution towards her happiness,and no sex=no prostitution.

In regards to the loving what you do,so why not do it for free angle. Let's be frank here. I absolutely love my outside job,but would I labor at it for free,no. Why,well because I value myself and my time,ergo why would I give myself away in such a manner? I see the role described as that of a slave. It is the position of a slave to toil for me and other superior women non gratis,not for us to do so for the pleasure of a lowly male. I am not the provider of free based male gratification,as that would designate myself to that of an inferior position,which would not suit me well. I am an alpha female. I lead,not follow. I command,not obey. I reign,not supplicate to actions which serve the libido of males.

It all boils down to you being the beta within the hierarchy structure,and it is your place to serve your superiors in a worshipful,and enriching manner,however that may be that they require. The decision is not yours to make as to how you please them,only whether you choose to serve,so if your pubescent intellect does not allow for you to comprehend the dynamics of enslaving yourself into the service of one whom expects to rule all aspects of your life(financial included),then run along and twiddle yourself in privacy whilst your submissive souled counterparts embrace the reality of actual service.