Stand and serve

Obviously it is a normal desire within the human psyche to want to be somebody. To matter to another. To be a part of something bigger than ourselves.

A submissive male carries the same yearnings, yet with a tangible twist. A craving to become lost within the commands and control of a dominant. An abiding need to belong to One. No longer alone, but consumed by the fires of a fierce personality.

To many within the findom world this appears to be an easily accomplished task, yet is it? There comes a time where illusions must be stripped away though to reveal what it really takes to belong, to be owned, to know what it is to truly become submissive to another being. Shall we dispel some of the major misconceptions?

You cannot buy your way into heaven much less into being owned period. If you could, would it be worth it? An empty unearned honor. Of course the fact that finances are involved leads some to this misguided belief. If all findom was based upon was money, then every male with two nickels to rub together would be property, yet we all know this is not factual now don't we? It takes so much more than physical currency to become that which a servile male is meant to be. Expecting to sit upon your dead ass dick in hand while you fork over the cash will never be enough.

Like all things in life worth having, becoming owned is a challenge, no easily paved road. A presence of mind which drives you to your limits physically, mentally, and emotionally. How is any human being to appreciate a relationship which has not been worked towards? They simply will not. The ones that do come easy are most times taken for granted and undervalued which leads to their ultimate destruction.

Success in service is based upon your will to succeed. You know that old saying "no guts, no glory"?  It applies quite well in this instance, for if you are not willing to go all in, then you need to go home. A half ass application will produce nothing of value. The words I relay are not hidden ancient secrets ferreted away like those of the dead sea scrolls just now playing out in the light of day. These are notations that all with a semblance of intelligence should know, so come forth and prove by your actions that you are driven to submit your will, your ego, your sense of self to the pinnacle of subservience.

I know that people hold faith in the saying that good things come to those whom wait, but I tell you now that it is most often what we feared doing and held off that becomes our dearest regret. Circumstances and fate do come along to bite us in the ass if we dither, so I bid you swallow the bitter bile of fear, and rise up to meet your destiny which is solely as a vassal to a superior Domina.