Saturday, April 6, 2013

Age as a factor in selection

It is a fact that age does play a part when males are choosing a Goddess to worship whether it be that they prefer a lady young enough to be their daughter, or old enough to be their mother, so it should comes as no surprise that ladies as well find certain age groups to be more desirable for those that they come to allow within their inner sanctum. Many a time though I have been the recipient of anger and confusion as to why I vocalize a preference for males of a certain age when it comes to service, so I thought that I would take a moment to explain my decision, and what led me to it.

The males I welcome into my fold are generally within the mid 30's and older set. I doubt that it comes as a shock, for a goodly amount of ladies share my stance upon this subject. It is popular opinion that age is equated with maturity, and maturity is a most desired quality for any submissive to possess, which is a character trait that is acquired over the course of a lifetime not one that is magically bestowed upon birth. I am well aware that not every male is mentally and emotionally mature at 40, nor that the entirety of boys under 40 are immature, but from my personal point of view taking into consideration my experiences with males of all ages it is a reasonable conclusion that the odds of a male being suited to my expectations (mature, stable, dependable) will indeed be found within the age set of my selection.

Let me put it to you like this, most of the younger males that I have encountered enter the scene like they would a strip club. Tell me if this sounds familiar. "Hey whats up baby,wanna chat?" Then he  tosses out a few dollar bills (after he has tried all of his tricks to get it for free) to watch a female entertain him on cam (tease and denial), all the while stroking his "ego" out of sight under the table (under his desk)...maybe even being so full of himself that he does so in plain view, and once he has completed his mission (gotten his jollies) he is off to the next available set of T&A. Does this strike any of you as the type of male you would want in your stable? That would be not only a definite no, but a HELL NO for me. Ever heard that saying "you cannot make a ho into a housewife"...well along that same tune, you cannot turn a slut into a worthwhile servant.

An older male tends to have evolved past the point where he cannot make a decision about service without prior consult with his main member, which makes him a better suited applicant for me. They have reached a point in their life where they are secure enough to offer themselves with full knowledge of what it entails. It is not seen as a game to them. They are willing and prepared to enter into a D's exchange that lasts longer than it takes for their johnson to juice, and has more substance than a hand full of sticky semen. They have life experience to draw from which has taught them that all of the money in the world will not matter if a male is incapable of behaving in a manner that is sure to garner the continued attention of his chosen Goddess.  In addition older men are more likely to be at a point in life where they have their shit together. I mean what good is a submissive whose life resembles a termite ridden home?

This is not to say that I would never ever consider a younger male, merely that he would have to be an exceptional individual.

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