Undesirable behaviors part 3

Self-centered... Hmmm how many males within the scene can be described as behaving in such a manner? A prime example would be those that do not tribute unless a Domme is going to do something which makes his puke stick flow...ie the whole "what's in it for me" approach. Ladies do beware of these type of boys for they are essentially the sluts of the scene, their loyalty lies only with that limp bit of flesh between their legs. Hell, how many people do you know in your everyday life that are so wrapped up within their own individualistic bubble, that the cares, desires, and needs of others bears no meaning for them? Their own agendas set towards the benefit of 1, and only 1 (themselves). They cannot grasp how pleasure can be derived from serving another. We have deteriorated into a society of hurray for me, and fuck everyone else. This attitude sickens me to the core of my being. Lest anyone consider my viewpoint hypocritical, allow me to point out that I am a lifestyle Domina who practices findom, with the emphasis upon the domination aspect. Granted I will happily control a male's finances, but the root of my pleasure stems from tpe. Unfortunately this mindset is an equal opportunity employer when it comes to the sexes. Ask yourself how many times you have read a profile that proclaims to desire nothing from their slaves/subs/pets except their cash. Yes I am aware of the exact definition of financial domination, and that it is defined as a gift of tribute without expectations, but while there are some males whom receive pleasure simply from contributing, they are a rare breed indeed. The truth being that the majority of legitimate subs/slaves/pets actually desire to be dominated in aspects that extend beyond financial. They crave guidance and leadership, a steward of sorts that steers their life with the best of intentions, and if the dominant in question has zero regard for said male, then his enthusiasm towards serving will surely wan until such point that he begins his search anew. This is not to negate the existence of boys who do indeed thrive in an exchange where they are viewed with absolutely no regard as human beings, but like the true finslave, they are rare.