One of the recurring questions you will see posed on any financial domination forum is,"how do I find slaves", and whilst I do not have a tried and true, absolute guaranteed methodology to offer, I can tell you how to spot the manure before it has time to ferment, thereby saving time, which would have otherwise been wasted.
Behavior of a time waster
1)They will effusively compliment you. Now of course it is simply good manners to praise a Lady, but it can be overboard, such as "you are the most gorgeous woman in the world"(overkill). Their compliments may as well include sexual undertones, or hints of sexually objectifying you ie "your tits, ass, pussy, make me so hard" "i want to jack off looking at you". I realize that some ladies enjoy using their bodies to ensnare the male senses ,and I say whatever works for you go for it, but remember this, if all they see you as is a sexual object, than they will not view you as a real human being, one that lives, breathes, gets ill, has bad days etc...and how can you expect or exact respect when all you are is a tool of sexual gratification in their eyes (wank fodder)?
2)They will brag about how much money they make, or possessions they have. This is a huge red flag, because this is not something people ordinarily bring up immediately, and those that boast tend to prevaricate. It is fairly easy to aver that one is flush with riches, all the while sitting in their parents basement, so be wary of those that attempt this ploy. The best way to avoid this trap is to operate under the saying of "money talks, and bullshit walks", so if they cannot offer even a token tribute for your time, then exercise your block button.
3)They will attempt to get you to cam verify. Of course there are exceptions to this, and yes there are some legitimate submissives who will ask you to verify, but they are also the ones that are willing to tithe you for the honor beforehand, so keep in mind that anytime you are asked to cam verify that you are possibly going to be wasting time as they sit back plucking their puke stick. One of the ways I judge the situation is, if the male in question has offered to do all sorts of activities for you prior to tribute being mentioned, but demands a cam verify once tribute is mentioned, than they are most likely a waster.
4)They will question you as to what you would do in a given situation, this is a classic ploy. "what would you do to my cock during cbt" "how would you tease and deny me". These males are best left to their own devices (rosie palm, and her 5 sisters), and far away from your inbox.
5)They will right out of the box insult you in some manner or form in the hopes that you will relinquish your control and tear them a new asshole, effectively providing them with humiliation and degradation. It is sincerely not worth the time you would spend typing up a scathing reply. I rarely respond to such, but I have been known to wish them a lovely day before I block them. Killing them with kindness is a bitch to their agenda.
6)They will send you unsolicited penis pics (just ewww). Any male that disrespects you, and yes this is disrespectful, is only playing to their own agenda, rather than seeking to serve, so it is best not to respond at all to them.
7)They will attempt to ingratiate themselves into your life as a "friend", and of course blatantly or subtly try to coerce details out of you, such as how you dominate males, or what you have done to other males. They want to live vicariously through those that have served, without ever serving.
These tips apply to all Dommes across the board, regardless of being into financial domination or not. Never forget that you are here to be served, rather than serve, and if you fall prey to a time waster, than you are serving them. Most of us have fallen prey to these scenarios when we were new so, do not beat yourself up if it has happened to you. All of us have been new at one time or another, and had to learn the hard way.
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