Repetitive rants and ravings

Continuously posting about timewasters and trolls is droll. There is not a single lady in the scene that has not at one point or another dealt with this type of male and learned from the experience, so when I see a female bemoaning the fact of their existence, I think to myself that they obviously have not been in the fetish world for very long then. No matter how much we bitch and moan about this type of behavior, it will not alter the reality that these x chromosome beings feed off the crumbs of the scene, so in all actuality you are the one wasting your own time speaking out about them. Surprisingly enough "timewasters" even serve a purpose. Generally they are the first to besiege new ladies for service, and by interacting with the dregs of the fetish, females do gain knowledge. It is easy enough to complain that your time has been wasted, but was it really? As individuals we all make decisions on how our time should be spent, so the blame cannot be placed upon the parasites trolling for a taste of free domination. One of maturity would view it as a lesson learned, since once equipped with the knowledge of the behaviors and approaches of boys who serve only themselves, ladies will then be able to distinguish real vs faux submissives, which adds value to the interaction, thereby turning a negative into a positive. If one possesses the correct mindset, then any situation whether it be pleasing or not can be an opportunity for personal growth. Instead of allowing this type of boy to anger you to the point of writing up a scathing post (permitting another to illicit the response they desire places the reins in their hands instead of yours) refuse to fuel their wank off by keeping all conversations free of fet talk unless they have proven themselves worthy of your consideration. Nothing will set off a freebie seeking spunk spewer in another direction quicker than a female who does not give into playing their game. Lambasting their behavior and placing them on a blacklist actually turns most of them on, so unless you are in the market of helping them get their jollies, refrain from giving in to them. Do as you wish though, but remember that when you complain you are alerting other trolls that you are ripe for the picking.