Every day there are troves of new ladies entering the findom scene who have no idea what the scene is really all about. They read the blogs and twitter feed of those considered the top Dommes, then attempt to emulate their style of domination, all without success. Upon realizing that what they are doing is failing to achieve the results they desire, they then seek out one of the Dommes asking for the secret of findom. The ironic part is that even once given the information they need, they still do not believe it, therefore they disregard it, and tread the path of frustration instead.
At this point you may be saying "what the hell is the secret to being a successful FinDomme?" Drumroll pleeeeeease......... BE YOURSELF! Now how many of you are calling BS on this one? Hard to believe, but it is the truth.
You cannot try to be something you are not, and expect precise results. Yes I have heard the saying "fake it til you make it", but that is not going to work in this instance. Acting like another will only bring you the type of males attracted to that style, but if that is not who you truly are, then you are setting yourself up to fall. No one is more perfect at being you than you (TRUTH), so why even try to lose who you are in anyone elses personality?
It is true that you may never receive the amount of tributes that others do, but that does not mean that you are any less successful than any of the top Dommes. Try looking at it this way, success is subjective, therefore if you define it as being able to attract to yourself the exact type of males who mesh well with your style and have sought one just like you, then you are indeed successful.
There are thousands of males in the scene looking for a lady to worship and adore, so never fear that there are not ones out there who will beg to serve you even if you are not the cruelest, the hottest, the best known, the youngest, the oldest, the most experienced, the least experienced.etc.... You get my point right? Just be you, and that will attract ones who will appreciate you for who you are.
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