It is phenomenally abyssal when you take the time to add up the number of boys whom bolt when it comes time to commit to serving. I see females asking all of the time "why, why, why?" It tends to knock at the ego if it is a repeating cycle of concurrence. The self doubt will creep in beseeching for an answer in order to alleviate the fear that she is doing something wrong. I mean it is human nature to blame another when possible right, so it could not conceivably be the woman at fault could it? Not entirely accurate, atleast not each and every time.
Reasons and explanations as to why this action occurs vary and merge at times in each case, so in order for me to convey the truth which I myself estimate to be feasible, then the blinds must be raised, and the curtains thrown wide open for public viewing.
Studies and research have proven to us that there is an entire segment of males whom suffer from a commitment phobia, and that my reader is reflected well within the scene by the sheer number of "sluts" and "community whores" which we see daily. They cannot or consciously will not remain under a Domme's thumb when they begin to feel as if they could become attached. The rules for engaging this type of male are a tricky road to tread. The most prudent course of action is to recognize the signs early within the interaction which should be revealed when questioned as to past service length and an accounting as to why their term was severed,and by whom. (hint) They tend to place the disintegration of the relationship squarely upon the Domme's shoulders they were in service to rather than upon their own actions or lack thereof. This class of boy may indeed be fun to play for a limited interim, but beware if you harbor presumptions that you may be the one to change them, for unless you are a therapist, then you are slamming your head against a brick wall (ouch).
Another scenario is the one where things are moving at a speed rival to the arrival of light. I am sure that all know what I am referring to. How easily a male falls in lust, not love mind you (entirely different animal for flogging). Their wank flapper gets riled and we are off to the races so to speak. One minute they are promising eternal devotion,and voila the next day they have flown away with puff the magic dragon. This sort is best handled in a calm and detached manner sans allowing their desires to spiral the situation out of your control, otherwise they will behave in future towards you as they would a blind date their mother sat up (polite, distant, and unequivocally uninterested).
Onto the next type. Hard to believe that a certain set of boys actually seek out a D's relationship which is not based solely upon the "fin" side. This is not to say that they do not tribute or have value to a Domme, but if you are strictly a cash counter, then they are going to run for high ground before falling prey to the quicksand.
Now comes the fantasy fellow. His words speak to his intent to become the epitome of servitude perfection (hint) perfection can be trained, but never attained within a day. His goal exists to his benefit only. You are his fantasy which he spins out until it no longer amuses him to play the role...then guess what!! He sneaks away like a thief in the night with your best silver.
Last but not least are the timid toms which expediently note the realization that a Domme does not fit the jello mold of their expectations, and they lack the balls to relay such information, so they pull a Gregory Hines move, and tap dance with excuses off the stage.
The key note of importance to take to heart is that not all males are created equal.
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