Not all will worship you

One of the most difficult aspects to accept in the online realm hell even in real life is that you are not going to appeal to everyone. Believe it or not,not everyone worships you. It may be due to simple changeable points,but unfortunately it may be something that you have absolutely no control over which influences people against you. The most important thing to always keep foremost in your mind is that you are a beautiful,worthwhile woman regardless if others deem it fact!

I have seen this scene played out over and over,like an old vinyl record skipping and repeating. A lady enters the findom scene with high expectations of being feted and worshipped,yet it never comes to pass,and she is left pondering why. She sits back watching others being flocked to,whilst her inbox remains empty. Now this scenario may lead her along a couple of trains of thinking,such as "I am not hot enough,smart enough,thin enough,young enough,or even the race most sought out",and this in turn damages her ego,or worse yet elicits anger and envy(self-destructive emotions). This is when we see the melt down initiate. Either the lady will quietly exit the scene undetected,or she will become quite aggressive and snide in her tactics to garner the attention she desires.Unfortunately neither behavior is going to produce the longed for results.

Online can truly be a bitch of a workout to your insecurities,which is why I would never advise this course to anyone that does not have an unshakeable sense of self confidence. You must approach this arena with the knowledge that you are worthy of worship,and fuck all of the petty high school popular girl BS games(down playing others with the thought of it lifting you higher). You are elevated above such webs. Keep your goal purely focused,and when you run into a stumbling block,persevere. Absolutely you are not going to be what every male is looking for,but I guarantee that there will be one who sees the Goddess within you. It just takes time,maybe not in a day,a week or even a month,but it will happen.

The upside to an empty inbox is that you have more time to develop the skills needed to devastate minds and bodies,so put that time to good use,and when all else fails think about the little train chugging up the hill :) My point being,do not give up on you.