It is such a waste to see so many males lost and meandering through the scene without having realized their true purpose and meaning in life. They squander their time wallowing in self gratification, failing to grasp the fact that drifting along such a path will not lead to a sense of tranquil fulfillment. The moments of satiation are fleeting at best, and a recipe for letdown. Not to mention that the elation from such actions will not sustain an altruistic desire to serve, nor will they impart a sense of achievement.
A submissive soul is cultivated and enriched through daily acts of selfless devotion. Such creatures are indeed a born rarity within today's society and discipline. That is not to say that one cannot become conditioned to alter their perspective and thought process to align with that of those destined to serve. Patience is a quintessential element during such a process, and cannot be disregarded, for it yields the sweetest of fruits. Such a transformation from selfish to selfless will not occur in a day, a week, nor likely within a month, but indeed will be a costly investment of time. The journey will not be consistently smooth or sans setbacks, but highly rewarding once your goal is accomplished. Keep this foremost in your thoughts to eradicate doubts of impossibility.
Most likely my words fall upon deaf ears, but there is always hope ^_^
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Monday, October 8, 2012
How to recognize a sincere finsub/slave.
How to recognize a sincere finsub/slave.
1) They will not approach you until they are prepared and able to serve in the manner upon which you deserve and require. Ie none of the familiar excuses about not being able to tribute until pay day, duh they know that tribute is required and are prepared to do so when speaking with you, or that they cannot gift through amazon, holy SHIT I do not know of a single lady that does not have a wishlist. If a male attempts to tell you that he has had his acct closed on amazon hmmm that tells you right away that he has cancelled too many orders resulting in it being closed, or one of my favorites is that they do not have a credit card....lmao that is only true in 3rd world countries. Credit cards are a necessity if you have an emergency, or to even rent a car, so I am not buying that line. Hmm and the fact that you can use your debit card to pay on amazon or even a pre-paid visa card.
2) They will tribute during the first exchange. I know that some are going to disagree with me when I say this about how some males may want to take a "getting to know you" period, well here is my opinion on that subject, any male worthy of being called a sub/slave is going to take the time prior to speaking to you to research you. He will read through your posts and all that you publish in order to get a feel for your style thereby ensuring that you are the type of lady he desires to serve, and if he has not done so, then he is simply lazy and undeserving of your time or attention.
3) They will come before you humble as they are fully aware that they are meant to serve a superior lady, which means that they will have let go of their ego and selfish desires, thereby allowing them to fully serve in the capacity made for them. A slip of manners in the initial onset is an omen that does not bode well for a developing relationship.
4)They will never speak nor act in a disrespectful manner towards any lady, even when they are informed that their service is not desired. There should be no venting of anger nor insults if and when their service is no longer desirable. Faux males always show their ass figuratively when told NO. Inflated egos and sense of self does not allow them to take rejection lightly.
This post is based upon my personal opinions and observations.
1) They will not approach you until they are prepared and able to serve in the manner upon which you deserve and require. Ie none of the familiar excuses about not being able to tribute until pay day, duh they know that tribute is required and are prepared to do so when speaking with you, or that they cannot gift through amazon, holy SHIT I do not know of a single lady that does not have a wishlist. If a male attempts to tell you that he has had his acct closed on amazon hmmm that tells you right away that he has cancelled too many orders resulting in it being closed, or one of my favorites is that they do not have a credit card....lmao that is only true in 3rd world countries. Credit cards are a necessity if you have an emergency, or to even rent a car, so I am not buying that line. Hmm and the fact that you can use your debit card to pay on amazon or even a pre-paid visa card.
2) They will tribute during the first exchange. I know that some are going to disagree with me when I say this about how some males may want to take a "getting to know you" period, well here is my opinion on that subject, any male worthy of being called a sub/slave is going to take the time prior to speaking to you to research you. He will read through your posts and all that you publish in order to get a feel for your style thereby ensuring that you are the type of lady he desires to serve, and if he has not done so, then he is simply lazy and undeserving of your time or attention.
3) They will come before you humble as they are fully aware that they are meant to serve a superior lady, which means that they will have let go of their ego and selfish desires, thereby allowing them to fully serve in the capacity made for them. A slip of manners in the initial onset is an omen that does not bode well for a developing relationship.
4)They will never speak nor act in a disrespectful manner towards any lady, even when they are informed that their service is not desired. There should be no venting of anger nor insults if and when their service is no longer desirable. Faux males always show their ass figuratively when told NO. Inflated egos and sense of self does not allow them to take rejection lightly.
This post is based upon my personal opinions and observations.
Saturday, October 6, 2012
Friday, October 5, 2012
service vs serving
Today I speak out to clear up a misconception that is rampant throughout the scene.
Dominant women do NOT chase down males for tribute or service. The only females that stoop to such levels are instadommes.
It is my opinion that the miscomprehension stems from confusion upon the definition of findom and service. There are ladies that offer services through certain clip and cam sites whom do take requests and such, but what you should note is that these ladies are offering a service which defines you as a customer, not a sub/slave that personally serves them, so unless your Domme has required that you purchase her clips, you are in fact not serving anyone other than the endowment between your thighs.
Never expect to approach a dominant lady as if you are the boss just because you are offering tribute, for that is the most expedient way to receive the proverbial bitch slap down.You are not purchasing her as you would a horse at auction. Tribute is an offering of appreciation which should be given willingly without any thought of gain other than her pleasure. At no time do you act as if she owes you anything due to your tribute.
