One of the biggest mistakes I note when dealing with males new to the lifestyle is a lack of patience. Once they have indeed found the niche where they belong, immediately they are overcome with a desire to be instantly owned, which is not feasible nor advisable, for the path to servitude should be traversed without haste. Of course males are guided by their libido, and this sends their senses reeling when they are besieged daily by images of tits and bits, thereby increasing the blood flow to their mini member, which leads to them pledging fealty to the females whose physical attributes impress them most. This is almost always a mistake in the making, for it takes time to come to know another,  and if all you know is the physical, then any relationship D's or other is doomed, take note I said "relationship", which does not apply to a great many of the strictly fetish boys, for they are in it to get off and get out.

The more experienced males know exactly what I am referring to, but it is the newest boys that have no clue,  whom fall into this type of behavior which earns them a title that is not meant to be used kindly (slut). Do not fear to take your time before jumping into the fray. There is nothing wrong with sitting back on the sidelines until you prepared to approach a lady that is a match to your needs. Being submissive does not equate to being weak and spineless,so cease acting like it does.