Subject of the day

Fantasist vs Realist

A fantasist is just that,they are aroused by the scenes within their minds,yet the reality of such is not their desire. Most generally they speak of ruination outcomes,but when faced with the black and white details,they tuck tail and run. You will not find this type to be compatible for monotonous long term service. They dabble with those that fit the physical form of one they deem most alluring,and get off on the thought of serving,not the reality of actually doing so. Most likely they will contain themselves to buying clips and such,rather than working towards a true D'S continuing exchange. Beware that a multitude of wasters and wankers fall into this group,which is why they disappear before the spume dries in their hand.

A realist views the scene in an entirely dissimilar manner. Generally they are reserved,and patient,content lurking in the shadows until they come across one that displays the attitude and approach that they find most fitting into their definition of dominant. They are not eager to blindly rush into immediate vows of service,and most likely will prefer a slow burn period of initiation. This type is ideal for a continuing alliance. They are based in reality,very stable,and once secured their loyalty is enduring.They are the hidden needles in the haystack.

All views expressed are based upon my opinions arrived at through my personal experiences.

First rule of service

The very first rule of service to me is simple,and should be repeated until it is the first and last thought you have daily.

Whatever pleases Mz Sydney pleases me.

fodder for the wanks

Tossing you a bone LMAO

Lesson for the day

Never allow a lie to pass your lips.

You may think that 1 simple untruth shall go undiscovered,hidden from your Domme's eyes and ears,but alas,one spoken or silent omission may indeed unravel the very foundation of the D's relationship you have sought to erect.

The basis of any enduring alliance relies on integrity to cement it. Irregardless of whether it is your intent,a lie will weaken any bond you have already established.

Trust that your Domme will value the worth of one that speaks in an honest manner,rather than one who pays lip service with lies. Falsehoods serve only to dishonor and discredit you,thereby leading others to question the validity of all you have said and done.

Many are so eager to serve,that they will bend and fudge the truth of their needs,desires, abilities,limits,and expectations entering into service,which will leave a bitter distaste when they realize that they will not find the fulfillment that a healthy and stable D's relationship entails,so consider your words precisely when you enter into rapport with a prospective Domme.

Lesson over for the day!

extreme scenario

I recently joined a discussion forum where the main topic of interest is pertaining to bankrupting a submissive. I did find the thought stimulating as it is the ultimate act of devotion for a submissive to display this level of service,and while I have never gone to these lengths,it was informative to read about the steps which this process would evolve from.
Can you imagine the humiliation of giving all to your Goddess,and then having her discard you when the ca$h was gone? Being used until you are bled dry....the sweet agony of your life in the aftermath.
Now of course within a few months you are able to obtain credit cards again,and fix your credit rating within a couple of years with hard work, only beg her to beg her to serve once more.
How absofuckinglutely delicious is that scenario!!!
I would love to hear your thoughts and input on this type of extreme scenario.

forced tribute

On today's menu for discussion is the subject of forced tribute.

Forced tribute does not suit my style,and will not be considered at any point in time no matter how much $ is involved!

I only accept and consider those that willingly tribute. Those that enjoy pleasing and spoiling me.

In my estimation if I have to force or take tribute from you,then the dynamic is fouled for me. I derive pleasure from knowing that you desire my happiness,and will put forth the effort to ensure it.

It provides me with a sense of euphoria when I see that one has sacrificed for my benefit.

I recognize that some of you do enjoy the feeling of being forced,and many ladies embrace the taking,but just not my bag baby,so do not bring it up in chat with me,K!

Curvy cocktail,surrender to the taste of ADDICTION!

Curvy cocktail,surrender to the taste of ADDICTION!