Friday, October 26, 2012
Thursday, October 25, 2012
One of the biggest mistakes I note when dealing with males new to the
lifestyle is a lack of patience. Once they have indeed found the niche
where they belong, immediately they are overcome with a desire to be
instantly owned, which is not feasible nor advisable, for the path to servitude should
be traversed without haste. Of course males are guided by their libido,
and this sends their senses reeling when they are besieged daily by
images of tits and bits, thereby increasing the blood flow to their mini
member, which leads to them pledging fealty to the females whose physical
attributes impress them most. This is almost always a mistake in the
making, for it takes time to come to know another, and if all you know
is the physical, then any relationship D's or other is doomed, take note I said
"relationship", which does not apply to a great many of the strictly
fetish boys, for they are in it to get off and get out.
The more experienced males know exactly what I am referring to, but it is the newest boys that have no clue, whom fall into this type of behavior which earns them a title that is not meant to be used kindly (slut). Do not fear to take your time before jumping into the fray. There is nothing wrong with sitting back on the sidelines until you prepared to approach a lady that is a match to your needs. Being submissive does not equate to being weak and spineless,so cease acting like it does.
The more experienced males know exactly what I am referring to, but it is the newest boys that have no clue, whom fall into this type of behavior which earns them a title that is not meant to be used kindly (slut). Do not fear to take your time before jumping into the fray. There is nothing wrong with sitting back on the sidelines until you prepared to approach a lady that is a match to your needs. Being submissive does not equate to being weak and spineless,so cease acting like it does.
Monday, October 22, 2012
Struggles with submission
Many males that I speak with and have previously spoken with confide that at
one point in time they have struggled with what is inherently
within them. Being submissive to a female is not considered proper in
society, therefore any whom publicly declare it are labelled outside the
"norm", or a freak of nature. I am sure that all who engage in this
lifestyle know what it is to be different, to share in desires that
others find distasteful, odd, or downright immoral. There is not even a guarantee that they will not be judged within the lifestyle, for there are many that display a condescending attitude towards those that participate in fetishes that they themselves do not understand nor share.
The key is in accepting who you are, and embracing that which you need to be at peace with yourself. What others think of you matters not in the larger scope of life as they are not the ones that walk your path. Never forget that our greatest regrets in life come from not that which we did, but that which we did not do, due to fear.
Do not doubt that your resolve will be tested to some degree, and this is why it requires strength to remain true to your goals. The path of submission is not lined with roses, nor is it for the feint of heart. Insecurities are bound to rear their ugly head, especially when you are surrounded by those that have no comprehension of what it is to possess the heart and soul of a sub/slave/pet. Even those who mean well, will attempt to convert you to their version of "normal". Just remember that you are as you were meant to be, and that does not change even if you are able to suppress your submission for a period of time.
My point being, be proud of what you are, and the purpose you serve.
The key is in accepting who you are, and embracing that which you need to be at peace with yourself. What others think of you matters not in the larger scope of life as they are not the ones that walk your path. Never forget that our greatest regrets in life come from not that which we did, but that which we did not do, due to fear.
Do not doubt that your resolve will be tested to some degree, and this is why it requires strength to remain true to your goals. The path of submission is not lined with roses, nor is it for the feint of heart. Insecurities are bound to rear their ugly head, especially when you are surrounded by those that have no comprehension of what it is to possess the heart and soul of a sub/slave/pet. Even those who mean well, will attempt to convert you to their version of "normal". Just remember that you are as you were meant to be, and that does not change even if you are able to suppress your submission for a period of time.
My point being, be proud of what you are, and the purpose you serve.
Sunday, October 21, 2012
25 days til my birthday
25 Days til my BIRTHDAY ^_^ I suggest you get shopping now,or sending amazon gift cards will please me as well to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Get with for I will be keeping track of who spoils me and who does not.
Get with for I will be keeping track of who spoils me and who does not.
Friday, October 19, 2012
birds of a feather
As the saying goes "birds of a feather flock together", and this is generally a factual statement within the lifestyle setting, yet fairly rare within the findom fetish. This is a point that some may disparage, but I find it to be quite accurate from my standpoint. I am not stating that it is 100% of the time, nor that the entirety of all individuals behave in non congenial manners. There is a level of competition in findom that is apparent even to outsiders. A back biting, catty, nail scratching mentality that screams throughout the sites.
Why do I believe this to be contained to this particular fetish, well as this is the only fetish entrenched in a commodity that individuals need to survive, it would stand to reason that it is also a fetish that attracts those who are in desperate straits to obtain it, which leads people to act in a manner that would be abnormal to those that are not in need of financial assist. Behaviors included but not limited to chasing down males, begging for attention and $, and a willingness to bow down to male dictates in desperation of the almighty $.
Some may refer to it as being old fashioned by sitting back and allowing the males to come kneel at your feet like the Goddess you are, yet it has been proven through the ages that this is exactly what males desire. A prime example is Cleopatra. Did she run to Cesar, no she was a female that used her wiles to bring him to her instead. It has been proven that males savor the chase which an intelligent woman realizes. She knows that she has no need to lower herself to the levels of male behavior. Of course all have the right to act in accordance of their own desires, and the views reflected are my own.
Why do I believe this to be contained to this particular fetish, well as this is the only fetish entrenched in a commodity that individuals need to survive, it would stand to reason that it is also a fetish that attracts those who are in desperate straits to obtain it, which leads people to act in a manner that would be abnormal to those that are not in need of financial assist. Behaviors included but not limited to chasing down males, begging for attention and $, and a willingness to bow down to male dictates in desperation of the almighty $.
Some may refer to it as being old fashioned by sitting back and allowing the males to come kneel at your feet like the Goddess you are, yet it has been proven through the ages that this is exactly what males desire. A prime example is Cleopatra. Did she run to Cesar, no she was a female that used her wiles to bring him to her instead. It has been proven that males savor the chase which an intelligent woman realizes. She knows that she has no need to lower herself to the levels of male behavior. Of course all have the right to act in accordance of their own desires, and the views reflected are my own.
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Monday, October 15, 2012
something that made me smile
As this is my blog, I wanted to post a little something that made me smile. My pet was given the task of composing a poem in my honor, which pleased me greatly in that he put forth time and effort into the completion of that set before him.
Goddess is someone for whom I care
and obey and submit as is my desire
she demands obediance as is her right
and I endevour to please for that is my pleasure
The desire to please her grows
Even as my submission expands
My desire to meet the task grows
Her pleasure at my success is my own pleasure
As the caretaker of her cock
it is Goddess's pleasure to have it locked
For her enjoyment she teases
My enjoyment is as she pleases.
She keeps me as her locked cuck
At home in his device and panties
While she enjoys the deeds of love
as others she allows into her panties
Goddess is someone for whom I care
and obey and submit as is my desire
she demands obediance as is her right
and I endevour to please for that is my pleasure
The desire to please her grows
Even as my submission expands
My desire to meet the task grows
Her pleasure at my success is my own pleasure
As the caretaker of her cock
it is Goddess's pleasure to have it locked
For her enjoyment she teases
My enjoyment is as she pleases.
She keeps me as her locked cuck
At home in his device and panties
While she enjoys the deeds of love
as others she allows into her panties
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