Feminine ego destruction in findom

In my last blog I spoke about tenacity in the financial domination realm(hell even in life itself),and today I intend to expound upon it. Being tenacious like a bulldog with a bone can be one of the very best things you do for yourself. Some would say not to set lofty aspirations for the fall will break you into pieces,and that can indeed be true,but if you settle for the mundane,then you cannot complain.

How does this relate to findom? Findom is the harshest fetish scene that I have ever seen. It is a culling affair. You will be rejected,insulted,degraded,ignored,objectified,and absolutely suffer from ego destruction if you are not careful,which is why I do not advise it for the feint of heart. Surprise I am not referring to males in the last sentence. *Gasp* I know that it is shocking,but true nonetheless.

1)You will be rejected and denied service by males for the very same reasons that occur in the vanilla dating scene ie your age,your weight,your height,your race,your hair color etc..and do not expect them to always be kind about how they relay it.
*The key*Accept that people can be just as rude and shallow online as they are in person(more so actually),so slick yourself up with grease(confidence) til that shit slides off of you.

2)You will be called an ugly whore,scammer,gold digger and the likes due to the financial aspect of the fetish.
*The key*Recognize that money brings out the best and the worst in people

3)You will be treated like a fetish vending dispenser,degrading yes,as if you are no longer anything more than a one dimensional character.
*The key*Recognize quickly that you deserve better than this treatment,and make liberal use of the block hammer.

4)You will be ignored,and bypassed see#1 for the reasons and key.

5)You will be treated as if you are only a piece of flesh created for the masturbatory pleasure of males.
*The key*Learn to turn the tables,and show males that they were created for your pleasure and entertainment(value yourself).

6)Combine all of the above,and what tends to happen=ego destruction

I am not painting a pretty picture I know,but who actually gains from having smoke blown up their ass? This is exactly why you need the hide of a rhino and the tenacity of that bulldog in the findom world. Otherwise it will break you,I promise. It can and will instill ugly negative insecurities if you allow it(please don't).

I know firsthand how difficult it is to remain positive,to shore up your defenses in a place where you are judged critically for your words,your level of experience,and your appearance. It sucks massive ass,and some days you are going to want to say "stick a fucking fork in me cause this shit ain't worth it". I have been there believe it or not,many many times. There will be times when your inbox gathers dust,and your accounts suffer a drought of tribute(happens to us all). How you handle it though is up to you entirely,so you either seek life elsewhere,or you grab that bone in your teeth and hold on tight!