Thursday, June 26, 2014
Tuesday, June 24, 2014
Why be a monkey
For the ladies just starting out I know how confusing this online world of fetish can become. You are full of trepidation and unsure of how to present yourself in order for the genuine submissive males to flock to your side for service. Unfortunately many fall into the monkey see,monkey do protocol. I can see the confused frowns now,so allow me to elaborate. What are the most common views on sites? The tits and ass parade of course. Doubt me? Take a peek at the myriad of sites on the net. What is the most prevalent imagery? Yup it is tits and ass,regardless of the gender,it is all we see these days. Now ask yourself,do I want to be like everyone else,or do I want to set myself apart? You will not gain notice if you are just another one of the crowd.
Consider this first,do you really want a male serving you because of your party poppers? We all know how flighty fetish males can be with their loyalty to begin with,and appendages will not enslave them for long,for there are thousands of tits and asses on parade before them daily. I am not saying that you cannot or should not display your goods for the world at large if that is your desire,after all it is all about what you want to do,but I am saying that if that is all you have to offer,then your exchanges will be vapid,and empty of meaning just like sugar free jello(ick).
How else can you be different? Hmm well you can definitely stay away from constantly calling unknown males losers(that word is overrated and overused within the findom scene),and believe me that it is not going to catch anyone's attention if you are doling out free humiliation,oh I take that back,it will bring out the broke boys,and they are not the ones worthy of your time. Last but not least,do not develop the fuck you pay me attitude. It is a ploy that works for so very few,that it may actually hinder your ability to attract the paying type of submissive.
The best way to draw submissives to you,is to focus upon yourself. Cease worrying if you will ever have a male serving you,and for pete's sake do not ever chase them. You are better than that. There is a difference between being aggressive,and being desperate. Recognize it. Take your time,and enrich yourself with every bit of knowledge out there to aid in your personal growth as a Domme. Becoming the best you possible is the flame which will bring the moths. Hone your knowledge of bdsm,and sharpen your skills in order to bring a Domme of worth to the table.
Consider this first,do you really want a male serving you because of your party poppers? We all know how flighty fetish males can be with their loyalty to begin with,and appendages will not enslave them for long,for there are thousands of tits and asses on parade before them daily. I am not saying that you cannot or should not display your goods for the world at large if that is your desire,after all it is all about what you want to do,but I am saying that if that is all you have to offer,then your exchanges will be vapid,and empty of meaning just like sugar free jello(ick).
How else can you be different? Hmm well you can definitely stay away from constantly calling unknown males losers(that word is overrated and overused within the findom scene),and believe me that it is not going to catch anyone's attention if you are doling out free humiliation,oh I take that back,it will bring out the broke boys,and they are not the ones worthy of your time. Last but not least,do not develop the fuck you pay me attitude. It is a ploy that works for so very few,that it may actually hinder your ability to attract the paying type of submissive.
The best way to draw submissives to you,is to focus upon yourself. Cease worrying if you will ever have a male serving you,and for pete's sake do not ever chase them. You are better than that. There is a difference between being aggressive,and being desperate. Recognize it. Take your time,and enrich yourself with every bit of knowledge out there to aid in your personal growth as a Domme. Becoming the best you possible is the flame which will bring the moths. Hone your knowledge of bdsm,and sharpen your skills in order to bring a Domme of worth to the table.
Wednesday, June 18, 2014
Tuesday, June 17, 2014
How to lose your Domme
I have quite recently released a sissy boi from my service,and thought that I would do a blog about how not to behave if you desire to remain under my consideration.
To begin with this boi already had odds stacked against him as he is married,which is generally a turn off for me,but as he pleaded so politely,I decided to go against my grain and take him on for consideration. Now many of you may think that a married male is more stable,and has proven that he is able to commit,but that is a myth. This boy was unable or deliberately opted not to hold me as the main priority in his life(no he did not have children)...instead he placed himself and his spouse upon a pedestal,thereby relegating me below them(big fat NO NO).
He refused to perform assigned tasks(no they were not ones discussed as limits). His excuse being that he was not sure that his spouse would approve,as well as he did not care to do it. The only tasks that he would execute were those that he enjoyed. This issue was brought to his attention by me,but there were no positive changes enacted upon his part. This became strike 1 for him as part of serving me involves sacrifice(meaning doing things that are not always what you want to do).
