Real Time Foot Worship

Tonight my real time boy brat had the honor of worshiping my wrinkled soles,and high arches. He got to experience what all of you little foot freaks dream about..my divine sinful soles in and on his face. Work hard and long to prove yourself,and you may someday find yourself exactly where he did,heaven!

On his hands and knees praying to his Goddess Mz Sydney.

Being granted the supreme honor of holding my foot in his hand.

Smothering his face with my wrinkled soles(Be jealous boys).

He even got to lick my silky soles.

Spoiling me is not an option but rather a privilege

*Happy Dance* Goddess is pleased as punch! Little pet les just purchased the boots I wanted so badly from my wish list.

Now that is the action of a good pet. One that sees to my wants rather than his own greedy demands,so raspberries for those of you that did not even beg to gift me with them as you should have from the moment you knew I wanted them.

To top off my happiness,I mentioned to my brat that I so wanted a dress and cosmetics from Macys to which he immediately begged to buy them for me,and of course I allowed him to as a reward for his good behavior of late. Aren't I sweet :)

Late posting today oops...got way too busy :p

I did receive a couple of more gifts from my brat in the post today

Always such a good boy for his Goddess!! Now I can add the vera wang forever scent to my growing collection,and brat should be by this weekend to put up the new wall decal in the cylinder yay!

Even though I have had a million and one things to get done today despite the cold ass temps outside,I did make time to set up plans for a rt session at the end of the month with a male that has served me almost 2 years,how lucky is he,although I am keeping a tight lid on my plans for him that day lol

Don't forget boys to show your appreciation via amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Femdom or faux

There appears to be an entirely new generation of males scouring the internet daily for a femdom fix. Do they actually find kernels of legitimate female domination,or do they stumble upon pornographic photos and films depicting what another male envisions femdom to be? Judging from the misconceptions conveyed to me in correspondences,I would lay odds on the porn angle,simply because the majority impart that they are seeking some type of sexual scenario,which does not exist.

Common sense should tell one that their visions,and hopes are unrealistic. I mean seriously,does anyone truly believe outside of a bar that a sober stranger wants to sensually play with their sexual organs,or enact a scene which gets them off for the pure pleasure of it? If you honestly buy into the fantasy,then please get psychiatric guidance,because you are living in la la land.

Female domination is not based on sex,hell domination itself is not either,but things have become so dastardly convoluted that one cannot see beyond tits,ass,pussy,and cock. I ask myself if this is merely a phase,or is this the new face of the fetish scene,and if it is,then I have no use for it. I genuinely mourn the loss of interacting with gentlemen whom appreciate a Lady,and respectfully bow down to her wishes,sans hidden agendas.

One would hope that with age comes wisdom and life shaping experience(the reason why I do not consider any male under 30),but even the males I have exchanged missives with within my desired age range have become soiled and spoiled into thinking that bdsm is all about them,and their cock emissions.

I would love nothing more than to slap a certain popular female femdom writer in the face due to her portraying males as treasures to be treated as a godsend. Yes submission is a gift,but that does not make you a special snowflake. Ask yourself just how many submissives do you think are on the internet,hell in the entire world looking for a Domme? You would be astounded to learn that you are one of thousands upon thousands,so why should any Lady consent to training you? What do you have to offer which makes you of value,and no the size of your equipment,nor a hot body matters. Pretty boys are a dime a dozen,so do not bank on that either.

 As a submissve your submission is a commodity,so what makes it of worth? Are you attentive,are you capable of integrity,and devotion? Do you possess the maturity to recognize that it is not your will that matters? I am not saying that you do not have the right to choose whom you serve,but I am saying that this is where you must drop the attitude that you are entitled to call the shots. A power exchange involves you relinquishing control,not barking orders from the bottom. You can never forget your place in service. You are the one serving,not the one being served,which is an entirely different endeavor,so keep this in mind when you are looking around at what the monkeys are doing,and try your best not to ape them,for you devalue yourself by doing so.

Nothing worth having is free

I do not offer free slave training,that simply is not for me. This does not detract from the fact that I highly enjoy bringing a male to heel,but it comes at the exponential cost of my time and energy doing so. This is exactly why I bear zero tolerance for those seeking the easy way out(a free ride). Nothing in this life is free,and I do mean nothing,and nothing worth having would be free.

There is of course the argument that love is free,but is it really. Have you ever tried dating without spending a single cent, spent hours,days or weeks wooing a prospective partner,or even your personal energy devoted towards coming to know someone...I think not. Some relationships may be free in the sense that you are not paying for it financially,but none the less it does require time and energy,and those are priceless commodities,so tell me why is it that so many of you possess such a vehement distaste towards investing your finances along with your time and energy towards the development of a D's relationship?

Do you hold to the stance of high moral grounds such as "paying to serve is no different than engaging a prostitute" or the more pseudological theory that is if one loves an activity that they would participate simply for the love of it? Perhaps in your erroneously skewed view you are equating serving with the popular porn versions of femdom you see on the internet. If so,then allow me to educate you upon the fact that what you see is not real. No not as in what you see is one of your more detailed fantasies,but in essence yes it is a fantasy. Ask with your big head "Do I really believe that females run around all of the time in the bedroom breasts on display,corset applied,stilettos strapped up to match their strap on,just salivating at the though of having a male specimen there to play with his dick,and fuck him in the ass"? Seriously does that scenario even sound realistic? If your response is yes,then you need to double up on your medication today. The scene I described is merely a script written for entertainment value...to sell to a customer base. Sex sells especially to males which is something advertisers have known for eons,so why would you not grasp that the producers of femdom porn are playing to the weakness of males,and making massive bank from it. My point being that service is not sexually based,meaning that your expectations should not involve intercourse at all,and most likely you will never even view your owner in  flagrante,nor in the all natural state of undress either,which is what you pay a prostitute for. You pay a lady of the night for the fulfillment of sexual services. You tribute a Domina in the hopes that you please her in a non-sexual manner. No sex,no payment,just a contribution towards her happiness,and no sex=no prostitution.

In regards to the loving what you do,so why not do it for free angle. Let's be frank here. I absolutely love my outside job,but would I labor at it for free,no. Why,well because I value myself and my time,ergo why would I give myself away in such a manner? I see the role described as that of a slave. It is the position of a slave to toil for me and other superior women non gratis,not for us to do so for the pleasure of a lowly male. I am not the provider of free based male gratification,as that would designate myself to that of an inferior position,which would not suit me well. I am an alpha female. I lead,not follow. I command,not obey. I reign,not supplicate to actions which serve the libido of males.

It all boils down to you being the beta within the hierarchy structure,and it is your place to serve your superiors in a worshipful,and enriching manner,however that may be that they require. The decision is not yours to make as to how you please them,only whether you choose to serve,so if your pubescent intellect does not allow for you to comprehend the dynamics of enslaving yourself into the service of one whom expects to rule all aspects of your life(financial included),then run along and twiddle yourself in privacy whilst your submissive souled counterparts embrace the reality of actual service.