birds of a feather

 As the saying goes "birds of a feather flock together", and this is generally a factual statement within the lifestyle setting, yet fairly rare within the findom fetish. This is a point that some may disparage, but I find it to be quite accurate from my standpoint. I am not stating that it is 100% of the time, nor that the entirety of all individuals behave in non congenial manners. There is a level of competition in findom that is apparent even to outsiders. A back biting, catty, nail scratching mentality that screams throughout the sites.

 Why do I believe this to be contained to this particular fetish, well as this is the only fetish entrenched in a commodity that individuals need to survive, it would stand to reason that it is also a fetish that attracts those who are in desperate straits to obtain it, which leads people to act in a manner that would be abnormal to those that are not in need of financial assist. Behaviors included but not limited to chasing down males, begging for attention and $, and a willingness to bow down to male dictates in desperation of  the almighty $.

Some may refer to it as being old fashioned by sitting back and allowing the males to come kneel at your feet like the Goddess you are, yet it has been proven through the ages that this is exactly what males desire. A prime example is Cleopatra. Did she run to Cesar, no she was a female that used her wiles to bring him to her instead.  It has been proven that males savor the chase which an intelligent woman realizes. She knows that she has no need to lower herself to the levels of male behavior. Of course all have the right to act in accordance of their own desires, and the views reflected are my own.