Monday, October 22, 2012

Struggles with submission

Many males that I speak with and have previously spoken with confide that at one point in time they have struggled with what is inherently within them. Being submissive to a female is not considered proper in society, therefore any whom publicly declare it are labelled outside the "norm", or a freak of nature. I am sure that all who engage in this lifestyle know what it is to be different, to share in desires that others find distasteful, odd, or downright immoral. There is not even a guarantee that they will not be judged within the lifestyle, for there are many that display a condescending attitude towards those that participate in fetishes that they themselves do not understand nor share.

The key is in accepting who you are, and embracing that which you need to be at peace with yourself. What others think of you matters not in the larger scope of life as they are not the ones that walk your path. Never forget that our greatest regrets in life come from not that which we did, but that which we did not do, due to fear.

Do not doubt that your resolve will be tested to some degree, and this is why it requires strength to remain true to your goals. The path of submission is not lined with roses, nor is it for the feint of heart. Insecurities are bound to rear their ugly head, especially when you are surrounded by those that have no comprehension of what it is to possess the heart and soul of a sub/slave/pet. Even those who mean well, will attempt to convert you to their version of "normal". Just remember that you are as you were meant to be, and that does not change even if you are able to suppress your submission for a period of time.

My point being, be proud of what you are, and the purpose you serve.


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