Can the rhetoric verbiage

As the title of this post implies, please do can all of the rhetorical verbiage some of you seem intent upon relaying. Alas many of you do not know that which I refer to, but I am here to show you the light.

When you are approaching a dominant Woman for the first time, why is it that a great many of you feel the need to spread the compliments like halloween candy? Has someone led you to believe that Ladies such as myself suffer from self-esteem issues, or that we are transformed into a puddle of mush upon hearing how lovely you find us, as if we did not know our own worth. One of the most beautiful qualities which a dominant Lady should possess is a sense of pride within herself. She knows that she is a breathing work of art in form and face, and that her mind is her greatest gift. Therefore when you contact her commenting on how gorgeous she is, you are definitely not telling her something that she has not heard over and over, and that slots you in with the nyquil crowd...you know, the ones whom put you to sleep.

This means that you are going to have to put some thought into what you say, rather than going the easy generic route. In most cases a small initial tribute is going to garner you a degree of notice way faster than sending a message which reads "hey beautiful",or "you are sexy",and let's be honest here, if you cannot afford to offer what I would deem a trivial tribute, then you truly should not be here, but on the other hand, breaking the bank is not going to get you any further if you do not have the intellect to hold up your end of a conversation.

As to what I mean by a "conversation"...a strictly vanilla one is what I am referencing. I myself do not care to sit around all day typing back and forth about kink...nope just not wired that way. It would bore me to tears in no time. If your interest is focused purely on the subjects which get you off, then are you really serving me? I do not think so, and that just is not submission in my book, which is what you are supposed to be offering yes??

One of the most original things you can do to keep the attention of a female, is be honest. Be truthful about who and what you are, then relay that in a manner a normal human being would comprehend. Be willing to share your interests outside of bdsm. Be open to communicating in a non-sexual context (after all this is not a bar, and one liners just won't cut it). Be able to treat the women you contact with respect, not like a piece of meat, or inanimate object. Think of reaching out as you would like that as if on a speed date (except recognize that no way in hell are getting any nookie) ,meaning that you should convey details pertaining to yourself in the same way that you would if you were sitting at a table looking the Lady in the eye when you are stone cold sober.

Take my advice gents...get original, or get tossed to into the ditches of deletion :)