The Gift

One of the most basic responsibilities in FinDom is the giving of gifts to your Domme. Whether it be cash or material items. It is a given, and need not be expounded upon, for all who claim the status of "finsub, paypig, cashslave, human atm, generous gent, pay pet, etc.." know that tribute is their honored duty.

It truly is an honor to gift your Goddess, for she is meant to be the center of your universe. She guides you in submission to her. She educates you upon her protocol. She shares of her time, knowledge, and patience with you. She is the star you look to when you are unsure of which way to go. These are just a few of the reasons why submissives give gifts in thanks to their Domme.

The issue many males have with this structure is that they want to know what is in it for them. By the way, this is an incorrect and self-centered mindset. Anyways, what is it that males who worship and tribute receive from their FinDommes? The answer is simplistic, yet apparently fully incomprehensible to those who cannot and will not see past themselves. 

Giving is submitting. It is relinquishing that which has been held dear, into the hands of one they hold dear. It is a supplication of will. It is a release of ego and demands for self. It is selfless. It is freedom from the binds of society dictates for male behavior, yet not, for it has always been a male's sacred duty to support and provide for females. That aspect does not alter, but the intent behind the action does. He gives, not because he is told that he must, he gives because he wants to receive the joy and pleasure of submitting his riches to a woman that he holds in highest esteem. He gives because he wants her world to sparkle and shine with the brilliance of his utter devotion to her happiness. 

Giving to a Domme provides a submissive with the opportunity to submit, which is her most priceless gift to him. Accepting the submission of a submissive is a gift. The Domme is allowing the submissive to serve out their intended in life purpose, and that is truly a gift of means beyond the tangible. She is giving the gift of purpose. She is providing pleasure to the submissive by accepting their servitude. The submissive receives these gifts from his Domme, so please do leave off with the entire "what does the submissive get for their money BS". FinDom relationships are indeed about giving and receiving. The submissive gives monetary gifts, and he receives the gift of purpose. 

Now get off your duff, and get to spending, and sending, so that you too can be gifted with purpose in life!