Behave like a man, not a monster

Findom has it's own unique set of problems, but you would be surprised at just how many of them coincide with issues women in general have with men. How do you know if you are part of the problem?

1)Do you demean and downgrade women into nameless objects by calling every female "babe, honey, sexy, sugar"? You are part of the problem.

2)Do you send women dick pics? You are part of the problem.

3)Do you feel and believe that you are entitled to a woman's time, attention, and sex? You are part of the problem.

4)Do you treat women like they are your masturbation doll? You are part of the problem.

5)Do you refuse to contribute to the financial well being of women? You are part of the problem.

6)Do you act like you are God's gift to womankind? You are part of the problem. 

7)Do you consider netflix and chilling a date? You are part of the problem.

8)Do you speak disrespectfully about and to women? You are part of the problem.

9)Do you try to guilt or shame women into having a relationship with you? You are part of the problem.

10)Do you threaten or attempt to blackmail women so that you can get what you want from them? You are part of the problem.

11)Do you lie to women? You are part of the problem.

12)Are you verbally, emotionally, or physically abusive to women? You are part of the problem.

13)Do you refuse to take NO for an answer from women? You are part of the problem.

14)Do you cheat? You are part of the problem.

I highly suspect that most of you gents already know whether you are part of the problem or not, but as we all know, some are not so bright, and need it spelled out for them. Don't be part of the problem. Be better than the men around you. Refuse to be that problem by

1)Addressing women by their name or employing a respectful title.

2)Never send dick pics, unless a woman outright asks for them.

3)Realize that women owe you NOTHING.

4)Women are living, breathing beings whose purpose in creation does not center around being your wank fodder, or jizz receptacle.

5)Women have been financially oppressed via disproportionate labor to wages in the job market compared to men, and it has always been a man's duty to provide for women.

6)A big dick, a hot bod, or even a pretty face does not mean that you do not have to work for a woman's attention and time.

7)Spend money on a date!! Take women nice places, and invest financially in the date. This is what respectful men do.

8)Be courteous and respectful to ALL women, not just the ones you are attracted to.

9)Passive aggressive BS is BS. Don't engage in it EVER! 

10)Do not be a twat waffle, cock womble, or douche canoe and try to force a woman to be with you.

11)Liars are the scum of the Earth. Don't do it.

12)The majority of women are physically weaker than men, which means that you are utter filth if you lay your hands on a woman in anger. 

13)Women have the right to decide who they want to share their time, attention, and sex with. Do not impede upon that right EVER!

14)Learn what loyalty is. Hell, dogs are more loyal than most men, and that is a disheartening fact. 

If any of this resonated with you, make a vow to yourself right now that you will be a part of the solution, not the problem. Behave like a man, not a monster.