A Real Dominant

I came across a profile this morning,and it got me thinking about just how much I detest seeing the words I seen posted upon it,which I will so kindly share with you my readers. "If you are a real dominant you will message me"

Now honestly this is lazy and humorous. Lazy because it blatantly declares that this person expects a "real dominant" to search them out like a crown jewel,and humorous because he obviously has no idea what a "real dominant" actually is. Is this a commonly shared fallacy amongst males in the fetish scene,and if so,where did it originate? Do you gents honestly expect a Domme to "hit you up" just because you posted a profile on a kink site? Do you believe that you are such a prize that women will rush to your inbox to claim you? Do you think yourself a special snowflake? I wonder if this male has even noted that there are thousands of males on the internet claiming to be submissive,and in search of a woman to dominate them. What is it about him specifically that will force Dommes to flock to him? I can answer that one,NOTHING.

A "real dominant" is not going to spend their time tracking down males. A "real dominant" has confidence in themselves and their ability to attract submissives without hunting them down like prey. A "real dominant" does not go hitting up males like a desperate beggar,and let's be real,if a dominant has to go chasing after submissives,than they are not dominant at all. This is especially true when it comes to findom. A woman that needs a male's money is apt to chase,but one that doesn't will just replace. So,you tell me,will a "real dominant" pop into your inbox declaring her dominance,and profess her desire to have you for her own? Do the world population a favor,and hold your breath til that happens for you :)

Laziness seems to be a common trend for males,especially in Financial Domination. These males are spoiled with attention,and absolutely used to females vying for their favor and franklins. This is not domination though. These type of interactions are based upon financial gain only. These females do not care to dominate anything but your wallet,but than considering that most males seek their own gratification only,this actually works out quite well for both parties. She gets paid,and they get to jack off,win win eh? Honestly this is going to work out well 9/10 times,but that other time it is going to backfire badly. Why? Well believe it or not,some women do not give a damn about male orgasms,and actually expect to be served,to have her wants placed first,and your dick placed last in the hierarchy,so if you are truly desirous of being dominated,you are going to have to put some effort into it. Horrible is it not that some women require sweat from your efforts instead of semen? How dare they!!

The entire point being,stop being a lazy shit,and be prepared to redefine what a "real dominant" is.