Priorities

If you do not have your priorities straight then you are not going to do anyone any good. Most of you limpwicks seem to think that by offering to serve that suddenly a Domme is going swoop in and eradicate all of the unpleasant issues in your life, like a Ms fix it... knock knock knock reality check..not happening, I mean seriously get for real. Your "house" needs to be in order before you are worth a shit in service. You must be able to stand on your own two feet before you can kneel before a Goddess.

Being able to live your life with a lady as the main focus should be the way of service. This is one of the biggest deterrents for me in accepting those that are married, along with the fact that I am one of the Dommes that does not engage in homewrecking, and before anyone wants to get all pissy, no I do not judge those that do it, merely that it is not to my taste. I actually believe in the sanctity of marriage, meaning that I see serving when you are married as cheating plain and simple.  A married with kiddos male should in essence be concentrating on his family, not his own selfish perversion.  His first obligation being to them, not me...and that defeats the purpose of service for me. Call me selfish, but it is the way it is. I expect a male to be absolutely devoted to me without baggage complicating the path of training I employ. Not to mention that my fetishes tend to run towards activities that leave marks (bruises and a bit of blood) along with the use of training tools such as chastity devices, panties, dildos, and plugs..all of which would be difficult to explain or hide from a spouse.

This is the exact reason why single unattached boys are given greater consideration. Why wouldn't a Domme opt for service from a male that is able to devote his time outside of work to her happiness rather than one who must work her in around his other obligations? It makes sense when you think about it.

Of course none of what I have said will apply to the pay for play type kink peckers, but then I have no use for them anyway. I expect to be served, not the other way around. My desires do not include catering to male's fetishes, instead they are to embrace mine. I know that many ladies enjoy the come and go guys, but for me personally I am here to engage in a LTR with those that are worthy of my realm, and quickies just won't cut it online or RT.