Squash The Misogynistic Blame And Shame Game

 

 

    If you have been a member of social media longer than a hot minute, you will have at one point or another ran into conversations or notations concerning a site called Only Fans. I myself am not a member of the site, nor have I ever even browsed their site, but millions of people have, and do on the daily. It is a very successful website, that commands traffic like nobody's business. 

   What makes this site successful, you ask? They sell a product which is almost older than time itself. SEX. Sex has always sold, and sex will always sell. There will be no stopping the revenue stream sex enables. Is this a bad thing? Some would argue so, whilst others would demand it continue as their right to pursue happiness. I will not muddy the waters with my own two cents as my purpose is to make you think, rather than telling you what to think.

   The website is comprised of independent artists who sell their wares, while the parent company enriches itself with a percentage of the profit. Capitalism at work my friends. Is this exploitation of a vulnerable class, or merely a symbiotically successful business venture? The artists who employ this site as a means of product distribution are noted to do so as consenting adults. This means that no one is forcing them to join, display, or sell their items on the site, which is good yes?  This does not mean that some of the content creators have not been "forced" down this avenue out of desperation for means of survival, yet this remains a choice they themselves have made to ensure continued housing, and negate physical hunger. 

   The majority of creators are of the female persuasion. Why do you think that is? Could it be due to the customer base being comprised of majority males? History has shown us that men are willing to pay for sex and pleasure in one form or another. This has always been true, and always will be true. 

   I am reserving judgement here, but many aren't. In fact, quite a few are very vocal in regards to their distaste, disdain, and downright hatred of sites such as these. The most vehement critics I have taken note of, are male. Not to say that some women are not anti-porn peddlers, they are, but men are more vocal about their dislike. What is it about these sites that make a minority slice of men angry?

   Who are these men? I am going to break it down to the reasoning voiced for the disturbance of the existence of said sites as a classifier. 1)It is immoral 2)It is indecent 3)It is a stain upon society 4)Women are whores 5)It is exploitation 6)It encourages and abets human trafficking 7)You shouldn't have to pay for porn, or feminine attention. Do you agree with any of these opinions? 

   The outrage is real, folks. The focal point of the outrage is what bothers me though. Where is the focus spotlighted? Women. Women are the beings who bear the blame and shame. Look back to reason #4. Women are accused of taking advantage of lonely depressed males who do not have, or are not capable of forming "normal" intimate relationships with the opposite sex, which leads them to sites where women are readily available to fulfill their erotic fantasies, and provide them with a feeling of the intimacy they lack in real life. 

   Men make a choice to visit these sites. They make a decision to spend their money on them as well. Who are we to declare these men victims, when they themselves have opted to walk this path? As well, what right do we have to blame women for selling these men a product that they obviously desire? Companies sell their products online daily, and no one complains, but since they are not selling sexual images, it is ok, right?  Earning a living is what we as human beings have been indoctrinated to do, yet if it is done so in a proscribed manner (even if legal), than it is condemned, and the sellers scorned.

   The entirety of my issue with this conflict, is that women are being blamed and shamed, yet if men were not willing to purchase the content, then there would be no sellers. Supply and demand is very much the root origination of the sex work industry, so why are men not bearing the brunt of blame, when they are the ones enabling the continuation of women producing content?

  Thoughts, and opinions always welcomed.

 

Rant of the scorched pubes

I am basically a very tolerant individual, but even I have things which I will not abide to take any part in, and the main one is the bashing and trashing of my fellow females.

I see posts pop up on my twitter TL that literally make me cringe, scowl, and force the F bomb to drop from my gorgeous lips. It generally begins with a female posting about how ugly, stupid, worthless someone's wife is..and what do you know...a male will pipe up, oh yes his wife is disgustingly horrible, and the poster is the most sexy, hot, beautiful, wanted woman in the world. Yup there he goes validating the entire monstrosity of an ignoramus betrayal of womanhood. Isn't that something to be uber proud of?

Honestly, I am never surprised by males engaging in misogyny, but when it is coming from a female..holy shit that scorches my pubes!!!  I am beyond serious when I say that "If you feel that you are justified in degrading other women in order to elevate yourself, YOU ARE TRASH"!! More so than trash, you are an abuser. An abuser who never received consent. Be proud of that rep builder.

