flogging that horse

Here we are dear readers once more covering ground that has already been trod upon over and over,yet the need arises to speak of past posts in order to educate those that have arrived since.

The first issue to touch upon is the lack of desire on my part to take on a full time live in servant. A ridiculously redundant amount of the contact I receive comes from ones who envision themselves in such a position,and whilst yes I know that I am wonderful and perfect...the scenario would not be.

1)It takes alot of time and energy to train a male 24/7,which I do not possess,not to mention that I highly value my private time.
2)Living in is not the fantasy the majority believe it to be,for there is no all day everyday play. I realize that it may come across that way,especially if you are watching alot of femdom porn,but reality is not scripted,and no one and I mean absolutely no one can maintain scenes 24/7. Human beings certainly are not wired that way.
I have read copious amounts of the fantasies running through the heads of many males,and they are just that,fantasies. It sounds good I know,but it is not going to happen.
I actually either laugh or shake my head when I see some of you saying how you expect a Domme to come kidnap you away from your shitty life(only happens in the movies). I am not saying that it is not perfectly ok to have fantasies,only that you recognize them for what they are.

The second issue:There is no way to serve me without tribute. In your perfect world it would be true,but alas it is my world that you are trying to insinuate yourself into,not vice versa,so the rules are constructed per me,and carried out via you,and that involves displaying your appreciation of my person and attention with tribute. Even my real time pet pays tribute(every week without fail)..why does he..I mean I know some of you are asking "what does he get out of that?" What he receives is the satisfaction of pleasing me. He adores me,he worships me,and knows that it is his purpose in this lifetime to ensure that my wants are provided for,all of which aid him in always submitting to his need of submission. My dominance gives meaning to his life,and if you still cannot comprehend that,than I cannot help you.

Third:You must serve an online probationary period before ever kneeling at my literal feet,and yes tribute is required during probation. All of the tribute in the world though will not earn you a spot if you have not taken the time to prove yourself to me,which involves effort and dedication to the goal of being in my presence. Many assume that I will respond positively to males who reach out to tell me that they are in my city,or will be soon,and ask to meet..not going to happen. No one is exempt from the mandatory probation rule. NO ONE. I take my safety seriously,and so should you.

Fourth:I do not offer services. I hate flogging this horse :(  Do not ask me to sell you cam time,or photos.

Fifth:Sex is NEVER an option with me..now just to clear away misconceptions,I consider sex as being defined by oral,anal(yup that includes pegging),handjobs,footjobs,or vaginal. You will not see me nude,you will not see me unclothed at all,and if you come at me with unsolicited photos of your cock,or ass..I will block you. Do not ever even ask if I want to see such sights!! Only remit the photos that I request.

Last for the day,but certainly not least. Always address me as either Mz Sydney or Goddess. I am not your buddy down the street,or the female you are trying to creep on,so leave off with the "wats up" "hit me up" "hey" shit lines ok. I like old school manners :)