As of late I have really been trying to impart to you gents the importance of changing your ways for the better. Has it made any effect? My hope is that it has, but only time will tell.
With that in mind, let's talk about a recurring scenario which males seem to be repetitively repeating.
You message a woman that you find (attractive, interesting, cool, etc..) but either immediately or within a few exchanges, she relays that you are not a good match for what she seeks. Do you say
A) "no problem, thanks for your time"
B) or do you get burnt up angry and say "fuck you, you fat,ugly, bitch"
A is the correct response by the way.
I realize that rejection is not something which males deal with well, but my goodness, that level of immaturity in option B is unwarranted. There is no need to make personal something that in all likelihood was not personal.
This is a prime example of why I stress reading profiles, and researching a Domme before you contact her. Her list of hard limits may be the very activities that you are looking for, or you may be seeking to serve in a manner that she has zero use for, or interest in. This is not her fault, and she definitely is not deserving of verbal abuse for her preferences when choosing a submissive who suits her needs.
Here is a sad truth. Some of you do this very thing, not because you really wanted to serve this woman, or even out of anger for being denied, but rather because you are hoping and praying that she will get angry enough to inject a load of venom into her retort. That is truly pathetic, and you know what...it does not even work most of the time. Stop wasting time that cannot be bought back!
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