Is getting what you want your driving motivation for being in the bdsm realm? If so, then there is no need to unnecessarily complicate the process of finding a compatible Domme with deception. Self gratification is the basis for their presence with the majority of males which I encounter being here. This mindset is not one that shocks dominant ladies,and truly there is no reason to be covert about it. Here is the kicker though,you are NOT submissive if you are around merely to feed your personal fetish without regards to the wants of whatever Dommes you contact,so please refrain from labeling yourself as such. Making your intentions known from the onset will save time,headaches,and aggravation for all parties concerned. Just be upfront,and put it on the table that you are a selfish twat waffle looking to do only that which you desire. Believe me when I say that you will indeed locate ladies whom will satisfy your wants(not without cost though),perhaps not the exact lady you crave,but there will be some. It is only when you attempt to hide your agendas that issues arise,and you find yourself saddled with adjectives which are not complimentary,nor will they open the doors that allow you to play penis pattycake.
Hopefully the gist of my post was clear that honesty does not always make you honorable,but it will get you further towards that which you seek. Oh and one last tidbit...I am NOT one of those ladies that will suffer to deal with self absorbed,self serving,selfish males...happy hunting.
Friday, April 11, 2014
Where has Goddess been?
Here I am to update my little minions upon why Goddess has been absent for a few days from her blog. 1)I actually have a life 2)You boys are intelligent enough to know how to get attention and words of wisdom in service to Goddess $$$
Goddess has been very busy with her volunteer activities(yes I actually give a shit about enriching the lives of others) as well as with my job,social life,and real time sessions with my owned boy,not to mention keeping tabs and interacting with those that serve me exclusively online...which leaves minimal time to share my divine glory with those that are not serving me,and besides cretins such as yourselves are not worth an iota of my presence anyway. You should be thanking me for my sheer generosity,and you know exactly how to do so $$$...are you seeing a pattern here??? $$$=my time and attention,anything less=squat,nil,nada.
My best boy is coming along so beautifully in his training. He anticipates my wants,and acts accordingly. There is never any need to repeat myself,as he knows his blessing is being able to please me. Recently we have been pushing at his limits a bit,with his being forced to suck on a squirting dildo as he was allowed a much earned release,too bad it was dampened by the fact that his own piss was squirting into his mouth as he did so lol
My little sissy mona has finally taken her first step into femininity by going in for a pedicure,and since she did not come out with the exact color that I desired,she is now being penalized with a brow threading. Her one redeeming grace is that she always pays tribute every Friday,just as my best boy does. Nothing worse than a bitch whom needs reminders to tribute.
My favorite of course does everything,and anything to ensure my happiness,so he has been given the honor of paying for Goddess's vacation trip in June($7000)...isn't he a lucky boy!!! Of course he will receive exclusive photos from my trip as a reward.
For some time now Goddess has been looking at all in one pc's,and finally I have found the one which tickles my fancy. A good little community piggy has already gifted Goddess with half of the amount,and will be soon sending to rest,YAY Goddess!!
You could be asking yourself,what else could Goddess possibly want or desire...well boys that much is simple. I want what is mine...$$$$,now be a good boy and release it to me.
Goddess has been very busy with her volunteer activities(yes I actually give a shit about enriching the lives of others) as well as with my job,social life,and real time sessions with my owned boy,not to mention keeping tabs and interacting with those that serve me exclusively online...which leaves minimal time to share my divine glory with those that are not serving me,and besides cretins such as yourselves are not worth an iota of my presence anyway. You should be thanking me for my sheer generosity,and you know exactly how to do so $$$...are you seeing a pattern here??? $$$=my time and attention,anything less=squat,nil,nada.
My best boy is coming along so beautifully in his training. He anticipates my wants,and acts accordingly. There is never any need to repeat myself,as he knows his blessing is being able to please me. Recently we have been pushing at his limits a bit,with his being forced to suck on a squirting dildo as he was allowed a much earned release,too bad it was dampened by the fact that his own piss was squirting into his mouth as he did so lol
My little sissy mona has finally taken her first step into femininity by going in for a pedicure,and since she did not come out with the exact color that I desired,she is now being penalized with a brow threading. Her one redeeming grace is that she always pays tribute every Friday,just as my best boy does. Nothing worse than a bitch whom needs reminders to tribute.
My favorite of course does everything,and anything to ensure my happiness,so he has been given the honor of paying for Goddess's vacation trip in June($7000)...isn't he a lucky boy!!! Of course he will receive exclusive photos from my trip as a reward.
