Wham bam scam

A couple of days ago I was reading an article about a mother-daughter duo whom scammed individuals out of money with the ploy of aiding US soldiers which I personally found repulsive, but it did make me think of the correlation between those females and ladies within the scene. Now before anyone gets their knickers twisted I shall explain why I said it.

These females did indeed perpetrate a scam which loosened the purse strings of many people with the intention of benefiting themselves financially, and is this not how we ladies whom employ findom are viewed as well? I cannot count upon my fingers and toes the sheer number of instances where I myself have been belittled and stoned verbally as a scammer due to my requirement of tributes from those that serve me. My treatment not unlike that of a leper within the bdsm community. I did not take to heart the treatment heaped upon me though as I have not forgotten since my entry into the realm of lifestyle bdsm that people by nature shun that which is different and misunderstood. Dommes that have been around the block or two already know that some days you just need to cover your head with an umbrella to avoid the hail from the shit storms which rain down in judgement of our fetishes as expected.

I looked up the definition of scammer at dictionary.com and this is what it says "

a confidence game or other fraudulent scheme, especially for making a quick profit; swindle."

Does this describe anyone that you know? I can honestly see why others are led to categorize FinDommes as such, but then I as well know that we are mislabeled. In my estimation a scam is something that is covertly played out sans the marks knowledge, whereas it is quite transparent when dealing with a FinDomme that finances will be involved. Anyone that does not realize this is either ill informed due to lack of research..or simply an idiot. I know not of a single Domina in the findom scene that does not expect tribute. Can you my readers relay to me the name of one?

The main difference in my eyes between the above mentioned duo and FinDommes is the deceit involved. I do acknowledge that within every group there are some cow patties that do bamboozle the unsuspecting, but for the main part findom ladies are those whom display integrity about their intentions. I mean seriously if you read a few tweets or status updates it is clear anyway ie "I want to drain you dry" "The only thing of interest to me is your wallet" "Fuck you,pay me". How could these statements possibly be interpreted incorrectly? The reader unless a moron can deduce that they are expected to pay.

This is not a cloak and dagger game where we hide who and what we are or even what we demand from our servants while upon twitter, fb, or websites. Mind you I am not saying that some ladies do not keep it separate and secreted away from their personal or professional lives, but never within the scene. Think about it, how are we to acquire what we desire if our designs are not disclosed?

I am by no means deluding myself into believing that I can change the outlook of the majority with my little post, but that does not mean that I cannot attempt to now does it? In closing I remind you ladies and gents to choose wisely whatever insults you opt to lob fit the action lest you betray your own ignorance.