No box for me

I do not fit into the typical stereotype most males have boxed femdoms into. On a typical day you will not find me clad in leather,and heels,nor will you find me leading male pets around on a leash out in public...or any other activity you find in femdom porn. Note:Femdom videos came about in creation not to actually display reality femdom,but instead to tantalize the senses of males through their arousal thereby generating profits for their business,and a big money making business it is. One of the unfortunate side effects of viewing such media,is that now we have an entire generation seeing this as non-fiction,and it truly is not.

Femdom is not about clothing or scenes. It is about real interaction between two consenting adults,and day to day life is not conducive to the time consuming effort required to be fully made up,and clad as they are in the videos all day long caging males,fisting asses,and being this larger than life woman forcing males to enact the very fantasies that men have ejaculated to their entire lives.

Femdom is real,just not the real you imagine it to be. How do I know,well most likely due to me dominating males real time for the last 10 years. I know that I have a life outside of play,and that when I get home from work,that the last thing on my mind is recreating male flesh erecting fantasies. What does come to mind,and yes it happens...is that I expect a drink to be waiting for me beside my mail,and a warm pair of hands eager to rub my feet be waiting beside my desk as I check my emails. I also know that my satisfaction is the only satisfaction that matters to that gent rubbing my feet. If it didn't then he would not be there.

Being a femdom means that I lead the direction of the relationships I engage in,and yes I have more than one,and no they are not sexual in nature. I simply take great pleasure in having more than one gent in my service. These males have the honor of seeing me just as I am,no games of pretense. If I want to paddles their asses in my sweats then so be it,and if I feel like wearing latex while they lick my toes,well then that is what I do,but always on my terms,and never just because porn tells them that I should act this way,or dress that way to dominate them. Believe me when I say that I do not need $1000 pair of heels to bring a man to his knees,cause my naked foot kicking his groin will accomplish that deed much quicker. Get my drift?

So for the love of all that is holy,cease taking fiction as fact. Life is life,and the males in my service live it on my terms,not male dominated creation ones. Take this as a fact,I am not alone in my femdom mindset :)