He repetitively forwarded cl ads to me from individuals which dwelled within a reasonable distance from him(he begged to be my cocksucking whore),yet when I would interact with the posters of the ad in an attempt to set up a meet,he would suddenly have something come up to negate such plans,then turn around and send more ads. I did ask if this was merely a fantasy which he desired to be kept as such,yet he continued to relay that it was indeed something he wanted in reality. Strike 2 as I had provided him an out when I queried if it was truly a "want" for him.
I recently took a vacation,and relayed to him that I would be online few and far between,so I requested his cell number for texting and photo sharing(he had been serving for 3 months at this point),and he ignored my request. Strike 3.
Once I returned from vacation I made him aware that I had came back to Kansas,and received no response from him for 2 days. I then questioned if there was an issue I needed to be aware of...again no response,only to hear back from him a day later whining that he felt like I did not care about him enough.
Now ask yourself this bois,if you do not place your Domme first in your life,and if you refuse tasks and requests,then fail to communicate,would you honestly expect her to give a flying rat's ass about you? Hopefully none of you possess that level of ignorance. Needless to say I have written this male off as selfish,self-centered,entitled thinking rubbish. Learn from this bois mistakes by correcting your behavior if any of the above mentioned acts appear to be a reflection of your own,because heed me well little ones,losing your Domme is not a thing of happiness.
To begin with this boi already had odds stacked against him as he is married,which is generally a turn off for me,but as he pleaded so politely,I decided to go against my grain and take him on for consideration. Now many of you may think that a married male is more stable,and has proven that he is able to commit,but that is a myth. This boy was unable or deliberately opted not to hold me as the main priority in his life(no he did not have children)...instead he placed himself and his spouse upon a pedestal,thereby relegating me below them(big fat NO NO).
He refused to perform assigned tasks(no they were not ones discussed as limits). His excuse being that he was not sure that his spouse would approve,as well as he did not care to do it. The only tasks that he would execute were those that he enjoyed. This issue was brought to his attention by me,but there were no positive changes enacted upon his part. This became strike 1 for him as part of serving me involves sacrifice(meaning doing things that are not always what you want to do).
He repetitively forwarded cl ads to me from individuals which dwelled within a reasonable distance from him(he begged to be my cocksucking whore),yet when I would interact with the posters of the ad in an attempt to set up a meet,he would suddenly have something come up to negate such plans,then turn around and send more ads. I did ask if this was merely a fantasy which he desired to be kept as such,yet he continued to relay that it was indeed something he wanted in reality. Strike 2 as I had provided him an out when I queried if it was truly a "want" for him.
I recently took a vacation,and relayed to him that I would be online few and far between,so I requested his cell number for texting and photo sharing(he had been serving for 3 months at this point),and he ignored my request. Strike 3.
Once I returned from vacation I made him aware that I had came back to Kansas,and received no response from him for 2 days. I then questioned if there was an issue I needed to be aware of...again no response,only to hear back from him a day later whining that he felt like I did not care about him enough.
Now ask yourself this bois,if you do not place your Domme first in your life,and if you refuse tasks and requests,then fail to communicate,would you honestly expect her to give a flying rat's ass about you? Hopefully none of you possess that level of ignorance. Needless to say I have written this male off as selfish,self-centered,entitled thinking rubbish. Learn from this bois mistakes by correcting your behavior if any of the above mentioned acts appear to be a reflection of your own,because heed me well little ones,losing your Domme is not a thing of happiness.
Saturday, June 14, 2014
Thursday, May 29, 2014
What have you done for me lately?
Goddess is departing for Orlando in 7 days. Have you done your part financing my vacation? If not then do the world a favor and crawl under a moss covered rock til you rot away. Ohhh Goddess how can you be so cruel...well faggots it is just this simple,if you are not doing for me,then you are dead to me. I couldn't care less why you are such a fuck up,or how badly you crave to serve. Nothing else matters if you are not putting a smile upon my face.
