Making the cut

As adults we all know that to truly succeed at anything,you are going to have to work for it,and that definitely applies to becoming an owned submissive. When achievements especially those of great import come too easily to your hand,they are less likely to be fully appreciated,which is why I make those under my heel figuratively,ok sometimes literally lol sweat blood and tears to get to that acme tier of service.

I expect and accept nothing less than excellence. That does not mean that there will not be stumbles along the way,for a smooth ascent can only be golden when one falls a few times as they climb it. It instills pride knowing that one has striven and driven themselves to accomplish what they once thought the impossible,and this aids in creating a better person in the process,which is one of my goals for those who I call my own.

After all,I have no desire to have an actual loser in my stable. In my estimation a loser is one who fails to expend effort towards life at all. They are content to allow others to pave the way for them,and seek handouts at every opportunity. This is not the type of behavior that any owner would be proud of.

This post is especially directed at those that believe themselves above such expenditures,through either a sense of patriarchal entitlement,or a misplaced belief of superiority in their upbringing. When it comes to women,you as a male are entitled to absolutely nothing from us,and most definitely not from me. Even basic courtesy will be withheld if you do not portray yourself as a decent human being,and yes I have dealt with a few,maybe more than a few who act in such a manner. Women are not objects,and most certainly we are more than pretty pictures on a page. If you want to get to know a woman,to serve a Domme,then you are going to have to lose that ego that you wear on your shoulder,and accept that you are one of many that approaches daily. You need to stand out if you want to be taken seriously,which means that you will need to reach deep and find your humility,in order to come correct.

I am not intimating that one must be a doormat lacking all personality,well unless that is your thing of course,but please do be capable of holding up your end of a civilized conversation not peppered with fetish talk. There is always time to delve into the darker sides of desires,but that should not be at the forefront in an initial exchange. Be willing to prove yourself,your sincerity,and your integrity...this is what makes you shine like a diamond in the ruff.