Becoming a Domme's number 1 boy often requires more than money. Sounds a bit contradictory in a fetish such as findom, but then you must never forget that domination is part of the equation as well. Now I am not about to say that a male whom is only tributing in the double digits has a chance in hell of aspiring to that honored rank, cause believe me money will always matter to a large extent, but it is not the end all.
How then is a male to earn the title? Well certain qualities are an added incentive to your resume,one being loyalty. Do you know the meaning of that word, and do your actions and thoughts embody the definition of the word? If not, then you have a tremendous amount of work to do, because if you cannot be loyal to one lady for the length longer than a session, then surely you are not worth a pot of piss when it comes to forming a lifetime commitment. Of course there are plenty of one off males, and session addicts, but these are not the roads which one would traverse to become the coveted number one boy.
Dedication is yet another quality. It is a conscious step one takes to selflessly devote their life to serving a specific chosen lady. Your dedication will aid you in remaining loyally true.
Integrity of the highest caliber is a prerequisite. Any type of misrepresentation of self or intent is unacceptable. If you are not able to be honest with at least yourself, then what worth do you possess, none.
Respect for one's self and others makes you stand out in a sea of contemptful oafs. Why would any lady accept you into service much less a permanent position if you disrespect others thereby casting a shadow of doubt upon her reputation as an owner.
Self-control is a requirement. In a power exchange control is relinquished, but the control I refer to is that which allows you to remain loyal, dedicated, honest and respectful. If one possesses self control over their words and actions, then they are less likely to fall prey to the bouts of momentary weakness which can wreak havoc upon a D'd relationship.
Intelligence is most prized in a servant. This does not mean being egotistical, vain, or arrogant. It refers to possessing the required intellect which allows you to become an individual worthy of conversing with, merely than an idiot whom is tolerated.
Humility is ever so attractive. To serve is to accept the rightful dominion of your being, thereby accepting that you are less than her in the scheme of life. Humility washes away the stench of male ego, which has no place in this type of interaction.
Generosity of spirit, time, and finances. Your duty is to supply that which your lady requires, requests, or demands. Being stingy is an ugly behavior always keep that in mind, for do you not desire to be upon your best behavior with your chosen one?
The list may appear long, but all are of importance if you ever hope to attain a unique status.
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