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"Goddess why does no Domme want me?"

If you are one of those who has no Domme to call their own in the findom realm,you must accept that the blame lays with you,your actions,your lack of action,for you are the one constant factor. To all it is visible why you are not in service,yet you yourself seem unable to accept the fault.

In a sea full of fetishists bent upon their own purpose,you need to recognize one thing..a fetishist serves themselves alone. They hold none above their own libido. They care not for the happiness or comfort of any than themselves. They come only to cum,so if this is your agenda,than do not complain of your lot. Your only attraction is in your wallet when it comes to service providers,and they are the only who shall allow you to grace their inbox.

Many of you state that you are here to serve,but you are lying to only yourself,for a dominant woman of experience knows your agenda after your first words appear upon her screen. I advise those of you who claim the title of submissive to honestly look to your motivations. If what you seek is your own pleasure,and satisfaction,than absolutely do not attach that title to yourself. Do not make attempts to infringe upon the time of one who accepts only those with a submissive soul.

Serving a Domme is not for the meek. One must let go of all selfishness. They must be willing to devote their time and energy towards seeing to the joy of the one they serve. They must base their own pleasure and happiness upon her's. The world as they knew it no longer revolves around themselves,but upon her whims and wants. Therefore the phrases "I want","I would like you to" no longer even enter their mind,much less depart their tongue of fingertips. They do not ask for sessions(sessions are for fetishists,not submissives). Instead they hope,pray,and bide their time awaiting her presence. They go beyond out of their way to make sure that she is not burdened by their presence. How is this accomplished...well this is exactly where findom comes into place. If you are contributing to her life financially,than she will have less concerns,and be more likely to look upon you kindly. Sending her gifts without any expectations will being a smile to her face,and should warm your heart with happiness. If you cannot contribute to her life in such a manner,than do be a better person by keeping yourself unknown,and worshiping from afar til you are in a position to do so.

Let go of yourself,and immerse yourself in herself.