Why do you set yourself up for failure when it comes to service boys as it could have been avoided?
No one enjoys owning the blame for their mistakes, but 9 times out of 10 it is YOU(sub/slave) and not the other person's(Domme's) fault. I know that many of you enter the scene with the best of intentions yet it all goes awry in a short period of time. It begins so simply with an eager male contacting a female,and this is where the cycle starts. An inordinate amount of you come with not even a minimal comprehension of rules and protocol...this though can be taught...on the other hand a sense of entitlement and lack of respect for yourself and others is a lesson which requires eons of time,and once you combine the 2 it is rarely a combination worth the time and effort required of a Domme to set straight.
I realize that the 18-34 set are more likely to score higher on testing for narcissistic tendencies which accounts for the sense of entitlement so prevalent among you...hence you will note that a majority of ladies do not even entertain training males within that age set. It is not entirely your fault as it has been proven that unfortunately parental and academic figures have aided your delusional fantasies instead of preparing you for the stark reality of life. Rather than relay to you that NO you will never be president, and that the odds are better for you being hit by a car than being a millionaire...they spin a tale that you can have it all and be anything. Well let me tell you that it takes hard work and years of driven ambition to reach standard goals,much less the pinnacle you expect to be your due. Life owes you NOTHING. You will earn every iota of success,just as you will have to earn every reward and accolade a Domme bestows upon you. Laziness,conceit and ineptitude are not positive attributes in life or service.
I am a firm believer that behaviors can be altered if the desire is there. No one that I have ever encountered truly wishes to be seen as a loser in all aspects of life...so I say to you now, you can do better,you can be better. Make a conscious decision that you will learn to be humble rather than arrogant,that you will strive to be selfless rather than selfish,that you will endeavor to live your life in the pursuit of another's happiness,rather than centering your every thought and deed upon what pleases you. One of the downfalls of our society today is the entire hooray for me and fuck everyone else attitudes prevailing. This is not the approach for any male to take. After all being on your knees in front of a Domme is not an ego booster now is it? Learn your place in the hierarchy quickly boys if you sincerely wish to merit the honor of being owned.
The purpose of this blog is not to undermine,but to make you think before you act. Take some time to recognize what you have to offer to a Domme(not just financially) before you utter a word to her,never forgetting that once words are spoken that they cannot be taken back,so always reflect upon what comes out of your mouth prior to releasing it.
As always I hold hope that atleast one person will take my words to heart,and work towards being a better person,and boy for their lady.
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