For some time now Goddess has been looking at all in one pc's,and finally I have found the one which tickles my fancy. A good little community piggy has already gifted Goddess with half of the amount,and will be soon sending to rest,YAY Goddess!!
You could be asking yourself,what else could Goddess possibly want or desire...well boys that much is simple. I want what is mine...$$$$,now be a good boy and release it to me.
Thursday, April 3, 2014
Bon appetit
I see all of you new boys coming into the scene,and you remind me of children that have been let loose in a sweet shop with your parents credit cards. Your eyes are wide,the tachycardic pounding of your heart almost audible to everyone in the room,your palms sweaty as you grasp at every possible opportunity to indulge your fetish with every delectable morsel that you see,only to find the experience as empty as the calories in a chocolate bar. Such a let down that you must keep going attempting to consume more and more until you are finally sated,but unfortunately such vacuous encounters will not feed your fetish hunger. They merely whet your appetite for the full course meal which gratifies your bottomless pit of submission.
Time to grow up little ones. Clean your grubby fingers,and keyboard,then pull up your big boy undies,and stop seeking with your eyes,but instead open your senses to the possibility that what you need to fulfill you may not have the shiniest wrapper,nor the tartiest taste upon your tongue. Enrich your palate,and quench your desires,all whilst broadening your scope of experience. Bon appetit :)
Time to grow up little ones. Clean your grubby fingers,and keyboard,then pull up your big boy undies,and stop seeking with your eyes,but instead open your senses to the possibility that what you need to fulfill you may not have the shiniest wrapper,nor the tartiest taste upon your tongue. Enrich your palate,and quench your desires,all whilst broadening your scope of experience. Bon appetit :)
Wednesday, April 2, 2014
Come home
Submitting yourself is like coming home. A familiar happiness which permeates your being. The one place where you are free to release all of your worldly concerns,whilst in the presence of the entity whom knows what it is that you genuinely need. There is no judgement,no verdicts of being an absolute freak of nature because of the activities which make you feel safe and sane. At last you are able to let down your guard,and relax into the release of your physical and emotional self into the care of your chosen owner.
Submission is not a game,nor a recreational pastime. It is,was,and always will be who you are at the core of your existence. Tend it,treat it well,and it will evolve into your very reason for living. Service to superior women becomes an ingrained habit as you apply it to every aspect of your life. This is who you are. Never disgrace the honored moniker by playing at being submissive,all the while harboring selfish machinations.
The path may be rocky,and the journey long,but the payoff for your persistence is priceless. The riches of your efforts are not materially measured,rather they are soul satisfying. Your reward being that you will possess the knowledge of having fulfilled your purpose in life.
COME CRAWL TO YOUR FREEDOM AT MY FEET.
Submission is not a game,nor a recreational pastime. It is,was,and always will be who you are at the core of your existence. Tend it,treat it well,and it will evolve into your very reason for living. Service to superior women becomes an ingrained habit as you apply it to every aspect of your life. This is who you are. Never disgrace the honored moniker by playing at being submissive,all the while harboring selfish machinations.
The path may be rocky,and the journey long,but the payoff for your persistence is priceless. The riches of your efforts are not materially measured,rather they are soul satisfying. Your reward being that you will possess the knowledge of having fulfilled your purpose in life.
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
D's relationships are not a fairytale
D's relationships are not a fairytale, not even the porn version of one. It is so easy to associate what we see in the movies or read in books as a possibility of reality. I mean if it can happen for that character on the screen,than it can be true for me as well,but the likelihood is beyond slim.I mean in this day and age I seriously fail to see why anyone would deceive themselves by thinking that written and produced forms of entertainment are an accurate reflection of life.
I talk with so many males whom are so far off base as to what occurs in the realm of bdsm interactions that it moves me to piteous laughter. They have been a voyeur of femdom porn,or something similar,and all of a sudden a switch clicks in their heads (big and small one) screaming oh yea I am down for that,only to find out that they were mistaken,which leads to outbursts of anger and striking out at the object of their fantasy(Dommes)for not providing what they thought was real,and proclamations that the ladies in question aren't authentic dominants. It is a tangled weave they have scripted for themselves,but seeing that the human psyche looks to shield itself by blaming others, of course they assign failure elsewhere.
