Reality based perception

In an ideal relationship a lady would be able to depend upon those that serve her...notice I said ideal. It is not the ideal that I intend to speak of though. I am a reality based thinker, which means that I do not believe in all of the smoke and mirror versions that I see referred to daily.

To place your faith in the males who inhabit the scene is tantamount to setting yourself up to fail. This is not me being a negative nelly...this is reality. One of the things that makes me cringe is when I see ladies depending upon males to pay their bills, and then complaining when the boy in question skips along to another Domme. The saying that sums it up best is "Don't count your chickens til the eggs hatch"

I employ my fetish, it does not employ me. This is why I would never part from my vanilla career, well that and I enjoy my chosen profession. Seriously though, why would you ever place yourself in a position where meeting your obligations hinges upon the expectations of a boy doing as required. That is not to say that all males are a letdown of life...merely that placing the responsibility for your commitments should lay with you first and foremost.

Some ladies do make findom their entire source of income, but I see them as the exception, for the majority shall never be so fortunate to have their lifestyle funded solely by those that worship them. To alleviate any confusion, clips, nf and the likes is not what I consider findom, it falls within the realm of the adult industry business, therefore the income generated is not labeled as tribute.

Basically what I am saying is that wisdom would not advise you to leave behind your day job in the hopes that a fat wallet fish is going to land in your net and feed you for life. Depend upon yourself for your needs, and look to those that serve for your wants.