There appears to be a trend of behavior that is shockingly poor amongst many of the males in the scenes these days, which is namely within the realms of being outright disrespectful. A male in the findom scene is not now nor ever will be the "BOSS" in the exchange. They may say that whomever holds the money, holds the power, but in reality the truth is quite the opposite. Crudely put, whomever owns the kitty controls the cock.
The type of males that I have personally dealt with which engage in this abhorrent behavior are in fact not subs, nor slaves, but most certainly are fetish boys here to get a nut off. They are pay for play pukes that top from the bottom with their $. What they need to realize is that money means nothing to a dominant woman who has no need of it. The idea of males controlling ladies with their wallet is not going to fly in findom. If you are one if the y chromosome types that dabble in the scene using your $ as a tool, then you need to stick to service sites or females that are only in it to make a quick buck. I do not deny that you will find a deluge of females chasing you down and overflowing your inbox with outright begging for your $, which is pathetic, for they shame the fine ladies of findom. Merely joining a site will bring you into contact with the types of females that are more than happy to bow down to your dictates for $, so there is absolutely no need for you to approach dominant women wasting their time with your toppy BS.
Dominant women do NOT chase down males for tribute or service. The only females that stoop to such levels are instadommes.
It is my opinion that the miscomprehension stems from confusion upon the definition of findom and service. There are ladies that offer services through certain clip and cam sites whom do take requests and such, but what you should note is that these ladies are offering a service which defines you as a customer, not a sub/slave that personally serves them, so unless your Domme has required that you purchase her clips, you are in fact not serving anyone other than the endowment between your thighs.
Never expect to approach a dominant lady as if you are the boss just because you are offering tribute, for that is the most expedient way to receive the proverbial bitch slap down.You are not purchasing her as you would a horse at auction. Tribute is an offering of appreciation which should be given willingly without any thought of gain other than her pleasure. At no time do you act as if she owes you anything due to your tribute.
There appears to be a trend of behavior that is shockingly poor amongst many of the males in the scenes these days, which is namely within the realms of being outright disrespectful. A male in the findom scene is not now nor ever will be the "BOSS" in the exchange. They may say that whomever holds the money, holds the power, but in reality the truth is quite the opposite. Crudely put, whomever owns the kitty controls the cock.
The type of males that I have personally dealt with which engage in this abhorrent behavior are in fact not subs, nor slaves, but most certainly are fetish boys here to get a nut off. They are pay for play pukes that top from the bottom with their $. What they need to realize is that money means nothing to a dominant woman who has no need of it. The idea of males controlling ladies with their wallet is not going to fly in findom. If you are one if the y chromosome types that dabble in the scene using your $ as a tool, then you need to stick to service sites or females that are only in it to make a quick buck. I do not deny that you will find a deluge of females chasing you down and overflowing your inbox with outright begging for your $, which is pathetic, for they shame the fine ladies of findom. Merely joining a site will bring you into contact with the types of females that are more than happy to bow down to your dictates for $, so there is absolutely no need for you to approach dominant women wasting their time with your toppy BS.
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
surprise gift
UPS was here delivering uber sexy heels from my wl. No idea who sent them,but thank you <333 them :D
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
Tidbits from the last week
It has been a few days...always so much going on!
Saturday my little pet got his first taste of pain ^_^. He has been a very good pet in service. Always thinking of that which pleases ME. The week before last he sent me a $200 gc to replace my beside lamps which I just ordered yesterday, yes I get too busy at times to spend my gc's immediately lol. Last week he sent me a $200 gc to purchase my new droid phone!!! This week another $100 gc, and items from my wishlist woot.
My brat purchased a new upright freezer for me, so that I can cook healthier and freeze meals which is awesomesauce :D He is now saving up for an item that I crave dearly....he does adore pleasing and spoiling ME.
A slut from the past came through to session with me one night this weekend...oh the filthy painful things he did for me lmao. Now I have seen fit to whore him out to any cumers, for which he is ever so grateful that I received this token in my inbox tonight.
It will never be enough to sate my greed though. I want to suck you dry $
I was honored to be asked to interview for Goddess BellaDonna's financial weekly publication, so do be on the lookout for it!!!
Well that is all for now pets, it is storming out tonight, and I am on my way to bed ^_^
Saturday my little pet got his first taste of pain ^_^. He has been a very good pet in service. Always thinking of that which pleases ME. The week before last he sent me a $200 gc to replace my beside lamps which I just ordered yesterday, yes I get too busy at times to spend my gc's immediately lol. Last week he sent me a $200 gc to purchase my new droid phone!!! This week another $100 gc, and items from my wishlist woot.
My brat purchased a new upright freezer for me, so that I can cook healthier and freeze meals which is awesomesauce :D He is now saving up for an item that I crave dearly....he does adore pleasing and spoiling ME.
A slut from the past came through to session with me one night this weekend...oh the filthy painful things he did for me lmao. Now I have seen fit to whore him out to any cumers, for which he is ever so grateful that I received this token in my inbox tonight.
I was honored to be asked to interview for Goddess BellaDonna's financial weekly publication, so do be on the lookout for it!!!
Well that is all for now pets, it is storming out tonight, and I am on my way to bed ^_^
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