Wednesday, October 24, 2018

What FemDoms desire in a submissive




Take a seat gents, cause I am going to share some golden nuggets of knowledge with you!

Do you know what dominant women desire in a submissive servant? I didn't think so, so I am going to educate you :)

These are the top 9 off the top of my head

1)Humility
Humility is about being humble. It is not allowing ego to ruin your opportunity to be of service. You may have spent all the days prior thinking that you are the shit, but when you are down on your knees before a woman...you will realize quickly that you are not the gift to women that you thought you were. You are merely a man, no better than any other man (even if your cock and wallet are better padded).

2)Honorable
This is a word that you just do not hear much about anymore...it has become rather esoteric when describing men. Honorable is about having integrity, being honest, and true to your word. Are you honorable? If not, get to work on yourself til you are!

3)Respect
Respect for women, yourself, society on the whole. No one likes a disrespectful shit. That is comparable to dealing with a child, and bdsm is for Adults. Act like one.

4)Loyalty
You know what being loyal is? It is kinda like the entire vanilla monogamy thing. Don't be trying to step out on the sly. You will get caught, trust me, and when you do, your opportunity is demolished. If you are a community slut, than hey I get it, but you NEED to be upfront about it.

5)Ability to communicate properly. Never assume that a woman can read your mind, speak up boy. You must be able to relay your limits, and convey any triggers you possess. This will save you so much heartache and disappointment in the future.

6)Emotional maturity
If your behavior coincides with that of a teenager...ya you are not emotionally mature.

7)Mental health
You need to be healthy in mind in order to give your submission fully. There is no shame in seeking help if you need it, just do not ever expect your Domme to be your therapist..they are not trained to take on this type of responsibility.

8)Generosity
Generous with your time, attention, effort, and finances. You must be willing to go the extra mile in submission. You cannot be a miser,and expect to succeed in service.

9)Sacrifice
Submission is all about serving the wants of another, so unless you are willing to base your service upon her will, than you will fail yourself, and your Domme. No one wants this, so please do not approach a woman to serve her if your intentions are entrenched in receiving service ie tit for tat. Holding back is a big no no. So long as what is asked of you does not exceed your limits, than you should take pleasure in providing. Sacrifice is a beautiful aspect of service..try it, you just might find that you like it :)

Feel free to leave comments gents, or any additions that you personally are aware of.

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