It makes sense when you look closely at it. What has an absolute stranger done to earn a personal peek into who and what you are within? Nothing right, so why offer yourself up in such a manner. This does not make you odd or out of the ordinary, and you should never feel the need to apologize for keeping private the parts of yourself that you are not comfortable sharing with the general public. You have the right to choose who you share this side of yourself with.
Now when it comes to hiding aspects of yourself from loved ones, even that is fully permissible, well unless you are a raving mad murderer, hide that for sure, but do so from behind bars. Why do we close the door upon those that we hold nearest and dearest? We do so out of fear. Fear that who we truly are will not be accepted, or perhaps even scorned to the point that our loved ones will shun us entirely. It is a risk exposing your true self to others. It comes with plenty of pros and cons to debate, but in the end, you are the one that must make that decision. Are you brave enough to brave the odds of rejection?
I know that a great many of you gents are not out in your submission. You prefer to keep your feelings of submission a secret. A secret that only sees the light of day when you log in online. You wear your mask of civility and manliness all day long, so when you do open the door to the magical world of online submission, it is like being set free from a locked cage. Your first tendency is to run here, run there, and spread the seed of your submission to every Dominant woman you see, but I am here to say "DOWN BOY". You are similar to a dog that humps every leg it sees, and that is not adorable, appreciated, or even desirable behavior in a submissive male. The only thing it makes me want to do, is slam the proverbial door in your face. The key to eradicating this irritating behavior, is to allow your submission out more often. Serving on a regular basis will inject you with a sense of peace, purpose, and allow you to center yourself in a sea of calmness. The point is to not deprive yourself of what it is you truly need, and that is to submit. It does not lessen your worth as a man, regardless of what society says. You can be a good man, a manly man, and yet submissive in your soul. Allow yourself to reveal the real you, and you will find yourself in a better place mentally, for denying your essential self will eventually take it's toll upon you, and leave you an unhappy mess.
Life becomes quite difficult and draining when a person does not feel as if they will be or are accepted for who and what they are, which is why Dominants in the lifestyle are revered to the degree that they are. They are leaders, and guides who see your submission, and say "it is ok, I see you, and I accept you". They allow you to be who you truly are...a submissive male who seeks to relinquish your power over self to them. Your submission is meant to empower your Dominant. It is a beautiful exchange, and there is no shame involved, well unless humiliation is your kink :) Submitting gives you the pleasure and freedom to just be you, and that is wonderful!
So, tear off that mask, and show your submissive self (note that showing yourself does not equate to sending unsolicited dick pics)! You will thank yourself for it, I promise. Now get out there and serve, serve, serve!!
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