Low self-esteem

What could this possibly have to do with the findom scene? I mean it is incomprehensible that any woman with the title of Princess, Goddess, Queen etc...would ever have this issue is it not? Possibly I am talking out of my ass, but I doubt it.

Why is it that females will notice and exaggerate every possible self perceived flaw they possess? What they see reflected in the mirror at times is in absolute distortion to what the world sees. It has been proven in studies that women view themselves differently than the public does. Why is this?

Could it be that our society demands females to be perfect in form and face? Has the power of the patriarchal parties created a design which strives to keep the egos of what they term less than "perfect" from rising within the scheme of life? Are any that do not meet their standards swept under the rug in order to shame and enslave them to the point mentally and emotionally where they are self conscious to be seen?

Mind you I am not one to follow conspiracy theories at all, but I do believe that systematically throughout time, females have been seen and treated as less than males(numerous history books have been penned to confirm this), and there are those whom will employ any means of doing so.

Now as to how this ties into the fetish I will explain. How many times a day are the ladies here on the receiving end of esteem battering snide insults? Is there any Domme that has not been called one of these terms, fat, ugly, stupid, whore, old, cow, cunt, bitch? No matter how many times we say to ourselves "I could give less than a shit what others think of me" eventually it will sting your pride just as it would any human being. Repeated abuse such as this does produce detrimental effects on any individual subjected to a consistent diet of it.

Yes the males whom sprout negativity such as this are self centered imbeciles, but why do they believe that this type of behavior is acceptable? I think that the media is a factor. Until recent years you never seen a BBW grace the cover of any majorly distributed publication...nor did you see movies where the romantic lead female actor was over 45, and lord forbid that you display a billboard with a female that does not resemble a version of mainstream beauty! Those that consist of the "haves" set the rules as to what is attractive vs unattractive, meaning if you as a woman did not meet or exceed what "they" termed hot, sexy, seductive...then surely no one is interested in seeing you either..therefore you are meant to be unseen much less owning a title of worship, ergo when you refuse to oblige selfish demands you are then subjected to terms intended to put you in your place.

Due to the these factors women have had instilled within that their worth was tied to the physical rather than the intellectual(assbackwards). Ask yourself this, why do women subject themselves to cosmetic surgeries ie breast enlargement, botox, liposuction etc..? Is it because they truly desire the alterations, or have they been made to think that they need to do so to be valued in the eyes of others?

The most pertinent question though is when shall we as strong dominant females get past all of this superficial bullshit? Don't you think that it is time to "stop the insanity"? A woman's beauty is timeless, faceless, and unmeasurable!