Most of you are so fucking pathetic that I would rather eat arsenic,than interact with you...so of course you are going to PAY for the honor of sharing my time. There are NO freebies for any of you in the realm of MZ SYDNEY. It does not matter how attractive you think you are(wake up)...it does not matter how many pretty words of devotion you spew if you are not coating them with cold hard cash. Why do you think any woman tolerates you around???? Smell the bacon pork rind,it is all for love of the MONEY. The only value you possess is the presidents in your wallet. Now get off your dead lazy asses,and make yourself useful by sending donations to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Most of you are so fucking pathetic that I would rather eat arsenic,than interact with you...so of course you are going to PAY for the honor of sharing my time. There are NO freebies for any of you in the realm of MZ SYDNEY. It does not matter how attractive you think you are(wake up)...it does not matter how many pretty words of devotion you spew if you are not coating them with cold hard cash. Why do you think any woman tolerates you around???? Smell the bacon pork rind,it is all for love of the MONEY. The only value you possess is the presidents in your wallet. Now get off your dead lazy asses,and make yourself useful by sending donations to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Wednesday, May 21, 2014
Appreciation goes to good boys
It is not that often that I take the time to type up a praise blog,but today is the day of luck for a couple of my boys. I was actually sitting out in my porch swing last night thinking about how very similar my two best boys are in demeanor,and in their approach to serving. Neither makes any demands upon me or my time ever. They content themselves with the rewards I deem them worthy of(which never includes nude content),and they make my happiness their own. It is truly beautiful that they want nothing from me other than to please me.
Comparing the both of them I began to see many patterns clearly. Such as,they are both within a couple of years age range (late 40's). Neither are married. They own their own homes,and make a very decent living. A couple of hours separates them distance wise,which places both within feasible distance to serve me real time. Neither denies me anything I ask for,whether it be cash,gifts,or even the infliction of pain and humiliation upon their persons. A day never passes where I do not open my inbox to see messages awaiting me from them,nor do I doubt at any time that I am the priority within their lives.
It is a delicious power trip knowing that I am treated as a Goddess deserves by these males. This is why I will NEVER settle for just any male. I have been spoiled with REAL service,so second rate attempts simply do not phase nor interest me. I would be doing myself a disservice by taking under my wing anyone whom has no desire to give me their best. Sure many have the ability to tribute(even those that don't follow through with it),but too many lack the ambition and selfless desire to give up their personal agendas. Think about it,how many males do you know that think only with their dick,or what they are going to get out of a situation,especially one where they are parting with currency? I am a betting woman,so I am willing to venture forth the opinion that it is a rare breed that will do so.
Needless to say,I am exceedingly pleased with the males whom serve me,and they receive notice of my appreciation in many forms,and upon many days. This is not to say that I am not open to welcoming more boys into my stable,but I will not do so unless they meet the standards which my favorites set the bar for,so before you come to me begging with your wallet open,check your self,and your motives for doing so.
Comparing the both of them I began to see many patterns clearly. Such as,they are both within a couple of years age range (late 40's). Neither are married. They own their own homes,and make a very decent living. A couple of hours separates them distance wise,which places both within feasible distance to serve me real time. Neither denies me anything I ask for,whether it be cash,gifts,or even the infliction of pain and humiliation upon their persons. A day never passes where I do not open my inbox to see messages awaiting me from them,nor do I doubt at any time that I am the priority within their lives.
It is a delicious power trip knowing that I am treated as a Goddess deserves by these males. This is why I will NEVER settle for just any male. I have been spoiled with REAL service,so second rate attempts simply do not phase nor interest me. I would be doing myself a disservice by taking under my wing anyone whom has no desire to give me their best. Sure many have the ability to tribute(even those that don't follow through with it),but too many lack the ambition and selfless desire to give up their personal agendas. Think about it,how many males do you know that think only with their dick,or what they are going to get out of a situation,especially one where they are parting with currency? I am a betting woman,so I am willing to venture forth the opinion that it is a rare breed that will do so.
Needless to say,I am exceedingly pleased with the males whom serve me,and they receive notice of my appreciation in many forms,and upon many days. This is not to say that I am not open to welcoming more boys into my stable,but I will not do so unless they meet the standards which my favorites set the bar for,so before you come to me begging with your wallet open,check your self,and your motives for doing so.
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