Undesirable behaviors part 1

There are a multitude of undesirable behaviors I have personally seen males and females alike throughout the scene perpetrate, which need to be called to the carpet in order for change to be effected. Sans action there can be no positive reaction, and as the figureheads for femdom we are responsible for eradicating those that simply do not belong at the feet of any dominant woman. I have compiled a list of those actions that I note to be most offensive. Due to the length of detailing them all at one time, I will instead spread them out over the course of a few posts. 1)Lying. To be honest this behavior has taken root on both sides of the fence, which means that we ladies should set the example for integrity. It would be considered within the realm of hypocrisy if a lady demands absolute honesty from her boys, yet she lies about "supposed" tributes she receives, the number of males she has serving, or even her level of experience. The males that comprise the majority of subs/slaves/atms etc.. are not suffering from a diminished intelligence quotient, therefore to blissfully bask in your ability to deceitfully pull the wool over their eyes is outright ignorance. Boys that have been in the lifestyle for awhile are capable of detecting bullshit just as the ladies do, so if you are incapable of leading as a Domme is expected, or following the lead of a Domme, then you have no place in a femdom society whether it be online or real time. Lying ladies leave the door open for no accounts to plague other females with the trite game playing of "how do I know you are real", so do us all a favor, and either be real about yourself, or be gone. To flip the coin, boys if any of you new or old think that you are fooling anyone with your cock and bull tales, then it is you who needs to wake up. The only chance in hell you have of gaining the time of a female with such weak ass lines is if the lady in question is brand spanking new to the scene. Yes we are all aware that being new = fresh meat for worn out tactics, such as " I need you to cam verify for free that you are a female, I want to get to know you before I tribute, real Dommes do not require tribute(they do it for love of the fetish), I get paid on Friday, so can you give me all of your time til then, so that when you never hear from me again,you will feel like a fool, oh lest not we forget the one that always seems to work with newbies, I am going to purchase an item from your wish list, which will indeed show up as being bought, so now the female gives them a session, and once concluded the male then cancels the order" This is the type of shit that every new lady is besieged with. Time to break the cycle don't you think???