You males, and I refuse to call you men, cause a man stands for the rights of women to be treated fairly, and with respect, so you are way less than a man. You do not deserve the attention, affection, much less love of any woman..not even from your Mommy, and I sincerely hope that your mistreated, disrespected wife sees through the facade of decency you erect to cover up the ugliness of your soul, and divorces your ass after she takes your bank balance, retirement funds, and half of the SS you will receive in the future. I would laugh my ass off at your abject humiliation, and utter life of misery! You deserve much worse.

Ya ya I see some of you saying "it is just a game, a fetish", and my response is IDGAF. If what you say and do is harming someone who has not agreed to it, you are TRASH. It is that simple. If you do not love and respect your wife, get the fuck out of the marriage period, and if you are a female playing at demeaning other women for your benefit..wake up quick cause time is going to tap dance across your face, sag down your tits, and ass..and all around make you an ugly ass crone that no man will look twice at, so get yourself together, and love yourself enough not to seek your validation from males.

Selfish misogynist or selfless submissive

Findom haters I see you out there. No matter how hard you try to blend in,you stand out. Most of you are not only findom haters,but psychologically closeted misogynists. The two go hand in hand..in fact the misogyny is a catalyst for the hate of FinDommes.

The majority of you have no concept of what findom actually is,but you hate it on principle alone. I mean why should you be giving the money you work hard for to some woman who ain't doing shit for you..in fact she should be doing for you just because you are a man,and that means that she is lucky to even get your attention. You know that she should be appreciative of any man wanting to get with her,and should be jumping at the opportunity to fulfill your desires. Isn't that women were created to do...serve the wants of men?

This is the mindset most of you embody. You believe that being born male entitles you to the privilege of a woman's time,and if a woman will not give it willingly,then you will resort to trickery,insults,or force to get it. My last statement is why women do not like you,much less want to spend any time with or on you.

Welcome to the world of Findom boy. A realm where you possess no privilege,or entitlements in the eyes of a dominant woman. Your money is the only thing of attraction about you. Your dick is a less than worthless currency,and you certainly cannot buy a moment of a woman's time with a dick pic. In fact,your dick puts you at the biggest disadvantage of possible success in findom. You are better off caging that ugly dumb fuck thing up. It will only hinder you. It poisons you slowly and surely. Do you want to die of penis poisoning?

Findom is selfless worship. It is the most pure form of worship. It is a form of worship that actually provides long term benefits for a woman,totally unlike the other actions you try to term worship. Get serious here..you complimenting a woman's ass,tits etc..is NOT worship..that is just you working your dicklet up into a frenzy. The same goes for those of you attempting to provide oral "worship"..now that is the biggest fucking joke of all time! Which would you yourself say is more beneficial in the long run,an orgasm or money to pay for an expensive meal? I know which one I would choose..nourish the flesh with food,and share the orgasm with a man who appreciates the honor..btw that is NOT you.

Findom is about giving of yourself with no expectations..no ulterior entitlement motivations..no giving to receive. If you are not giving for the pure pleasure of being useful,and providing for the wants of a woman,than you are being selfish,and thinking only of what you can get out of it..how you can come out ahead in the equation. This is where you are majorly fucking up. Findom is not about you..it never was,and it never will be,and that is why no Domme wants to deal with your ass. 

Why would any Domme want to put up with you when there are males in Findom who actually get it? Males who understand that tributing is all about showing appreciation for a woman..it is about showing a woman that you value her. It is the one action that displays your willingness to subjugate that overly inflated ego you have,and just give for the sake of giving. Tribute conveys respect..respect for a Domme's time..her attention..and her being present. Anything else is merely all about you,and remember what I said "it is not about you". 

Why should you give any woman your hard earned cash? You give it because she deserves it. You give it because you want to make an impact on her life. You give it because you know it is the right thing to do. You give it because you are intelligent enough to realize that you owe reparation to women for every single sexist thought,and action your have committed in your life. You give it because you want  to be powerless at the feet of a woman,and you know that money is the most powerful form of power on planet Earth in this very day and age. These are the very reasons why you should give..now I will share with you the whys of why you do not give.

You do not tribute, because you are just looking to bust a nut. You do not tribute, because you believe that women owe you. You do not tribute, because you do not value women. You do not tribute, because it demeans the entire experience for your dick. You do not tribute, because you are a lazy fuck who has not the means nor the drive to earn a salary which allows you to. You do not tribute, because you want it all,and refuse to see past yourself. Any of this resonating with you yet? 

Most of you will never get past the point of your own dick. How sad is that? Just you and your dick..hope you have a happy life together..NOT :)

I have cast light onto what findom is,and why you should tribute..now you make the choice boy.