Bdsm relationships are not that very far off base from what we see in non-bdsm ones. It actually takes both parties working at it,and yes sorry to tell you that it does require work. Fantasies are wondrous things,but they are not always realistic,and to be blunt I have found that for many it is the fantasy which fuels desires,but if faced with it real time,then suddenly it becomes an episode of fear factor for the individual,so it is best to design your utopia pragmatically with a healthy dose of realism when seeking out a lady with whom you crave to engage in an ongoing D's relationship.
I talk with so many males whom are so far off base as to what occurs in the realm of bdsm interactions that it moves me to piteous laughter. They have been a voyeur of femdom porn,or something similar,and all of a sudden a switch clicks in their heads (big and small one) screaming oh yea I am down for that,only to find out that they were mistaken,which leads to outbursts of anger and striking out at the object of their fantasy(Dommes)for not providing what they thought was real,and proclamations that the ladies in question aren't authentic dominants. It is a tangled weave they have scripted for themselves,but seeing that the human psyche looks to shield itself by blaming others, of course they assign failure elsewhere.
Bdsm relationships are not that very far off base from what we see in non-bdsm ones. It actually takes both parties working at it,and yes sorry to tell you that it does require work. Fantasies are wondrous things,but they are not always realistic,and to be blunt I have found that for many it is the fantasy which fuels desires,but if faced with it real time,then suddenly it becomes an episode of fear factor for the individual,so it is best to design your utopia pragmatically with a healthy dose of realism when seeking out a lady with whom you crave to engage in an ongoing D's relationship.
Saturday, March 22, 2014
To all of those that come and grace my words with their vision I apologize for being away so long. I have been focusing my energy upon work,my personal play,and my pets rather than posting for the world at large. So few are actually worthy to be touched by the thoughts of this Goddess anyway,but for the minute audience whom are deserving,I shall endeavor to share my wisdom more often,but it will not be today lol. Send your displays of devotion to mzsydney34@yahoo.com,and I might consider blessing you more often with my presence.
Friday, March 7, 2014
Meeting the needs
There are generally 2 thoughts on this subject when it comes to submissive males. 1)The males needs are of no importance at all, only my own, ergo who gives a rat's ass if they are happy so long as I gets mine. 2)The males needs must be met in order for them to be satisfied and continue serving me. I have given both prerogatives much thought, and my own personal stance lays in the grey area.
There seems to be many whom see want and need as interchangeable, which they are not. To understand one may look to maslow's hierarchy of needs with focus being upon the lowest tier. A human beings requires, air, food, water, sleep, and shelter from the environment to survive. Anything else is a want, not a need. Now some will attempt to argue that sex is a need, and to that I call BS. Monks, priests, and nuns have lived lives of abstinence, and guess what...they are doing just fine.
My opinion is that if a Domme connects with a like minded male, then needs(wants) no longer become the primary focus as they are in complete synchrony. I believe truly that a male submissive's happiness should be based upon the happiness of the one he serves. This is one of the reasons that it is crucial to take on only males that match a ladies wants well. As an example, if a lady loves delivering degradation, and she takes into her stable a sub that thrives on degradation, this becomes a win win scenario where both parties "needs" are met.
It really is simple. Accept only those whose interests intertwine with your own, this way both parties are happy. Ladies stop seeing dollar signs, because all of the money in the world will not keep a male serving you if you do not share common interests, and boys cease offering your service based solely upon tits and ass...get it through your skull that domination is more cerebral than physical.
There seems to be many whom see want and need as interchangeable, which they are not. To understand one may look to maslow's hierarchy of needs with focus being upon the lowest tier. A human beings requires, air, food, water, sleep, and shelter from the environment to survive. Anything else is a want, not a need. Now some will attempt to argue that sex is a need, and to that I call BS. Monks, priests, and nuns have lived lives of abstinence, and guess what...they are doing just fine.
My opinion is that if a Domme connects with a like minded male, then needs(wants) no longer become the primary focus as they are in complete synchrony. I believe truly that a male submissive's happiness should be based upon the happiness of the one he serves. This is one of the reasons that it is crucial to take on only males that match a ladies wants well. As an example, if a lady loves delivering degradation, and she takes into her stable a sub that thrives on degradation, this becomes a win win scenario where both parties "needs" are met.
It really is simple. Accept only those whose interests intertwine with your own, this way both parties are happy. Ladies stop seeing dollar signs, because all of the money in the world will not keep a male serving you if you do not share common interests, and boys cease offering your service based solely upon tits and ass...get it through your skull that domination is more cerebral than physical.
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