Honesty

Shallow, superficial, self-centered, self absorbed. Adjectives...simple yet powerful words which evoke images depicting the majority of males within the bdsm scene. Do take a moment to look upon your actions boys and honestly ask yourself if these words resonate throughout your behavior. A select niche of individuals that maintain the mentality of "what are you going to do for me", oh wait that would be an error, as this state of mind has encroached upon all communities within society. Disdainfully I view this disturbing reality. The scene has eroded into a cesspool where dedication and devotion to service are applied only so long as it leads to an eruption of semen. This mindset has allowed for the proliferation of subwhores that comprehend and value only that of their own pleasure. Loyalty and diligence to a single chosen lady tossed to the wayside in search of the next erectile fix. Yes it paints a poor picture, yet the truth is not intended to be kind, merely to be accurate. I am not saying that selfish, shallow, superficial, self-centered, self absorbed males have no place in the scene, merely that they have no place in my temple of worship. Service is meant to be an honor bestowed upon those that have earned the privilege, not a purchased right. It is quite plain though to see why this has become a dominating issue. Findom is a grey area of play, wherein those that possess the $ maintain that they call the shots so to speak (this in essence denotes exchanges as business) To be blunt, if you are paying for a service than you are not serving. You are a customer. Nothing more, nothing less. Do not disgrace those that have earned the designation of submissive or slave by claiming to be that which you are not. They are those that recognize the distinction between tribute being given without expectation and payment being paid. They are the treasured minority whom by word, action, and deed give of themselves for the pleasure of another. The point being, be honest about who and what you are if not with others, then atleast with yourself.